Crazy Enough (3 page)

What?

“Who?”
His
mom. Neeny. Ninety-four, lost her mind when her husband of sixty-odd years passed.

“Your ma.”

“Who?” More sighing.
Why the fuck is he sighing so much? Should I get out of the car?

“Your ma. Your mom died last night. They don't know what happened yet sweetie, but . . .”

I'm literally looking into the store where I'm going to get her Christmas gift. Should I still? My hand is on the door, my car is parked . . . rock-star parking and the best gift ever. No. I say no to this. My dad says something about having to call my brothers and will I be okay? He'll call me back right away. Love you. Bye.

Love you. Bye.

It's dark and raining but people can still see into the car, and I must look crazy. I grab the steering wheel with both hands and suddenly I'm sobbing, screaming at the gauges. What the fuck to do?
Where do I go, home? I can't see. I can't drive. I call my boyfriend at work.

“Hi. Can you come get me? My mom is dead and I'm on Hawthorne.”

She's gone.

My first thought. She is gone. Not my first thought. No. Fucking no.

I'm thrashing around inside my body. What the fuck do I do?

What am I thinking? No. I peel my mind away like a child turning its face from a tablespoon of cough syrup. No. My first thought. My first?

Thank God. Thank God she's gone.

“Thank God she's gone.”

1975.

W
hen I was five years old, I had my first orgasm.

I had played with myself for as long as I could remember, but the gold at the end of that rainbow came courtesy of my first ever boyfriend, Mr. Pool Jet. He was so much fun and such a consistent partner, never asking a thing of me but always eager to give. With my arms folded under my chin at the pool's edge, my body was just the right length to get that warm blast of water right on the money. Tucking my hips up into the stream I remember distinctly hissing under my breath, “Oh my . . . oh my . . . OHMYOHMYOHMY!” Then, kicking away from the wall I sucked in a good lungful of air, dove, and hid at the bottom of the pool to collect myself for a few seconds.

Did anyone see that?

I knew that what I had discovered was huge, but I also knew, instinctively, that it was not for public consumption. More urgently, pressing into my little brains was that once the prickling, throbbing exclamation point between my legs cooled and calmed, I would totally have to do that again.

Like a gateway drug, it started with Mr. Pool Jet, then went on to harder stuff: bathtub faucets and, later, showerhead massagers. Thank you, Waterpik!

I always knew something was wrong with me, and here was the proof. I was a five-year-old secret slut for any stream of water I could get alone. After a couple years of that, I got a real live boy to play with. I was seven and he was five, so, by the third grade, I was not only a water nymphomaniac, I was also a cougar.

We'll call him “ChapStick” as in, “'Zat a ChapStick in your pocket, or . . . ?” We both lived in the same little neighborhood, so he would come over to play. Around adults we would play the usual toddler games: shave Barbie's head, give her a black eye with a magic marker, and feed her to the giant squid that came with my brother's GI Joe undersea adventure series, or we would just space out and watch cartoons. When we could sneak away someplace alone, however, we would play a game called “I Am So Tired!” I would lie on my back in bed or on the floor, cover my head and arms with a blanket or a towel and pretend to fall asleep with my legs open. That was the cue for ChapStick to climb on top of me and ravage my sleeping torso with his fevered humping.

We would be fully clothed during the exchange but still I would tilt my hips toward the onslaught and bite the inside of whatever was covering my face as waves of intense and desperate tickling pleasure would build up in the friction. My face and my breath would get hot and I would pant a little bit, but quietly. Sometimes I felt like my
throat was bulging outwards like a water balloon, from hitching and holding my breath and my belly would suck all the way in pulling the tickles in deeper, up higher, then more then yes, and yes, and YES! Then a chickeny flutter and burn and drop, twitch and melt, the weight on my back spread over my bones like hot honey.

He would then get up and go somewhere else in the room and leave me floaty and pink under my covers. A minute or two later, I would get up stretch and make a big deal about how tired I was and how nothing could've woken me, and how was your nap, ChapStick?

Usually we were both very satisfied with this game. Once in a while, though, he would be done before me and I would yell from under my covers, “Ummm, I'm still tired!”

We had no idea what we were doing, yet, we somehow knew not to talk about it. Even to each other. We ignored our little trysts as though they were funny slivers of some wacky kid dream that nobody would understand.

Hypersexuality in children is sometimes evidence of early onset bipolar disorder phenotype, and often is treated with medication, with some success. It's also called
child mania.
I didn't know any of that, but I knew to keep my passion secret, even though I saw nothing wrong with it. I was alone a lot and it was something that made being alone worth it. Suddenly everything turned me on and I would fantasize about, draw pictures of, and obsess over sex.

