Carry the Ocean: The Roosevelt, Book 1 (12 page)

Emmet smiled, but it was a wicked smile that made my insides jumble up. “I don’t think you should go home. You should come live in an apartment with me.”

I blinked, several times. “Live—in an
apartment
? Are you crazy? I thought you said you couldn’t handle that?”

“No, I’m not crazy. You shouldn’t use that word.” He rocked back and forth, but I could tell it was happy Emmet, not nervous Emmet. “I can’t live in a regular apartment, but Mom found a special kind of place for us to live. You know the old elementary school on the street north of our houses?”

I did—Roosevelt School was an old brick schoolhouse which had closed before I went to kindergarten. People had a huge fit about it closing, and four times people tried to reopen it, but it never did. There had been a lot of construction around it lately. “What about it?”

“They’re turning it into apartments. It’s called The Roosevelt now. It’ll be open soon. I asked to see the blueprints. I didn’t know about how blueprints worked exactly, but I read a book and did some research, and I think they did a good job.” He smiled his mischievous smile. “The Roosevelt was full, but Mom talked the owner into letting us have a room they were using for one of the social workers. They’ll share an apartment so we can have a place in the new building. We could move in there. Together. We could
both
be independent.”

The idea was wonderful and terrible all at once. I didn’t know how to respond. “I don’t have any money, or a job. And neither do you.”

“My mom and dad have a lot of money. They’ll pay for you if they have to. It’s a good idea. It’s a two-room apartment. We could each have our own space. But we’re close to our parents if we need help. Wheatsfield is still within walking distance, and so is the bus stop.”

“But, Emmet, I don’t have any money. And
my
parents will never pay.”

“Dr. North can help you find an appropriate job. Sitting around isn’t healthy. You need to stimulate your brain. Just carefully so you don’t get overwhelmed.”

He made it all sound so easy. He didn’t address at all the boyfriend issue, which to me was the bigger obstacle. It couldn’t be okay to move in together after basically admitting we liked each other for a few weeks. Except who else could I possibly live with? Nobody else would understand me the way Emmet could.

Also, if we lived in the same apartment, we could have sex. The drugs dulled the yearning a little bit, but only when Emmet wasn’t in the room. When he was with me, like right now, talking and planning and being so bright, all I wanted to do was kiss him and touch him.

He touched me now, taking my hand and squeezing it. “Say yes, Jeremey. Say you want to move in with me.”

Yes. I want to move in with you.
“We…we have to talk to Dr. North.”

“We will. At group.” He fixed his gaze on my hairline and touched my cheek. “But it isn’t time for therapy yet.”

Oh, it was—my
favorite
kind of therapy. We sat there on the couch, Emmet holding my hand and kissing me sweetly…then not so sweetly.

Our kisses were never movie kisses with suave bending-you-over, full-body clinches. Sometimes our kisses were awkward. But they were always passionate, and they always made me feel good. They made me
feel
. For as much trouble as I had with Dr. North’s
I want
statements, when Emmet and I kissed, I knew everything I wanted, and I wanted so much it rattled around in my head. I wanted to kiss him. Touch him. Take off his clothes. Explore all the things about sex I’d read about or watched. I wanted to touch his cock. Maybe put it in my mouth.
Do things.

Kissing him now, when he’d filled my head with ideas about living on my own—oh, it couldn’t happen, but being able to dream about not having to go home was better than a whole bag of SNRIs.

To my surprise, when we went to group and Emmet told Dr. North his idea about the apartment, our therapist was in
favor
of the plan. “I was already looking into group home situations for you, Jeremey, but this could work out far better.”

I couldn’t believe this. “But—I don’t have any money. And there’s no way my mom will go along with this.”

“She might surprise you. Even if she didn’t, you can supplement your half of expenses with disability payments, though I’d like to see you begin part-time work. I’d entertain college if it’s what you wanted, but given what you’ve told me about school, a break might not be a bad idea.”

I didn’t want to go to college. I didn’t want anything to do with school ever again. “But…how can it be okay for us to live on our own?”

