How To Give A Blow Job - Oral Sex He'll Never Forget

Text Copyright © Jenna
Jenkins.
All Rights Reserved.

Welcome, ladies! First of all,
congratulations! You've made a bold, life-changing decision to join the ranks
of the sexually adventurous. So pat
yourself
on the
back, go on!

Get ready to get wild, because the
bedroom is never going to be the same.

You already know what we're here to
talk about, so let's just dive right in. You want to be an oral-sex goddess;
you want men to tremble before you every time you get on your knees...and I'm
here to help.

Not only does oral sex make a man
really feel like a man, but it creates a deeper connection between you and your
partner.

A great blowjob is the perfect way
to show your partner that you really care, and learning new techniques proves
beyond a doubt that you care about his pleasure.

If you're feeling nervous, don't
worry.

When I first started giving oral
sex, well, there's no nice way to say it; I was a mess. I didn't know the first
thing about giving head, and I hated doing it because I felt completely
inadequate. It got to the point that I avoided giving blowjobs at all cost and
even started refusing to let men perform oral sex on me, feeling that there was
no way I could return the pleasure.

That's when I decided that things
had to change. I needed to learn more about blowjobs and gain the confidence
that I needed to give great head.

So I did.

In all seriousness, the tips you'll
find in this book were all gained through experience, along with a few carpet
burns! Spending plenty of time on your knees is a great way to perfect your
technique, but I wish I'd had a how-to book of tips and tricks in the
beginning.

I'm not a sex-therapist, I don't
have a Ph.D.in the history of the penis,
I'm
not even
an ex-call girl... I'm just a gal who loves to give great head and wants to
help other ladies out there do the same.

All the tips and tricks in this
book will be clear and easy to understand and implement.

There won't be any scientific terms
or borderline gross anatomy explanations. I'm just another one of your
girlfriends, sitting on your couch drinking a Cosmo and telling you how to rock
your man's world.

Over the course of this book, we'll
move from the basic blowjob to more advanced super-spicy tips. You'll
understand the components of a great blowjob and learn more than you'd ever
imagined about your man's penis and its sensitivities.

You won't believe how easy it is to
give great head once you've read this book. Your new porn-star moves are going
to shock and amaze your man.

One word of caution; once you've
gotten through this book you'll be ready to conquer any cock, but don't rush
into things.

Enthusiasm is one thing, but if
you...well, dive in too quickly your man might feel like you're just trying to
"get it over with."

Oral sex is all about showing your
man that you appreciate him, and you can't do that if you're racing to the
finish line. If you do race through oral sex you run the risk of your partner
feeling insignificant. So even if you're eager, take a deep breath and move
slowly and sensually.

We're going to dive into the wild
world of oral sex head first, so be sure to open your mind and cast off your
inhibitions!

Let's begin with some common
problems and fears that women have surrounding performing oral sex.

There are a whole host of reasons
why some women don't enjoy giving oral sex, but most fall into three
categories.

If hygiene issues, the fear of
underperforming, or the idea that performing oral sex on a man is a subservient
act stops you in your tracks and leaves your man to take care of himself,
you've come to the right place.

Remember what I said about opening
your mind? Do your best to dispel any previous notions you have stuck in your
head about oral sex.

The idea that the penis is somehow
"dirty" or "unsanitary" is a very common problem for women.

Let's get real ladies; do you think
his bits are any dirtier than yours?
Because they're not.

I find that with most women this
fear is based more psychologically than a fear of physical dirt or germs. Women
are conditioned to believe that girls who "go down" are dirty.

It makes you a caring and devoted
lover. It's the 21st century, and modern women should feel liberated,
independent, and free of silly social limitations forced on our mothers and
grandmothers. Nowadays, not only dirty girls can get down! Never be ashamed of
performing oral sex.

Now, if your issue is actually
centered
on your man's cleanliness, that's easily solved.

If he's a little musky or sweaty
down there after a long day, there's nothing wrong with asking him to take a
quick shower!

The absolute easiest way to get him
in the shower is, obviously, to get in with him. Try this line, "Hey,
baby, want to get cleaned up together first?" In combination with slowly
dropping your towel as you wiggle your way towards the bathroom, this move will
have him soaping up faster than you've ever seen.

Another common hygiene-related
complaint
centers
around...ahem, excessive hairiness.
There's nothing sexy about coughing up a hairball after you've finished giving
a super spicy blowjob.

This problem is a little trickier
to tackle and requires a rather delicate conversation. Try something along
these lines; "Honey, I'd be able to please you so much better if you
cleaned up just a little down there. I could help you..." Be delicate,
because you don't want to embarrass your man.

Fortunately, I've never met a man
who said no to a little trimming for the sake of more enthusiastic oral sex.
There's a catch here, though. If you don't trim down there (though I'm pretty
sure if you're reading this book you do) be prepared for him to expect a fair
trade!