One of my biggest turn-ons was watching nature shows, like
Mutual of Omaha's Wild Kingdom
. Animals ripping each other apart always made my bathing suit area sparkle. I'd go all hot and twitchy
when big predators, like lions or cheetahs, would chase down and kill helpless little antelopes. “Why don't those photographers help that baby deer? Someone has to have a gun out there!” I would lie, deflecting the true cause of my restlessness, counting the minutes until I could get myself alone.

When I was older and in relationships lasting longer than a trip to the bathroom, more than one boyfriend would comment on how much I loved sex, as if it were evidence of something wrong with me. “Were you raped or something?” one even said out loud.

Whatever the psychological hoo-ha was about my early onanistic habits, I called it: “This feels amazing. I'm totally going to do this again and again until I'm dead.”

So many guys pray for a girl to
want
to do all the nasty things they think about. Until he gets one. Then there is a realization that she's clearly practiced on a pile of other cocks, and that she can outfuck him.

“You make me feel small” was another constant whine. But, even though my first human scratching post truly
was
much smaller than me, he never once complained.

My burgeoning relationship with ChapStick was around 1976, our nation's bicentennial, but all the fireworks going off in the country didn't hold a candle to the joy I had discovered in myself with masturbation. It was the light and the way out of my loneliest feelings. It was around that time that I started to figure out why my mom wanted to die. If she couldn't feel like that anymore, I could understand why anyone would want to stop living. For the life of me, though, I couldn't figure out why she tried to kill me.

I was seven years old. It was more of a mishap on the way to another attempt on her own life, so I can't really say it was deliberately sinister. What made it irritating, however, was that she did it while I had a friend over.

Daphne was my best and, pretty much only, friend. She was a cherubic blonde with cartoon-huge hazel eyes beaming from her porcelain heart-shaped face. We had known each other forever, as her mom and my dad were both teachers in our little town of Southborough. We were born three months apart, were the only members of the Animal Club, and we both loved
Lucan
, the Wolf Boy, the best show ever.

My two big brothers and I were used to Mom being a little off every now and then, but this particular night, she was in a rare state of fucked. She had downed a dozen or so Thorazine washed down with some Tab, before making dinner. She was wobbling around the kitchen, muttering incoherently to herself while puttering at the stove.

Daphne knew my mom was sick. She also knew that my mom had to go away once in awhile, because there would always be some new babysitter living with us, or I would end up sleeping over at her house now and then on school nights.

Daphne's mom and dad never talked about what was happening at my house; they would just set a place for me at the table and treat me like their own kid. Daphne and I would never talk about it, either; we would just do what little girls do. We'd hunt frogs and snakes down at the pond, talk about what we were going to do when we had boobs, steal her brother's
Playboy
and
Penthouse
magazines, stuff like that. Daphne knew there was something funny going on, because she was family, but she'd never actually seen the crazy happen. Until . . .

“Dih-nerrr,” Mom creaked in a shaky sigh.

She moved as though through syrup, as she thunked down our bowls of food at our places. We all came to the table. The kitchen was a seventies beige with greasy, flat carpeting. It had probably been nice carpeting once, a million years ago, back when people thought carpets were groovy to have in kitchens. I have no idea what color it had been originally, but now it was sticky and dark, smelling of onion soup and Windex.

Daphne and I sat together, Henry sat across from us, and Daddy sat at the head of the table.

I had been calling my oldest brother, John, “Daddy” since I was four. There was no confusion as to who my real father was, but John, six years older than I, was the man of the house, as Dad stayed at work as long and late as he could. John was thirteen and had the pimples and bad temper to prove it. He sat down, looked at the stuff in his bowl, and shot me a look from under his shaggy mop of brown hair. His dark blue eyes read both angry and embarrassed. Henry, my ten-year-old golden-boy brother, sat down and didn't look at anyone. He just bit his lip and stared at his bowl.

Both of my brothers were already great athletes, but John had recently started to like pot, girls, and Led Zeppelin. Henry had gone the other way completely. Excelling in football and lacrosse during the school year, then off to this or that awesome American camp for sports or just becoming more of an awesome American. He had begun to emulate his namesakes, my father and grandfather, and pursue a military, upstanding, conservative, and painfully normal life. Henry needed normal. He hated this.

I was a weirdo. I was loud and annoying by nature and pretty sure, if I pushed hard enough on the toilet my penis would finally appear. My dearest wish was to be attacked by a werewolf, so I could become a werewolf, too, and live in a secret fort with my werewolf
boyfriend, forever. I was also trying every possible way to learn how to fly by flapping magazines in each hand and jumping off cars and furniture. But this . . . even this was too screwy for me.

I got louder and sillier to distract from the thick, weird silence, talking about so-and-so boy at school was a bum-bum head and how when he talked it smells like a bottom burp. I hoped to God that Daphne didn't notice the tension growing in the room. She sat politely with her hands folded in her lap and watched the pretty little blonde lady she also called “Mom” stammering breathy nonsense while scooping food into her bowl. It was clear Daphne knew something was up, as she glanced now and then around the table at us, her eyes questioning.