“You’re both over eighteen,” Dr. North pointed out. “You’re legal adults, and there’s nothing wrong with living on your own, provided you’re given assistance. Your families will help, but you both need case workers as well. Someone to help you learn how to go shopping, pay bills, do laundry. Live your life. And handily, The Roosevelt has
two
social workers on staff.”

I didn’t know what to say. All I could think was how this couldn’t be real. “Are you saying we can do this, just like that?”
Even if we’re boyfriends?
We hadn’t even had a date yet. How could we possibly move in together?

Dr. North smiled sadly. “No. It won’t be quite so easy. But it’s a good idea, one worth exploring.”

We did explore it—two days later I had my first outing in almost a month, and it was to get in Althea’s car and drive to The Roosevelt. There was still a lot of construction outside, which made me nervous to go in, but when they saw us, they took a break, and the building’s owner gave us a personal tour.

Emmet seemed to know him well already. “Did you get the fire ladders, Bob?”

Bob smiled at Emmet. “I did. You can come see them for yourself.” He grinned. “Is this your friend?”

“My boyfriend.” Emmet stared at the wall between us. “Jeremey, this is Bob Loris, the owner of The Roosevelt. Bob, this is Jeremey Samson. We’re going to move into your building.”

“That’s what I keep hearing. I like it.” Bob extended his hand to me. “Good to meet you, son.”

Bob showed us the whole building. It was weird, how you could see how it used to be a school, and yet it looked totally different at the same time. We went into one of the apartments upstairs—number six, which was the one Emmet said he wanted.

“It has a view of the train tracks, so I can count the cars and engines. Bob put in fire ladders for safety. If you jumped out of these windows, you’d break your neck, or your legs, or maybe both. But now we have the ladders, so it’s fine.”

I had to admit, I liked the apartment. A lot. I couldn’t tell what it had been before—maybe two classrooms? It had two bedrooms with a bathroom between them, a small laundry in the closet off the kitchen, and a kitchen and dining room that opened into the living room. The ceilings were so much higher than I’d ever have guessed they’d be. Each room had a ceiling fan, which Emmet would appreciate, because he loved them. The one in his bedroom at home had a remote, and he loved to slow it down, wait until it stopped, then start it up again. I had a feeling he’d be talking Bob into remote-controlled fans, if he hadn’t already.

Emmet kept rocking, and sometimes he flapped his hands. He’d done it around me only a few times, but I was surprised he did it in front of Bob. I glanced between the two of them, worried Bob would stop being so friendly toward him, but it never happened. On the way to the hospital, I found out why.

“Bob is a good guy. He built this place because of his son, who was in a bad car accident and can’t move from his neck down, except for a little bit of his right hand. He wants somewhere for David to live where he can be on his own but still have help.”

The comment made me balk. What, this was the special ed building? But I supposed that’s what I was now. Special ed. Special needs.

Better the special needs house than your home.

As I lay in bed that night, the room dark and quiet, the nurses and aides moving through the hallway, the guy next door to me crying because that was what he did at night—I thought about The Roosevelt.

It still stung a little that it wasn’t a regular apartment building. I wondered who else would live there, what kind of disabilities they’d have. I hated the idea that this was who I was, someone with a disability. That even if I wanted to go to college, I’d have to have adaptations like Emmet did. And I still didn’t understand why everyone was so
whatever
about us moving in together so fast. It wasn’t that I didn’t want to. I just…worried maybe it was too soon.

During the day those truths had burned, but as I lay there in the dark, I closed my eyes and imagined living in The Roosevelt. I imagined looking out at the train tracks with Emmet, enjoying his silence as he counted. Walking down the street to the co-op to buy food. Making dinner in the cozy kitchen.

Having my own room, but sometimes sharing my bed with Emmet.

I thought about having a job. The idea scared me, but excited me too. I loved the idea of getting my own money and making my own choices.

When I imagined telling this to my mother, I got cold inside. But for the first time, the cold feeling wasn’t stronger than the warm one that came with the alternative of living on my own.

