Comfortable With Uncertainty

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Authors: Pema Chodron

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Comfortable with

Uncertainty

108 Teachings on Cultivating Fearlessness and Compassion

P
EMA
C
HÖDRÖN

Compiled and edited by

Emily Hilburn Sell

S
HAMBHALA

Boston & London

2010

SHAMBHALA PUBLICATIONS, INC.

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www.shambhala.com

© 2002 by Pema Chödrön and Emily Hilburn Sell

The Four Limitless Ones chant in the book epigraph is adapted from the translation by the Nālandā Translation Committee.

The translations of the lojong slogans are reprinted from
The Root
Text of the Seven Points of Training the Mind
© 1981, 1986 by Chögyam Trungpa; revised translation © 1993 by Diana J. Mukpo and the Nālandā Translation Committee.

The Dedication of Merit chant at the end of this book is translated by the Nālandā Translation Committee.

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher.

THE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS CATALOGUES THE PREVIOUS EDITION OF THIS BOOK AS FOLLOWS:

Chödrön, Pema.

Comfortable with uncertainty: 108 teachings/Pema Chödrön; compiled and edited by Emily Hilburn Sell.

p. cm.

eISBN 978-0-8348-2112-5

ISBN 978-1-57062-972-3

ISBN 978-1-59030-078-7

ISBN 978-1-57062-626-0

1. Spiritual life—Buddhism. 2. Meditation—Buddhism. 3. Buddhism—Doctrines. I. Sell, Emily Hilburn. II. Title.

BQ7805 .C485 2002

294.3′444—DC21          2002003894

May all sentient beings enjoy happiness and the root of happiness.
May we be free from suffering and the root of suffering.
May we not be separated from the great happiness devoid of suffering.
May we dwell in the great equanimity free from passion, aggression, and prejudice.

CONTENTS

Editor’s Preface
    
1.  The Love That Will Not Die
    
2.  The Healing Power of Bodhichitta
    
3.  Comfortable with Uncertainty
    
4.  The Wisdom of No Escape
    
5.  Loving-Kindness: The Essential Practice
    
6.  Loving-Kindness and Meditation
    
7.  Why Meditate?
    
8.  The Six Points of Posture
    
9.  No Such Thing As a True Story
  
10.  Sitting Meditation
  
11.  Four Qualities of Maitri
  
12.  The Root of Suffering
  
13.  Weather and the Four Noble Truths
  
14.  The Facts of Life: Impermanence
  
15.  Not Causing Harm
  
16.  The Dharma
  
17.  The Practice of Mindfulness and Refraining
  
18.  Relax As It Is
  
19.  Working with Slogans
  
20.  Slogan: “All activities should be done with one intention”
  
21.  Turning Arrows into Flowers
  
22.  Nothing Solid
  
23.  The Facts of Life: Egolessness
  
24.  Staying in the Middle
  
25.  Slogan: “Of the two witnesses, hold the principal one”
  
26.  Encountering the Edge
  
27.  The Facts of Life: Suffering
  
28.  Hope and Fear
  
29.  Lighten Up (and Do Something Different)
  
30.  The Four Reminders
  
31.  Heaven and Hell
  
32.  The Three Futile Strategies
  
33.  The Opposite of Samsara
  
34.  Cultivating the Four Limitless Qualities
  
35.  The Practice of Loving-Kindness
  
36.  Cultivating Compassion
  
37.  The Practice of Compassion
  
38.  Cultivating the Ability to Rejoice
  
39.  The Practice of Equanimity
  
40.  Thinking Bigger
  
41.  Be Where You Are
  
42.  Tonglen and Fearlessness
  
43.  Tonglen: The Key to Realizing Interconnectedness
  
44.  The Four Stages of Tonglen
  
45.  Start Where You Are
  
46.  Getting to Know Fear
  
47.  Recognize Suffering
  
48.  Slogan: “Change your attitude, but remain natural”
  
49.  Loving-Kindness and Tonglen
  
50.  Slogan: “If you can practice even when distracted, you are well trained”
  
51.  Deepening Tonglen
  
52.  The Empty Boat
  
53.  The Three Poisons
  
54.  On-the-Spot Tonglen
  
55.  Start Where You Are (Again and Again)
  
56.  Experience Your Life
  
57.  See What Is
  
58.  The Buddha
  
59.  Nowness
  
60.  The Heart of Everyday Life
  
61.  Widening the Circle of Compassion
  
62.  Inconvenience
  
63.  Widening the Circle Further
  
64.  What Is Karma?
  
65.  Growing Up
  
66.  Slogan: “Don’t expect applause”
  
67.  Six Ways of Compassionate Living
  
68.  Prajna
  
69.  Generosity
  
70.  Discipline
  
71.  Patience
  
72.  Joyous Exertion
  
73.  Meditation
  
74.  Letting the World Speak for Itself (“Don’t Misinterpret”)
  
75.  Meditation and Prajna
  
76.  Plan to Stay Open
  
77.  Slogan: “Abandon any hope of fruition”
  
78.  Cool Loneliness
  
79.  Slogan: “Practice the three difficulties”
  
80.  Communicating from the Heart
  
81.  The Big Squeeze
  
82.  Curiosity and the Circle of Compassion
  
83.  Take Tonglen Further
  
84.  Slogan: “Be grateful to everyone”
  
85.  Obstacles as Questions
  
86.  Six Ways to Be Lonely
  
87.  Thoroughly Processed
  
88.  Commitment
  
89.  Three Methods for Working with Chaos
  
90.  On-the-Spot Equanimity
  
91.  The Truth Is Inconvenient
  
92.  Abiding in the Fearless State
  
93.  The Essential Paradox
  
94.  Nothing to Hold On To
  
95.  Slogan: “Drive all blames into one”
  
96.  This Very Moment Is the Perfect Teacher
  
97.  Inviting Your Unfinished Business
  
98.  Four Methods for Holding Your Seat
  
99.  Cultivating Forgiveness
100.  Containing the Paradox
101.  The Sangha
102.  Just Like Me (On-the-Spot Compassion)
103.  Slogan: “Practice the five strengths, the condensed heart instructions”
104.  Reversing the Wheel of Samsara
105.  The Path Is the Goal
106.  Heightened Neurosis
107.  Compassionate Inquiry
108.  Slogan: “Always maintain only a joyful mind”
Dedication of Merit
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