If Husband has need of his wife sexually while the children are still awake, he may send her with a subtle gesture or word to the master suite at such a time as it is feasible, and quickly use her mouth, pussy, or ass. At this time, she may not come unless she can do so on her own in the time Husband takes to reach climax. She may not be distracted from pleasuring Husband to find her own release. Doing so is grounds for Level 1 punishment, and will not be tolerated as time is of the essence during these daytime interludes.
If the wife wishes to go out in the evening to run errands, or for a girls night out with her friends, permission must be asked for at least a week in advance and if granted, the outing must be noted on the family calendar. Only one such outing will be permitted a month. Again, the wife must be reachable at all times by cell phone. Outings with male friends, either married or single, are not permitted. Outings with mixed company, a girlfriend and her partner, for example, may be permitted at Husband’s discretion. Husband will plan regular, fun nights out with wife to bond as a couple and spend time outside the home without the children, and will endeavor to limit late nights at work.
Nighttime Availability:
As soon as the children are asleep, the wife is considered wholly sexually available, and remains sexually available until the children are awake again. This availability is assumed and not asked for. The Husband may or may not make use of his wife, but she is to be prepared for usage either way. Details of the wife’s sexual duties are explained in greater detail in the
Sexual Service
section.
When the Husband is out of town, the wife is to check in nightly before bed (prior to 11 o’clock). At this time, if Husband desires, she will engage in phone sex. At the conclusion of the phone conversation or phone sex, Husband may direct his wife to insert a dildo or butt plug or both (if not already inserted during phone sex) and wear the required hardware all night to remind her that her body is his, even when he is not available to make use of her holes. The wife will sleep with the phone by her bedside in case Husband wants to reach her overnight. In the rare event that wife is out of town without Husband, she will adhere to these same requirements as much as possible, and is responsible for taking along the equipment she will need to comply.
The Husband and wife will endeavor to make like-minded friends with other couples and live a fun, social life.
Female Friends:
The Husband will allow the wife to make friends he is not personally familiar with (ie, moms at school, online friends) as long as they are female. The Husband will trust the wife to use good judgment in choosing female friends that are supportive, moral, and trustworthy. The wife will avoid befriending women who are disrespectful, loose, or offensive in manner or dress.
Male Friends:
Male friends will be permitted only if the correspondence and interaction with such males is project or career related. Casual male friends are not permitted unless they are trusted and well-known friends of the Husband.
Online Friends:
The Husband will be provided with a regularly updated list of all internet sites the wife visits and chats on, with current password, nicknames, user IDs, etc, and the email addresses at which notifications are received. Visiting sites unknown to Husband, chatting under secret IDs, or maintaining secret email accounts is a serious breach of trust and will be considered a Level 3 offense.
The Husband will work very hard to provide a safe and beautiful home in which the wife can serve him and raise the children. The wife will show her appreciation for this kindness by being a conscientious and careful housekeeper.
The Harmonious Home
:
The Husband will endeavor, as much as possible, to leave the stresses of the outside world at the door. The Husband will treat the wife with patience and kindness at all times, and not vent frustrations on the children or wife.
In turn, the wife will be expected to greet the Husband promptly upon arrival, putting aside any inane tasks in order to graciously welcome him home.
Housework:
The wife is expected to keep a clean and well-organized home. The Husband does not wish to micromanage these areas, but expects household tasks to be conscientiously and routinely done. Returning home from work to find the house a shambles due to the wife wasting time online or due to poor time management will be considered a Level 1 offense. Shoddy keeping of the house and inconveniences to Husband (un-ironed clothes, dirty kitchen or bathrooms, children late for school) will also result in Level 1 discipline, unless the wife is not inclined to quickly correct the problem, in which case Level 2 discipline will be applied.
Cooking and Entertaining:
The wife is expected to cook healthy meals at least three times a week, and will be permitted to order in three days a week after consulting with Husband about which type of food sounds best. The wife will keep an organized bank of current takeout menus. One day a week Husband and wife will dine out as a family.
On occasion, the Husband will invite work acquaintances or family friends to parties or dinners. The wife will be expected to arrange these affairs to reflect well on the family and ensure the enjoyment of the guests. The wife is free to make use of catering services if she so desires.
Budgeting and Financial Responsibility:
The wife will pay bills, budget, and manage the household as efficiently as possible. The wife will be expected to account for all expenditures. Any personal expenditures exceeding _____ will need to be approved by Husband even if the money is coming from the wife’s personal spending allowance.
Furthermore, the wife is expected to spend money as it is earmarked. Money given for clothing or lingerie is not permitted to be spent on lunches with friends, books, or movies. Money budgeted for food or children’s clothing is not to be spent on paying off credit card charges, etc. Responsibility and transparency in the household budget is stringently required.
Requests for special allowances or budgetary changes will be considered by Husband if asked. Mismanaging the bills, running up the charge card, or overrunning the budget without permission earns a Level 2 or 3 punishment, depending on the seriousness of the offense.
Sexuality shall be a treasured part of the marriage, and as far as possible, marital intimacy will not be pushed aside due to work pressures, the demands of rearing children, or stress. Well-satisfied marital partners are more likely to feel fulfilled in marriage, and less likely to stray. Nightly sexual activity also helps dispel stress, and maintains the intimacy so important to a strong marital partnership.
Sexual Service:
The wife is expected to keep her body in prime condition to give satisfying sexual service to her Husband, nightly if required. This sexual service is a great part of Husband’s enjoyment of life as a fulfilled male. Sexually pleasing her Husband in all ways will be an ongoing and serious endeavor undertaken by the wife. Sexual service to the Husband will include regular oral, vaginal, and anal sex as well as bdsm activities, use of toys, “funishment,” bondage, role play, humiliation and objectification, and any other scenes and activities as desired. The wife will read and study about sexual practices and kink and know her own body well so as to please and excite her Husband to the fullest possible extent. The Husband will endeavor always to bring similar sexual fulfillment to his wife.