Chapter Thirteen

E
mmet

I
had lied a little to Jeremey when I acted like my parents didn’t care if we lived together as boyfriends. It was true, Mom had found The Roosevelt for me, but she was nervous about me living on my own, even assisted. There were other issues too, and they were about finances. It’s not clear whether or not I quality for SSI, which is Supplemental Security Income provided by the government, and health insurance. My mom has always worked for the State of Iowa so they have to pay for me, and until I’m twenty-one they still have to. But once I’m an adult that changes.

Dad pointed out it wouldn’t hurt to have me try living on my own and start the SSI paperwork for me as an adult. Mom said if living on my own didn’t work, I could go home to their house.

I was going to make living on my own work. And I was going to make it work with Jeremey living with me.

The other tricky issue was that my mom was fine about us living together when she thought we were just friends, but now that she knew we were dating, she said she wasn’t sure.

“It’s not that I don’t think you should be boyfriends,” she said when I started to get angry. “It’s different when you’re dating someone, and I’m not yet convinced you fully understand what dating someone means.”

Yes, I did. “It means you take care of them like friends, but you also have sex with them. Duh.”

Mom got still and quiet, which with her means she’s working not to overreact. “Emmet…have you had sex with Jeremey?”

“How could I? The vent in my room means you hear everything, and his room was too messy until the day his mom got upset, and since then I haven’t been with him except at the hospital. You can’t have sex in a hospital. You get arrested.”

She was still nervous about it, though, so we agreed we’d talk about it with Dr. North.

It had been a long time since Mom and I had gone to therapy together, and this time was a lot nicer than the last time, because she wasn’t crying. But I hadn’t stopped talking for four years either, so I suppose that makes sense.

My dad came too, which he’d never done before, and I was glad he did, since he was one hundred percent on my side.

“Here’s how I see it,” Dad said after Mom had told Dr. North the same things she’d told me about how I don’t understand dating. “Emmet is a lot better put together than most nineteen-year-olds I know. I understand Mari’s reservations, but I know my boy. If he’s made up his mind about this, it’s already as good as done. I’d rather he didn’t move in alone, and I know it’s going to be tough for him to room with anyone. The only person I can possibly see working in that scenario is Jeremey. So what if they might fool around? We raised him right. He knows how to be safe. It’s not as if putting them across the hall from one another is going to change anything. Plus I think the Samson kid could use this almost more than Emmet.”

Mom did
not
care for that. “Doug, you’re entirely missing the point.”

I wasn’t going to let her undo what Dad had said, because I thought it was the best argument anybody had ever made. “
You’re
missing the point, Mom. You’re being as bad as Gabrielle.” Mom gasped and made an angry face, but I kept talking. “You always tell me it doesn’t matter that I’m autistic, but now you’re telling me that it does. If I were on the mean and wanted to move in with my boyfriend—”

“If you were on the mean and wanted to move in with your boyfriend, I’d still say no.”

Dad held up a hand, which meant we both should be quiet. “Stop it. Both of you. Emmet, you will respect your mother. She’s not trying to keep you from good things. She’s trying to protect you.”

“Jeremey
is
a good thing.”

“Yes, but that doesn’t mean you
have
to live with him, and not this second. I still think it could work, but she’s not saying she’s nervous about it because you’re autistic. In fact it’s exactly the opposite. You’re her little boy, and you’re saying you want to grow up right now. She’s nervous for you, and she’s sad for herself.”

Mom started to cry then after all, the cry where she shuts her eyes and puts her hand over her mouth. Dad put his hand on her back and rubbed small circles and said quiet things to her. I watched, wanting to keep arguing because I wanted them to say I could live in The Roosevelt with Jeremey, but I didn’t want Mom to cry.

Dr. North looked over the top of his glasses at me. “Emmet, tell me why you think you and Jeremey should live in The Roosevelt together. Explain why it’s okay even though you’re in a new relationship. Show me you understand why that element is significant.”

I hummed as I stared at the floor, rocking and flapping gently as I thought. I
didn’t
understand why that element was significant. Well, I did, but not the way my mom thought it was. She made it sound like a problem. To me, the fact that we were boyfriends made this better. It made me uncertain that I understood that and no one else did. It made me worry that maybe I was wrong, maybe this was a bad idea.

