Old Before My Time (17 page)

Chapter 30
Kerry
Becoming a Teenager

A
S
H
AYLEY'S
13
TH BIRTHDAY
approached we had to ignore those ominous first warnings that
‘children with progeria die of heart disease or strokes at an average age of 13 years
'
and assume she would pass through puberty to reach adulthood. She had such a fighting character we believed that she would be the one to beat the statistics and prove all the experts wrong.
S
he had already marked several milestones that we once had never dared to dream of. She was taking the trial drugs to slow down the ageing process with what appeared to be positive results and her arteries and organs were in good shape. And she was attending secondary school just like any other kid – an achievement that her close friend Maddie never realised.

In spirit Hayley was already a typical teenager. She loved shopping and sleep-overs. She lived for social network sites Facebook and Twitter and had thousands of virtual friends all over the world that had seen her on TV and wanted to follow her life. And she was besotted by Canadian teen pop star Justin Bieber. Every minute of the day Hayley would be playing his hits
Baby
or
One Less Lonely Girl,
she even had life-sized posters on her bedroom wall. Whenever his name was mentioned I would tease her by saying, ‘You love him,' and she would blush.

As the actual date of her 13th birthday approached, my initial excitement of her reaching her teens was replaced with a fear. I was afraid to tempt fate by going over the top to mark her birthday, yet I wanted to make it special.

From a very early age we had started a tradition of treating every birthday as if it might be her last. For her first couple of birthday we had the tea parties for close family. For her fourth birthday we took her bowling with her Nanna and Pops and auntie Janie. Her fifth birthday was extra special as it coincided with her Child of Courage Award in London. And for several years after we combined her birthday celebrations with return invitations to the awards ceremonies in London. But as the years passed Mark and I became aware of the need to fulfil as many of her childhood dreams as we could. ‘She will never have the opportunity to see the world when she's our age, so we have to take her together and share the experience.'

Swimming with dolphins was high on her wish list after watching dolphins perform at one of the marine theme parks when we were on holiday in Florida. The TV programme
This Morning
had heard about this and for her eighth birthday they arranged to fly the family to Marineland park in the south of France. To add to the surprise the tickets were handed to her by Crocodile Hunter Steve Irwin when they met at the zoo.

On the morning of the trip I was forced to stay home with sickness so Mark took her. As they boarded the plane at Stansted airport, the pilot announced ‘We have to wish a happy eighth birthday to a special young lady. Hayley Okines is going to swim with dolphins.' Then Hayley's big blue eyes lit up when a flight attendant appeared with a big pink birthday cake and everyone on board joined in a chorus of Happy Birthday.

At the marine park Hayley was taken to the dolphin pool to live out her dream. She was too frail to risk actually swimming with the dolphins but they gave her a special swimming costume and extra-long waders so that she could walk into the pool and stroke the animals. The trainer showed her how to make them sing and as she waggled her bony fingers in the air they sang happy birthday in their squeaky dolphin voices. The whole trip was filmed and later broadcast on the prime time TV show
This Morning
, so even though I couldn't be there on the day I was able to relive her dream with her. As we sat down together at home to watch the programme the S Club 7 hit ‘Never Had A Dream Come True' was played out as the soundtrack and Hayley turned to me and said, ‘This is our song Mum.' I almost cried knowing that she had experienced something that most children of her age could only dream of. To this day, whenever I hear that song, it brings a lump to my throat.

For her ninth birthday we took her to see the pyramids in Egypt. Like many children of that age she was fascinated by the idea of mummies and wanted to know where they lived, so we had promised to take her. On the morning of her birthday the family woke up in a hotel room looking out over the pyramids at Giza. Mark and Louis rode a camel up to the pyramids but I was worried that a camel ride might be too bumpy for Hayley's ageing bones, so I took the girls on a horse and cart ride across the sand dunes. When we arrived at the great pyramid, we found ourselves surrounded by curious Egyptian children. But it wasn't Hayley they were interested in for a change – it was Ruby. She was only 18 months old and had a shock of white/blonde hair and blue eyes so dark-skinned Egyptian children were fascinated by her colouring and wanted to take photographs.

When she turned 12 Hayley finally got the opportunity to swim with dolphins when the make-a-wish charity The Starlight Foundation arranged for the family to fly out to Discovery Cove in Florida. As she was older and slightly taller than when she had her previous marine encounter, Hayley was allowed to get in the pool along with Louis. She giggled as she held onto the dolphins' fins and they dragged her though the water.

As she nearer her 13th birthday, the childish thrill of swimming with dolphins was replaced by a new dream – meeting her favourite pop star, Justin Bieber. It was a tall order and one that I wasn't sure I would be able to achieve. After all we were talking about one of the biggest pop stars in the world. Even trying to find an email or contact for his management was impossible.