At her Husband’s word or signal, when the children are ascertained to be asleep, the wife will retire to the bedroom and dress in pleasing lingerie to prepare for sexual service, unless directed to present nude. The wife will wait for Husband’s arrival on her knees with her head bowed, unless directed over the bed or in some other position. The wife will wait with her mind solely on her Husband, not her own needs, other worldly concerns or things on her mind. Upon her Husband’s arrival, the wife will wait for directions, or if directions are not forthcoming, will pliantly respond to gestures or prods.
Oral sex:
The wife is expected to submit to all forms of pleasuring Husband orally, to include routine fellatio with and without the use of her hands, deep-throating, throat- or face-fucking, oral cock worship, tea bagging, rimming, and swallowing without distaste or reluctance whatever fluids Husband releases in her mouth. The wife will continuously study new techniques and talk with other women about oral proficiency to always improve her ability to service her Husband’s cock.
Vaginal sex:
The wife is expected to keep her body fit and limber and employ the use of kegel exercises and/or Ben Wa balls to strength her pubic muscles and vaginal passage in order to maximize Husband’s enjoyment of her pussy. For Husband’s pleasure, the wife is to thoroughly familiarize herself with the Kama3D.org website. She is to memorize Husband’s preferred sexual positions illustrated there by number and name to the point that Husband can demand either number or name and she will position herself as required. Failure to assume the correct position will require a Level 1 punishment and, the following day, after further study, the wife will be asked to perform an exhibition of the female’s part of each position by number and name to prove she has learned them by heart.
After vaginal sex, the wife is never to jump up to bathe, shower, wipe up, or otherwise rid herself of Husband’s seed. Should any of her Husband’s jism leak from her pussy onto her labia or inner thighs the wife’s choices are to leave it as it is, rub it reverently into her thighs and cunt lips, or collect it on her fingers and lick them clean.
Anal sex:
The wife is expected to submit to regular use of her asshole for Husband’s pleasure. As her Husband does not enjoy an overly slippery asshole, lubricant will be used in miniscule quantities, if at all. Therefore, the wife is obliged to learn and employ mental and physical relaxation techniques in order to open her ass for Husband’s cock and minimize his need to cause her pain.
If the Husband plans to enjoy the wife’s ass very vigorously, he will plug her beforehand for up to an hour to prepare her for rough use. The wife will not be expected to prepare with enemas and douching as Husband will often take wife’s ass as the mood strikes him and without much advance notice. The wife is expected to practice excellent hygiene in this area, however, and eat such healthy, high fiber foods as to ensure her ass is in good, clean, available working order for her Husband’s usage at any time.
Bdsm, sex games, funishment, and scening:
A creative and ever-evolving sex life is important to the well-being and satisfaction of both partners, so new and challenging bedroom games, scenes, funishments, and power dynamics shall be experimented with on a regular basis. The Husband is to initiate these new dynamics and the wife is to accept and willingly participate in all initiated activities except those that cross her hard limits. The wife may share suggestions and fantasies after asking Husband’s permission, if she feels they might arouse and interest him, but the final decision to add any new activities to the sexual repertoire will be Husband’s alone.
Above all, the wife must be open and willing to submit to all sexual requests, and will not pull away, refuse, or communicate distaste for anything Husband chooses to do to his wifely property behind closed and locked doors.
Female sexual control and orgasm
:
Unless directed otherwise, the wife is free to express in words and sounds her pleasure, fear, excitement, or pain, and in fact is encouraged to do so, unless she is directed to be silent and/or gagged. In the case of Husband taking his wife in hotels, guest homes, etc, the wife may be ordered to silence and in that case, will be expected to do whatever is necessary to muffle her moans, begging, dirty talking, groans of pleasure, and/or screams.
If directed, the wife will build to orgasm and come enthusiastically and openly to communicate to her Husband her thanks for that gift. If the wife is told to come, but feels she cannot come, she can inform Husband and he will either decide to allow her not to orgasm, or direct her to continue to try. At these times, the Husband will take into consideration the wife’s physical state, energy level, and possible levels of stress. However, if the wife is withholding orgasm or choosing to “turn off” and not to engage with her Husband sexually for selfish or petty reasons, this is a serious Level 3 offense and will be dealt with as such.
If expressly requested or permitted by Husband, the wife may touch and manipulate herself during sexual encounters; otherwise, the wife is to understand that her body belongs to Husband and its manipulation and pleasure is solely his domain.
If directed not to come for whatever reason, the wife will still endeavor to pleasure her Husband, and if an orgasm approaches and Husband doesn’t notice, she is obliged to do everything in her power not to come, to include warning her Husband that she might come without permission. Failing to do so and coming without permission is a Level 2 offense.
The “faking” of orgasms is patently dishonest and strictly forbidden, being an affront and insult to Husband’s ability to pleasure her. Any attempt to fake an orgasm will be immediately apparent to Husband, as he knows exactly how his wife looks, sounds, and moves when she comes. Any such sexual subterfuge will be considered a serious breach of honesty and a Level 3 offense.
Sexual availability and fidelity:
Any attempt on wife’s part to withhold sexual favors, deny sexual pleasure to Husband, or otherwise refute her status as the Husband’s sexual property is a serious offense and will be corrected by a rigorous and thoroughly intimate punishment to remind the wife of her sexual status (see
Household Discipline
.)