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Authors: Esther Perel
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autonomy and,
(i)
James and Stella,
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ruthlessness and,
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selfishness and,
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children.
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parenthood
Chodorow, Nancy,
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Christine and Ryan, work ethic and,
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comfort love,
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Coral and Jed, domination and,
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intimacy and,
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parenthood and,
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de Beauvoir, Simone,
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democracy in relationships.
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domination and submission
domination and submission,
(i)
Elizabeth and Vito and,
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hate and love and,
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Jed and Coral and,
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Marcus and,
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power and,
(i)
sadomasochism and,
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Dominick and Raoul, intentionality and,
(i)
Doug and Zoë and Naomi, fidelity and,
(i)
Dylan, childhood and desire,
(i)
Elizabeth and Vito, domination and,
(i)
emotional space,
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entrapment, intimacy and,
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Epstein, Mark,
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equality.
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domination and submission
Eric and Jaxon, fidelity and,
(i)
erotic vitality, security and,
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anchor and wave and,
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Charles and Rose and,
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fidelity and,
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need for,
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romantics and realists and,
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Eyes Wide Shut
(film),
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familiarity, intimacy and,
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family influences.
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childhood lessons
fantasies,
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changing attitudes toward,
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,
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forms of,
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Joni and Ray and,
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lack of communication about,
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Nat and Amanda and,
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sharing of,
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the Third and,
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Feeling Strong
(Person),
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fidelity,
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autonomy and,
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disclosures of infidelity,
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Doug and Zoë and Naomi and,
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reasons for infidelity,
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security and,
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the Third and,
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Frank, Katherine,
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Franklin, Benjamin,
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Friday, Nancy,
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Fromm, Erich,
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Gafni, Mordechai,
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goals.
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work ethic
Godwin, Gail,
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Goldner, Virginia,
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Gopnik, Adam,
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Guillebaud, Jean-Claude,
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hate, love and,
(i)
hedonism, Puritanism and,
(i)
Maria and Nico and,
(i)
Ratu and,
(i)
teenage sexuality and,
(i)
“himbos,”
(i)
“hooking up,”
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Hoover, J. Edgar,
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Hot Monogamy
(Love),
(i)
Huizinga, Johan,
(i)
Ian and Marguerite, fidelity and,
(i)
independence
economic,
(i)
emotional,
(i)
infidelity.
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fidelity intentionality, marriage and,
(i)
intimacy, pitfalls of modern,
(i)
.
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intimacy, sexuality and cultural changes and,
(i)
mind-body continuum and,
(i)
Mitch and Laura and,
(i)
“talk” intimacy and,
(i)
familiarity and,
(i)
Jimmy and Candace and,
(i)
Jacqueline and Philip, marriage and,
(i)
James and Stella, childhood and,
(i)
Jaxon and Eric, fidelity and,
(i)
Jed and Coral, domination and,
(i)
Jimmy and Candace, intimacy and,
(i)
Johnson, Barry,
(i)
Joni and Ray, fantasy and,
(i)
Julie, parenthood and,
(i)
Laura and Mitch, intimacy and,
(i)
Lena, childhood and desire,
(i)
Leo and Carla,
(i)
love
anxiety and,
(i)
hate and,
(i)
illusion of committed,
(i)
two pillars of,
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Love, Patricia,
(i)
Marcus, submission and,
(i)
Marguerite and Ian, fidelity and,
(i)
Maria and Nico, Puritanism and,
(i)
marriage,
(i)
absence of eroticism in,
(i)
Dominick and Raoul and,
(i)
illusion of committed love,
(i)
intentionality and,
(i)
Jacqueline and Philip and,
(i)
play and,
(i)
spontaneity and,
(i)
use of term,
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Melinda, childhood and desire,
(i)
Men in Love
(Friday),
(i)
Merkin, Daphne,
(i)
Miller, Michael Vincent,
(i)
Mitch and Laura, intimacy and,
(i)
Naomi and Doug and Zoë, fidelity and,
(i)
Nat and Amanda, fantasy and,
(i)
Nico and Maria, Puritanism and,
(i)
Nin, Anaïs,
(i)
Open to Desire
(Epstein),
(i)
Paglia, Camille,
(i)
parenthood,
(i)
cult status of children and,
(i)
cultural differences and,
(i)
fathers and,
(i)
mothers and,
(i)
Stephanie and Warren and,
(i)
,
(ii)
parents, influence of.
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childhood lessons
Paris to the Moon
(Gopnik),
(i)
Passionate Marriage
(Schnarch),
(i)
patterns, intimacy and,
(i)
Philip and Jacqueline, marriage and,
(i)
play, marriage and,
(i)
Polarity Management: Identifying and Managing Unsolvable Problems
(Johnson),
(i)
power.
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domination and submission
Proust, Marcel,
(i)
Puritanism, hedonism and,
(i)
Maria and Nico and,
(i)
Ratu and,
(i)
teenage sexuality and,
(i)
Quantification of sexuality,
(i)
Raoul and Dominick, intentionality and,
(i)
Ratu, Puritanism and,
(i)
Ray and Joni, fantasy and,
(i)
realists, security and,
(i)
Reibstein, Janet,
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Renee, parenthood and,
(i)
Robbins, Anthony,
(i)
Roiphe, Anne,
(i)
romantics, security and,
(i)
Rose and Charles, security and erotic vitality,
(i)
Rubin, Lillian,
(i)
Ryan and Christine, work ethic and,
(i)
sadomasochism (S-M),
(i)
Saint-Exupéry, Antoine de,
(i)
Salomé, Jacque,
(i)
Scheinkman, Michele,
(i)
Schnarch, David,
(i)
Second Sex, The
(de Beauvoir),
(i)
security, erotic vitality and,
(i)
anchor and wave and,
(i)
Charles and Rose and,
(i)
fidelity and,
(i)
need for,
(i)
romantics and realists and,
(i)
self and others, childhood and balancing of,
(i)
autonomy and,
(i)
James and Stella,
(i)
ruthlessness and,
(i)
selfishness and,
(i)
Semans, Anne,
(i)
Serena and Andrew, intimacy and,
(i)
Sexy Mamas
(Winks and Semans),
(i)
Simon, Carly,
(i)
spontaneity, myth of,
(i)
Stella and James, childhood and,
(i)
Steven, childhood and desire and,
(i)
“story,” sex separated from,
(i)
submission and domination,
(i)
Elizabeth and Vito and,
(i)
hate and love and,
(i)
Jed and Coral and,
(i)
Marcus and,
(i)
power and,
(i)
sadomasochism and,
(i)
surrender, love and,
(i)
“talk intimacy,”
(i)
Talmud, story from,
(i)
teenage sexuality, Puritanism and,
(i)
Tiefer, Leonore,
(i)
Transformation of Intimacy, The
(Giddens),
(i)
values.
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cultural values verbal communication, as modern intimacy,
(i)
.
See also
intimacy, sexuality and cultural changes and,
(ii)
mind-body continuum and,
(i)
Mitch and Laura and,
(i)
verbal communication, as modern intimacy (
cont
.)
“talk” intimacy and,
(i)
Vito and Elizabeth, domination and,
(i)