Authors: Wesley R. Gray
EMBEDDED
BY WESLEY R. GRAY
NAVAL INSTITUTE PRESS
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NNAPOLIS
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ARYLAND
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Embedded : a Marine Corps advisor inside the Iraqi army / Wesley R. Gray.
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1. Military assistance, AmericanâIraq. 2. IraqâArmed ForcesâTraining of.
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3. Internal securityâIraq. 4. Iraq War, 2003âPersonal narratives, American.
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5. Gray, Wesley R. 6. United States. Marine CorpsâOfficersâBiography. 7.
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To the soldiers of the Iraqi army,
who taught me that winning isn't everything,
but friends, family, and honor are.
CONTENTS
Part 1.
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Becoming an Embedded Military Adviser
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Chapter 1.
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Guess What? You Are Going to Iraq
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Chapter 2.
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Culture Shock
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Chapter 3.
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Preparing for Combat Adviser Duty
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Chapter 4.
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Meeting the Iraqi Army
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Learning Iraqi Army Systems and Culture
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Chapter 5.
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The First Fight with the Iraqi Army
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Chapter 6.
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Vacationing with the Iraqi Army
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Chapter 7.
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Jamal in the Swahuts
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Chapter 8.
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Simple Things Made Difficult
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Chapter 9.
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Iraqi Payday Operations
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Chapter 10.
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Insights on Iraqi Culture
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Chapter 11.
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Death Operations
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Chapter 12.
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The Iraqi Officer and Enlisted Relationship
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Chapter 13.
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Iraqis Speak on the Nation, Region, and military
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Combat Operations with the Iraqi Army
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Chapter 14.
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Operation
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Mo' Leave, Mo' Problem
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Transitioning to Independent Operations
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The Combat Operations Center Is Launched and the Mission Changes
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Chapter 18.
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Chasing Egyptian Insurgents
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Between Iraq and a Hard Place
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Contending with Iraqi Culture
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Violence Spikes
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Wayn Jundi?
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Disaster Strikes
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Chapter 23.
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Light at the End of the Tunnel?
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All Good Things Must Come to an End
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Civil War and Democracy in Iraq
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America Never Looked So Good
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Chapter 26.
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An Assessment
APPENDIX: U.S. Marine Corps Rank Structure
Maj. Tom Ross once mentioned to me that his success as a Marine officer could be visualized as a turtle sitting on top of a fencepostâit was obvious he didn't get there alone. For this project, I felt like a blue whale sitting atop Mount Everestâwithout massive amounts of help, I would still be stuck on the bottom of the ocean.
First, I would like to thank the United States Marine Corps for giving me an opportunity to serve with an elite group of warrior citizens who are second to none. Specifically, I want to thank my advising teammates, who taught me about life, leadership, and how to be a better Marine (in no particular order): Doc, Nuts, V, Slip, Legger, Cpl. Sal, Mac, Moto McCoy, Wonder Twin #2, the Boss, D, Superhero, and Mighty Morganâoohrah! And thanks to Eric Earnhardt for teaching me how to be a motivated Devil Dog.
The folks at the Graduate School of Business at the University of Chicago went beyond the call of duty in supporting me during my “sabbatical,” for which I am extremely grateful. Thank you also to the many friends and family, too numerous to list here, who supported me during my deployment. My biggest fans were (and always have been) my parents, Bill and Jill Gray. Thanks for the unwavering support.
Many friends and family also gave me insightful feedback and razor-sharp editing on early drafts of this book. Mike Beimer, Mike Bennett, Cliff Gray, Mike Hollander, Anne and Craig Jorgensen, Ben Katz, Andy Kern, Gabe Klehr, Sandy Li, Ronica Licciardello, James McGinnis, Maurice Medland, Scott Miller, and Dave Woodworth were all extremely helpful. Of course, Rick Russell and Elizabeth Bauman of the Naval Institute Press have been with me through every step in the publishing process and have really made me feel at home as an author with their organization. Special thanks to Karin Kaufman for her superb copyediting services.
Finally, my sincerest thanks go to my wife, Katie, my lead editor and best friend for life.
BECOMING AN EMBEDDED MILITARY ADVISER
Guess What? You Are Going to Iraq
FebruaryâMarch 2006
“G
ray, nice fuckin' brief. You wanna volunteer for some time in Iraq and train some Iraqis?” Caught off guard after completing an important intelligence brief to Brig. Gen. Mastin Robeson and a room full of Marine and Japanese military officers, I replied out of instinct, “Sir, hell yeah. When would I leave?” The granite-hard Col. Steven Manning, a legend in the Marine Corps intelligence community, peered into my eyes. “July time frame,” he said. “We'll talk about it later this evening. Oohrah!”
We never did get a chance to talk about it that evening. Over the next few weeks that February, I participated in the bilateral Japanese and U.S. military Yama Sukura war game in Kumamoto, Japan. At the conclusion of the exercise, Colonel Manning directed me to participate in a joint military operation with the Filipino army in the Philippines until mid-March. After spending almost two months traveling around Asia, Iraq was the last thing on my mind. But this all changed when I returned to my home base in Okinawa, Japan.
On March 14 I strolled into the intelligence offices at the 3rd Marine Division Headquarters at Camp Courtney, a small Marine Corps base in the center of the island of Okinawa. I had had the time of my life in the Philippines participating in real-world operations, working with the Filipino army, and meeting new people. Life was good. I hollered to Lt. Nate Krissoff, who came stumbling into the office. “Krissoff, dude, I can't believe those chicks you got in the Philippines. You are da man!” Krissoff, my best bud in the Marines, had partied too much while in the Philippines
and was still feeling the aftereffects. He smirked and said, “Gray, hey brother, what happened in the Philippines . . . stays in the Philippines!” I laughed. “Nate, my lips are sealedâuntil I need something from you.”
I sat at my computer and opened my e-mail box. I had 150 unanswered e-mails, only one of which seemed interesting. The subject line was “RE: MiTT members from Okinawa coming in on March 19th.” I opened the e-mail out of curiosity, thinking it must have been addressed to the wrong Second Lieutenant Gray. But it was addressed correctly and would change my life.