If it's not your man's musky scent,
but your own fear of underperforming that's holding you back, well, relax
honey. Sit back and I'll tell you a little secret; if your willing mouth is
going anywhere near his member with any sort of regularity, he's happy. Not
just happy, but thrilled. So take a breather, because when your lips are
wrapped around him he's not exactly
analyzing
your
technique.

Still struggling? Well don't worry,
because once you've finished this book your confidence will be soaring.

This last one really gets me.

Women have told me that performing
oral sex on their lover makes them feel "slavish" or
"subservient." I honestly can't understand what they mean.

Have you ever really looked at a
man enjoying a great blowjob? The unsuppressed ecstasy on his face, his head
tilted back, eyes closed, mouth slightly open, legs spread wide...this is a man
totally and completely under your spell. You are absolutely in a position of
power on your knees. You are pleasing him totally, driving him absolutely crazy
with your mouth, and believe me he won't forget it.

You're in control here! Take your
power back, because it was never actually gone in the first place.

There, now. Are you feeling better?
I hope I've set your mind at peace a little. You have a lot less to worry about
than you think, and the biggest problems that most women have with performing
oral sex are easily solved.

Ready to get
started?

I'm sure I don't have to tell you
that the best way to start a blowjob is by giving your man a stiff erection.

This part shouldn't be hard,
because I'm sure he's usually pretty ready to go, but these super easy tips
will make him hotter for you than he's ever been.

Nothing is hotter than to start off
with a striptease where you literally show off your body curves while stripping
and looking at him lustfully.

Play around with your feminine
assets (your breasts, your butt) and run your fingers over them like a dirty
girl would!

This is GUARANTEED to give him a
hard-on, unless well... you don't have the killer curves. (If that's so, then
check out the
Guides to Increase Your Sexual Appeal!
section for some quick fix in this area)

First of all, girl, your man's
penis can take a lot rougher treatment than our lady parts. We like it delicate
and slow and smooth...men don't have quite as many nerve endings (poor guys!)
so you can feel free to be a little rougher with him. Here's a
favorite
move of mine!

Step 1:
Walk up to him out of the blue, look him intensely in the
eyes and grab his package through his pants and squeeze. Not like you're
squeezing a stress ball, girl, but put a little pressure behind it.

Step 2:
Give him a little bit of a massage down there until you
feel him starting to harden.

The key to this move is confidence.
Don't be hesitant or shy! This is about letting
yourself
go. Especially if you usually take the backseat on getting your lovemaking
started, showing your dominant side will drive him nuts!

I'm sure you're already an expert
on getting your man hard with your hands, so let's move on to something a
little bit more challenging.

Use this move when you're already in
bed (or heading for it) and looking for a lovemaking session.

Step 1:
Have your man lay down on his back, naked, and get on your
hands and knees.

Step 2:
Let your eyes roam over him slowly before kissing him
deeply. Kiss and lick your way slowly down his body, paying special attention
to his neck, chest (don't be shy with his nipples, I've found that most guys
love to have them licked and stroked!), and lower belly and hip bones.

By the time you've reached his
manhood, it will already be hard as a rock and ready for your mouth. If it
needs a little help, try this. It sounds strange, but works like a charm.

(Optional) Step 3:
Hold your hand palm down, and point your fingers
towards the floor with a gentle curve so that you're hand looks like a
crane-game claw.

Step 4:
Very lightly stroke from the base of his penis to the tip
with your curved hand several times.

Tip:
all of your fingertips should be connecting with his manhood
while you're stroking. This move sounds odd, but it's a totally different
sensation that will just make him more eager for your mouth.

Now here's a challenge for when
you're feeling adventurous. Get your man hard without touching him down there
at all.
The key?

Now don't panic. Talking dirty can
be easy once you know the "secrets".

By the way, I've just created a
quick read guide that will teach you how to talk dirty in just an hour from
now. It's called "Dirty Talk Secrets" and you can check it out here
:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00AMUONLU

You don't even have to be
classically "dirty" to turn your man on. Basically all you have to do
to dirty talk your man into a pants-tenting frenzy is, drum roll please....tell
him what you're going to do to him.

Here's a loose example that you can
tweak for your own use: "Baby, I want you so bad. You look so sexy in
those jeans...I can't wait to take them off. I'm going to suck your dick right
here."

Don't be afraid to be dirty!

Dick, cock, suck, lick...repeat these
words to yourself until you can say them without blushing. Your man's member
will be straining his jeans when he hears you talking like a dirty girl.

Some hints:

Speak in a low voice very close to
his ear, tickling it with your moving lips. Or kiss him intermittently as you
murmur your dirty thoughts to him.