But how could it be a bad idea when it felt like the most important thing in the world?

Dr. North’s quiet voice drifted into my thoughts. “We’ve discussed in sessions with Jeremey how important it is to watch our feelings when we’re in a new relationship. You remember the euphoria?”

I frowned. Yes, I did remember. Was he telling me this was euphoria?

Dr. North is so good, sometimes he can read minds. “I’m not telling you I agree with you or your mother, Emmet. I’m pointing out things you should consider, and urging you to make a logical argument to defend your choice to your parents. Also to yourself.”

It helped, knowing he wasn’t judging me. I shut my eyes and concentrated, rocking and flapping gently as I recalled the conversation we’d had a few days ago, Dr. North and Jeremey and me. About how the endorphins released during a new relationship, friendship or romantic, were the same kind of high as heroin. It makes our brains do crazy things, which is where the phrase
crazy in love
comes from. Dr. North talked about how we had to be cautious about any decisions we make early on in any relationship, because we’re caught up in the high. Was I caught up in the high? Yes, probably. But it didn’t mean my decisions were all bad. It just meant I had to be extra careful.

I thought about living in The Roosevelt, let the euphoria rise inside me, and then I put it in a box and set it aside so I could rationally analyze the situation. It was such a good choice for both of us. We would have assistance but not babysitting. It was real life but with backup. Like the bumpers in bowling. No bad neighbors—or rather, no neighbors who wouldn’t understand autism. Not far from my parents’ house. We could still walk to Wheatsfield. Even the hospital wasn’t far away. Downtown was close, so was the bus. Everything was good.

So why was my mom nervous? Because of Jeremey and me being boyfriends? I didn’t understand how that could be negative. I opened my eyes and told Dr. North this.

Dr. North turned to Mom. “Well, Marietta? Can you be more clear to Emmet why you think his living with Jeremey might be negative?”

“Yes, I can. Their relationship might not work, and then they’re stuck together.”

“If our relationship didn’t work,” I said, “we would stop being boyfriends and just be roommates, or one of us would move out. But it will work. We’ll work on it every day. The same as facial recognition charts. It’s more homework, is all.”

“What if there’s no space for one of you to move out? We can’t buy an extra apartment in case.”

“If that happened, I’d move home and let Jeremey have it. His home isn’t good, but mine is.” I flapped angrily. “But we’re not breaking up. Stop saying we are.”

“I’m not saying you are. I’m saying you
might
. You can’t
know
everything will be okay.”

“I know that. Our house might burn down and I’d lose all my things. They’d burn in the fire and cry. You might die, and then I would cry. But I’m not going to live my life worrying about bad things happening, Mom. You shouldn’t either.”

Mom’s shoulders slumped, and Dad grinned. “Like I said. More put together than most nineteen-year-olds.” He rested his elbows on his knees and looked me in the eye. “Kiddo. I believe you can do this. I think, though, you and Jeremey and everybody’s parents need to meet first, have a big fat family meeting. So your mom feels better. Jeremey might need the meeting too.”

I considered this. “It would be okay if we met with Jeremey, but his parents will be awful.”

My dad smiled his John Belushi smile. “That might help your mom even more.”

I
t took another week, but the meeting got set up, and in the meantime, we started filling out the application for The Roosevelt—me and Jeremey both. My parents usually do this kind of thing, but I helped because that’s part of Bob’s process of making us independent. It was exciting. I got my own checking account, which I’d never had, and a debit card. Bob’s friend Sally, who is one of the social workers who would live at The Roosevelt with us in the downstairs apartment, showed me how to keep track of my balance. It wasn’t hard, but I didn’t like the paper version, so I showed her the online software I found with an app to use on my phone to enter purchases. It was buggy, though, so I made a new one which worked better and gave it to her. She said I was a genius.

I said “thank you” instead of “I know.” It’s rude to tell people you know you’re smart, I guess, which makes no sense, but Althea said I had to just go along with that one.

