Nothing But the Truth (2 page)

Score two points for me.

“You don’t have job.”

Five points for Mama. But I recover quickly: “I’ve got three weeks before summer starts. And Belly-button Grandmother said that I was going to find a great job.”

Shoot, Mama frowns and leans toward me. “When you out of college. No job at mall again. You spent more than earned last summer.”

Ouch. Ten points for Mama. From the grim look in her eyes, I can tell she’s not finished with this volley. Like always, she goes from our current fight to future doom-and-gloom in two seconds flat. “You need save money. Work hard. Go to good college. Get good job. Take care of self. No one take care of you once I gone.” Her lips purse the way they do whenever she makes an oblique reference to my long-gone father, still a sour memory after thirteen years.

I make a tactical error; I hesitate when I should push back hard with a comeback.

Like the brilliant fighter that she is, Mama drops the bomb just as a stocky waiter stops at our table: “You going to math camp.”

“
Math
camp?”

“At Stanford.” Mama becomes too engrossed in ordering our dinner to embellish further. Anyway, she’s won this skirmish.

While Mama’s conferring with our waiter about the freshness of the pea vines, I’m steaming like braised cod. A week with geeks while my friends are funning in the sun? I deliberately torpedoed my application to math camp by asking the one teacher I was sure hated me to write the mandatory recommendation. Obviously, my torpedo was a dud. Or was it? Mr. Powell couldn’t be taking revenge on me for me
talking one too many times in his Geometry class, could he? Con sidering that we were studying tangents, I thought my own about maximum heel height before you approach sluttiness was an appropriate application of the concept. (Inci dentally, the consensus was three inches for the optimal sexy-to-slutty ratio.)

“Bo po mo fo,”
mutters Abe, sneaking a peek over his menu. He’s barely containing a laugh.

I choke on my jasmine tea. Suddenly I’m tripping down memory lane to the year when Mama read an article about China’s enormous potential as a trade partner. Never mind that Abe was in third grade and I was in kindergarten. No matter, the two of us were going to learn Mandarin, our first baby step to financial security. While all the three-year-olds sailed through to the conversation classes, Abe
bo-po-mo-fo
’ed his way through the Chinese alphabet for an entire year. Mama finally realized she was just wasting her money on Abe, and he became a proud Chinese School Dropout. Unlike me, the Chinese School Drudge who had to keep going until ju nior high.

“What’s Abe doing this summer?” I ask as soon as Mama finishes with the waiter. I figure, whatever Abe’s doing, I’ll do, too. After all, this is
my
survival, my summer, my reputation at stake.

Abe reluctantly hands over his shield of a menu to the waiter. Vulnerable to attack, but highly trained in survival tactics, Abe gives up neutrality. He cracks his knuckles the way he does before pitching a no-hit game, and blurts out, “I’m going to be so busy preparing for Harvard.”

The Harvard card, I should have guessed he’d play it. Three hundred points for Abe.

Mama nods, looking at him proudly. Bonus, twenty points.

Since the thick crimson ac cep tance packet was wedged in our mailbox a couple of months ago, Abe has transformed from Boy Who Wasted His Time Weight Lifting to the Pride of the Potluck Party. For once, Abe is the kid all other Asian parents compare their children to. I mean, why else is Mama so thrilled to host the upcoming potluck party? Abe’s given her a free pass for the next century to boast, brag, and generally rub his brilliance in the envious faces of her so-called friends.

“Like what?” I demand. “What do you have to ‘prepare’?”

Abe shoots me a dirty look.

“I’ve got to pack my room, and I’ve got a job,” Abe, the perfect eldest son, responds.

Presto-chango! Witness another magical transformation, care of Harvard. Suddenly, being a lifeguard trumps tutoring for big bucks like he did last summer.

“You meet some nice girls,” says Mama to me, wiping her chopsticks on the paper napkin before arranging them straight on her plate. “And boys.”

I have a reasonable handle on English, can speak Taiwanese as well as a preschooler and could find my way around in Spain. My grasp of Mandarin has faded to the first four letters of the alphabet, “thank you,” “this is delicious,” and “you are a bad daughter.” But I am absolutely fluent in Mama-ese: a “nice” boy means he’s Taiwanese.

Not Japanese.

Not Korean.

Not even
gua-shing lan
—those Nationalist Chinese who fled the mainland and overran Mama’s beloved Taiwan some fifty years ago.

And certainly not white. Having two half-Asian kids obviously hasn’t made up for the great regret in Ho Mei-Li’s life: marrying that
yang gweilo.
Well, what do you know? Two more Chinese words I remember. How can I forget such an appropriate term to describe my father—the white foreigner ghost whose absence haunts our lives?

“Great, I get to date geeks,” I mutter.

“Not date!” Mama shakes her head emphatically. “It take long time know someone. Find Good One first. Then be friends long time. Then marry.”

Subtext: don’t pick a Bad One the way Mama did.

I check my watch. At that second, the only Good One I want, Mark, is probably slow dancing with his date, the most beautiful, blond ju nior varsity cheerleader in Lincoln High history. That thought mummifies my heart, wrapping it in endless layers of wanting but not having.

I don’t need to go to summer math camp to add one plus one. One: Mama must be so rattled by Belly-button Grandmother’s prediction that I’m going to end up with a white guy that she’s pushing me to fish for a nice Taiwanese boy. Plus one: said Taiwanese fishing hellhole is math camp at Stanford. Equals: I am so screwed.

Negative infinity points for me.

“Oh, dis-GUST-ing!”

