Mastering Multiple Position Sex (30 page)

Hold on to her hips, play with her glutes, allow her to thrust back into you, and use your hands to explore where hers can’t reach.

Let your pelvic floor grip his penis. If he has concerns about ejaculatory control, you can assist by relaxing or tightening, depending on his needs and yours.

An ideal time for a mini-toy—and not the kind that comes in a child’s fast food meal, but rather the vibrator that looks like a lipstick or makeup brush—quickies can be a time to have hot sex, where the focus is on the moment and the adrenaline rush (the bonding feelings will occur later when the oxytocin floods over you). If you are both pressed for time, you can allow yourselves to orgasm now. If one of you has already come, then help the other. If there is time for another position, then enjoy yourselves even more.

POSITION 1

POSITION 2

POSITION 2:
Transition

In preparation for another quickie, the transition will be short and sweet. You should turn toward each other and scissor your legs (put one foot in front of the other) so that they are identical and mirror image. Both of you step out with your right and back with your left or vice versa; it looks like you are dancing a tango. If you feel that more lube would be helpful, use the spit method: Put saliva on your fingers and apply it to the area to be penetrated.

“Be careful during quickies with breast play; you don’t want the rush to turn into clumsy groping. Speedy needn’t be sloppy.”

POSITION 3

POSITION 3:
The Eiffel Tower

The wonderful thing about this position is that as you penetrate/are penetrated, you will need to hug each other for structural support, and for emotional support as well.

Once you have entered her in the tango position, you can begin thrusting. If you move up and down, your pelvic bone will massage her mound and clitoris for a two-way blended orgasm. Depending on your height, and the curvature of your penis, you might have a three-way blended orgasm if you can reach her G-spot.

Lean in and embrace her, as your chests—clothed or unclothed—press against each other. Kiss her mouth, ears, and neck as you caress her breasts.

Wrap your arms around him and kiss him back. If you have never kissed with your eyes open, now is the time for the two of you to try. When the passion is this raw, it is thrilling to look into your lover’s eyes and witness it firsthand.

Crescendo

By now the people at the office party are wondering if you got lost in the coatroom, so:

Lean her back against a wall, column, tree, or monument.

As he leans you back, spread your legs, so that he can stand between them. Adjust your new height, which should be shorter for your comfort and his entry.

Step toward her, bend at your knees, and enter her from the front. This is a wall-supported missionary. With each upward thrust, squeeze your gluteals and try to point your tailbone up toward the ceiling. This will prevent your penis from exiting her and will add to the mutual gratification. You can relax slightly, as you return to each starting point, but the tightening of the abdominals and the curvature of your lower spine will allow you both to remain upright.