It’s hard work to be independent. I had to make a budget in a spreadsheet about how much I would spend and where I would spend it, but the problem is I can’t always know what I’ll need in advance. I had to save money in case I needed something extra, but when I used my savings, I had to decide if the something extra was worth it. Managing my money overwhelmed me. It was so much easier to ask Mom if I could buy something. Sally said it would get easier, but I understood now why everyone was so nervous about me being on my own. I was glad they would only be down the street and Dad would watch my checking account carefully.

But the checkbook wasn’t the hard part about being independent at The Roosevelt. The hard part was Mrs. Samson.

It was good my dad suggested the family meeting, because Jeremey was so worried about telling her that even when Dr. North pointed out we’d all be there with him, he was still nervous. Originally Mom had wanted it to be about discussing us living together, but Dr. North said this needed to be Jeremey’s meeting before it was anything else. The therapy session would be Jeremey, me, Dr. North, my mom and dad, Althea, and the Samsons. Mom said Mrs. Samson was going to feel ganged up on, but Dr. North said better she felt uneasy than Jeremey felt cornered.

Mom also said this still wasn’t a for-sure thing, the two of us living together as boyfriends so quickly, but whenever she said that, Dad winked at me, so I kept my mouth shut. When Dad winks, good things are coming.

Mrs. Samson had a pinched face when we all went into the group therapy room at the hospital. Mr. Samson’s face was hard to read with his mustache and eyebrows, but she looked like the angry pictures and the nervous pictures at the same time. I told this to Mom, and she said this emotion was
tension
.

We sat in a circle on hard chairs, and I worked not to fidget because my rocking and humming upset the Samsons. Absolutely I didn’t flap. I wasn’t sure I could do eye contact, but I would try. I wanted Jeremey to live with me at The Roosevelt more than I wanted anything else in the world.

Dr. North smiled at everyone and sat with open posture. “Good to see you all here. Thank you for coming. I wanted to go over a few things first, to clarify any misconceptions we might have about the meeting. The first rule is that this is Jeremey’s meeting, and everyone here is present at his invitation as he discusses his recovery and the next stage of his life. Everyone here is important to him and part of that process. Is that understood?”

My parents and Althea nodded, and I said yes I did, but Jeremey’s parents only sat stiff and rigid. I think they understood but didn’t like it.

Dr. North gave Jeremey his patient smile. “Whenever you’re ready.”

Jeremey didn’t look ready. His shoulders were hunched, and he took shallow breaths. I sat beside him, so I could see everything clearly. I could hear him breathing hard. He tightened his hands into little balls in his lap, so tight his knuckles were white.

“Take your time,” Dr. North told Jeremey. He also touched Jeremey’s shoulder.

That was the thing about Jeremey. He enjoyed touch, a lot. I worried because I didn’t. I thought, as we sat there, how Jeremey might like it right now if I touched him. Except touch is tricky, and I wasn’t sure how to do it. Dr. North made it look so easy.

Could I do it? Put my hand on Jeremey’s shoulder? It seemed like no big deal, but what was simple when other people did it didn’t work the same for me.

Jeremey let out a hard breath. “I’m going to move out on my own, into my own apartment. With Emmet.”

Mr. and Mrs. Samson both started talking at once in angry voices, and I jerked in my seat. I was surprised and uncomfortable. Jeremey drew back too. I watched him because it was easier than paying attention to his parents. Jeremey looked so scared and nervous. I almost touched him, but then I wondered if it wouldn’t be better to take his hand. That was a more boyfriend thing to do. Except his hand was far away. I wished it were next to me, that we were sitting on the couch and I could sort of sneak over and grab it.

“Please hear Dr. North out,” my mom said, and Mr. Samson got so angry his face was red.

“So you’re behind this? You knew about this crazy plan? Knowing your family, you probably gave him the idea.”

My dad stood up and aimed a finger at Mr. Samson, who stood up too and twitched his mustache so much he looked like an angry walrus. But then Dr. North rose as well. He went between them and held out a hand at each of our fathers.

“Gentlemen. We’re here to have a discussion, not toss out accusations. As for whose idea this is—you may blame me. It is my professional opinion Jeremey would recover better in an independent environment, with monitored responsibilities. I would also like to see him take part-time employment. I have several positions in mind, in fact.”