For a split second, I think I’ve yelled out loud. But no, it’s Teenage Tourist Girl leaping out of her chair. Glowering, the waiter holds a bucket before her table. A fishtail flops over the brim, and Mom Tourist joins in with a shriek. The waiter stalks off, his face tight because how would you like to be part of some strangers’ anecdote for the next twenty-five years?
Look! They actually bring you a
live
fish! Can you imagine that?

The same waiter hauls a bucket to our table, glaring like he’s practically daring me to make a scene, too. But it’s not
me
the waiter should be worried about. Mama nods
fine
to him and our netted fish, and turns her eyes back to me.

“I don’t want to go,” I say feebly, knowing it’s futile to fight The Big Net that is my math summer camp.

Mama glowers at me. Oh, no, here we go again…

And she bites out the dreaded words: “You have it so easy.”

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“You have it so
easy,” Mama repeats, jabbing her chopsticks in the air at me with each point she makes, not caring that her voice is escalating or that everyone in the restaurant is watching. “Whenever you want something, you hold your hand out. You need a new book? I give it to you.” Jab. “You need some new pants. I give it to you.” Poke on the table. “You need, you need. When I was little, we so poor even though my father was dentist. But who could pay him? Not with money.” A couple of raps on her empty plate. “Maybe a
little rice. Or a chicken. We were so poor sometimes my mother grind up
cockroaches
for us to eat.”

At this point, I know better than to gasp in disbelief or contort my face into a disgusted expression. Audience interaction like this usually means an unwanted and often-prolonged jaunt into Ingrate Land.

Still, Mama sniffs indignantly, as if to say,
Can you believe how much I have suffered in my life?
Trust me, I can. I stare down at my hands clenched tightly on my lap. Honestly, what’s unbelievable is that I’m not hunchbacked with guilt from the number of times she’s told me and Abe how easy her life would have been if she had only married her Taiwanese suitor. Not our white guy of a dad. As if
we
chose our father, not she.

Mama breathes in sharply. She must be smelling my exasperation polluting the air.

“You think you too good to eat ground-up cockroach?” Mama scowls at me. “If you starving, you hold your hand out for cockroach. You say, please don’t grind up. I eat whole.”

I catch Teenage Tourist Girl looking like she’s going to projectile vomit. She shrieks, “Gross!” while staring at me with her mouth misshapened with disgust like I am a Teenage Tourist Girl from some primitive civilization. For the first time since this miserable day started, I am glad that the all-school dance is tonight because it means that no one I know, especially Mark, can waltz in and witness just one more moment in the Patty Ho Hall of Mothering Shame.

Mama finally recalls the purpose of her lecture, which is not to reminisce unhappily about long-ago hard times so much as to give me a hard time for my in-her-face too cushy of a life. She shakes her head like it’s a saltshaker full of
self-pity: “I would have given every thing to attend math camp if I had the opportunity.”

The
coup de grace,
like always, gets delivered in a tone of deep disappointment: “You are so lucky.”

When this lecture is delivered in the comfort of our own home, my shriveled-up shitake mushroom of a heart usually gets a good rehydration when I cry on my bed. One that I am so lucky not to have to share with a sister the way Mama did growing up.

Here in the restaurant, the bad part of me (OK, the ungrateful daughter in me) wants to say, “If I’m so lucky, then why did Daddy leave me here with you?”

But of course, I keep my mouth shut.

3
The Truth About Banana Splits

A
ny mention of the
“H” word—homework—usually stops all of Mama’s lectures in their tracks. So as soon as I step through the front door, painted cherry red last summer to flag down some good luck to our house, I plaster a serene expression on my face. Instead of saying,
Thanks for another anti-pep talk, Mama
like I want to, I force my mouth to say, “I’ve got a report I have to write by Monday.”

If my brain weren’t whirring with worry, I’d give thanks, cry hallelujah, weep tears of gratitude for my ability to procrastinate. My laziness has saved me from hours of lecturing.

I can’t run up the rosy carpeted stairs to my bedroom fast enough. I’ve had it with Mama and her quack of a fortune-teller and her warped idea of summer fun being equating while trolling for some “nice” Taiwanese boy. All I want is a nice soccer boy named Mark.

I jerk open my bedroom door even as every brain cell is screeching,
Don’t do it!
What lies ahead of me is a blank computer screen. Suddenly, I wonder if I shouldn’t suffer Mama’s lecture. You know, I could just focus on her moving mouth
and fill in other words like a badly dubbed foreign flick. Who am I kidding? There’s no time to play the subtitles game with Mama tonight. I’ve got to write an entire fiction about myself.

What I haven’t told Mama, what I’ve been trying to pretend all year that I’ve got under control, is that the essay is due Monday, thirty-six hours away, and I haven’t had the guts to jot down a single word.

On the first day
of the year, Mrs. Meyers announced to our Honors English class, “In three years, you’ll be applying to colleges and your competition isn’t the person sitting next to you.”

You could have heard every one of our brain cells churning as we all thought,
It’s not?
We stared at Mrs. Meyers, willing her to tell us who was. Tiny, dark, and handsome, she simply smiled her Sphinx smile at us as if she hadn’t caused shock waves to course through the class. Rumor had it that Mrs. Meyers was too smart to be a high school teacher. Rumor also had it that her husband was some computer guru who had hit it rich in the Silicon Valley. Why someone would willingly subject herself to this hellhole, better known as High School, was beyond me. But there I was, watching her like a kid at a magic show, completely transfixed.

“The young people you will be competing with to get into Harvard, Stanford, Princeton, Yale, any of the top-tier universities,” Mrs. Meyers said in her lilting, perfectly cadenced King’s English, “aren’t the students in Twin Harbor. They’re the ones at the private schools in Seattle: University Prep, Seattle Academy, Bush. Lakeside had
triple
the admittance
rate to those universities compared to Lincoln.” She crossed her thin arms.
“Triple.”