So while Bill thought they were going steady, she took the pin off so she could date other boys. Yet the two kept corresponding. By this time, Anders had thought about his future and had made some hard choices. First, he decided that he wanted to switch his commission to the Air Force. Flying combat jets seemed much more exciting than sitting on a ship.
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Second, he decided that he wanted to marry Valerie Hoard. The Ring Dance was coming, and he began a full campaign to convince Valerie to marry him. When he came home that Christmas he drove her to the top of Mt. Helix, overlooking San Diego, and as the sun was setting formally proposed.
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Valerie hesitated. She loved him and wanted to marry him, but this all seemed too fast. She was still only seventeen, was a straight "A" student in school, and wanted to go to college.
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"You can't possibly say no to me," nineteen-year-old Bill argued. "If I get in the Air Force I'll get a two-month leave. It'll be the perfect opportunity for a honeymoon."
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Upon returning to Annapolis, Bill's gentle but persistent campaign continued. New letters arrived daily, many including jewelry brochures showing Valerie a selection of engagement rings, all miniature variations of his class ring. She wrote back, describing how one ring, with a single small diamond surrounded by a cluster of even smaller diamonds, was the one she liked best. But she did not tell him to buy it.
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At the same time she began taking instruction in Catholicism. Valerie had been raised as a casual Protestant. Her parents had left the choice of her church entirely up to her, and on Sunday her church of preference was usually determined by the church her friends attended.
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Bill, however, had been raised a Catholic, and he took its sacraments seriously. If he was going to marry Valerie she had to convert. Though she hadn't yet committed to marriage, Valerie decided she had better find out about his religion, just in case. Twice a week she attended classes at two different churches, learning the theology of Catholicism.
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Though she still wasn't sure she was ready for marriage, by June Valerie had decided to convert. She also knew that Bill had bought her a ring (though he wouldn't show it to her). And she had agreed to attend June week. She had never been to the East Coast, and the glamour of the Ring Dance seemed too
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