Then a couple of weeks before her birthday I got a phone call from Hawaii.

‘Hi, my name is Scooter Braun, Justin Bieber's management company. I hear that your little girl Hayley wants to meet Justin Bieber.'

At first I thought it was a joke and thinking back I was probably rather ruder than I should have been with my non-committal, ‘Yeah, that's right,' reply. But I really thought I was being stitched up as part of some sick hoax.

The voice on the other end of the phone continued, ‘Justin's in London next week doing some TV and radio promotion. If you can get to London we can fix it up.'

OMG! It was no hoax. It was real. Justin's manager explained how they had been alerted to Hayley's wish on Twitter.

Hayley had been Tweeting about her Bieber Fever and a group of girls in America and the UK, who were following her on Twitter, had taken it upon themselves to make her dream happen. They had set up a hashtag #BiebsmeetHayley. Not being part of the Twitter generation I didn't really understand how these things worked. But it appeared that Hayley's friends had created a plea to Justin Bieber begging him to make her dream come true. This message went viral spreading from the original five girls via their followers and their followers' followers until it became so huge that it was one of the ‘trending' most popular topics all over the global site and the girls who started it all made the news in America. That's when Justin Bieber's managers heard about it and tracked us down via Hayley's website.

I couldn't begin to imagine how excited Hayley would be. It was the kind of present no money could buy. She was going to meet the hottest teen pin-up in the world? If anyone had told me that I would meet George Michael or the guy from the Levi jeans commercial when I was 13 I would have burst. I knew it was going to make Hayley's day. All I had to do was get her to London without raising any suspicion.

Chapter 31
Hayley
I Felt Sooo Lucky to Be Alive

I
WAS REALLY EXCITED
because I was going to be a teenager. My drugs were working and making me live longer. I thought that when I was 13 I would be grown up and my mum would have to let me go to the shops on my own with my friends. Usually she doesn't like me going out without her, she worries something will happen to me.

When Mum asked me what I wanted to do for my birthday, I said Justin Bieber. That would have been the best present in the world. But I knew I probably couldn't have that so instead I said I would have a sleep-over. I like having sleep-overs. Usually Ruby and Louis go to stay with Dad when my friends sleep over. We have dinner, and then play on my Wii games and watch DVDs. Usually if it's just my friend Erin we sleep in my bedroom. If I have two or three friends we pile up the duvets and pillows in the dining room and sleep there. I always sleep on the sofa because it's comfier for me. We get to stay up really late, until the early hours of the morning sometimes, just talking. If it's really late Mum texts me and says go to sleep. For my birthday Mum said that I could ask my friend Jessica, who is really funny, to sleep over with my cousin Sophie, who is 10, and her friend who is also called Jessica.

I have been lucky, I have had some really cool birthdays. Once I went to France to swim with dolphins. I don't remember a lot about it except that the water was cold and we played soccer with them. I have a video of me with the dolphins which is funny to watch because I looked so little. Another year I remember going to the pyramids in Egypt and there were lots of kids gathering around Ruby because she was so little. I was glad they weren't all looking at me because I would have been scared. For my 12th birthday we went to see the dolphins in Discovery Cove in Orlando and it was really nice. We had a private little bit with drinks and stuff that was fun. In France I stood in the pool but in Orlando we got right in with the dolphins and held on to their fins while I swam. I had to wear two wet suits so I wouldn't get cold. I held on to the dolphin's fin and it dragged me through the water. It was quite scary as I almost slipped off and the water was quite deep and I wasn't wearing a life jacket.

I hoped that for my 13th birthday maybe Mum might be planning a surprise party for me as well as the sleep-over. Mum is not usually good at surprises. I remember one year when I was four or five she picked me up from school on my birthday and told me she had a surprise for me. I said ‘Am I going bowling?' She asked me how I guessed. I said that I heard her talking to someone on the phone. Mum was disappointed that I found out but I said, ‘We can still go bowling; it just won't be a surprise.' That was the same year that Mum and Dad bought me a costume like Tinkerbell the fairy and I wanted to wear it bowling because I thought I looked gorgeous, but Mum wouldn't let me. When we got to the bowling alley Nanna and Pops were waiting with my Auntie Janie and my cousins Sophie and Jack and they all said surprise. I didn't know they were coming so it was a bit of a surprise after all.

One day before my 13th birthday I overheard Mum talking on the phone to someone called Alison. She was talking about meeting somewhere, but I couldn't hear what she was talking about. When I asked her who she was talking to, she said, ‘just a friend'. I thought that was suspicious as she usually tells me the names of her friends. I thought it might be Alison Hammond, who we had been watching on the TV programme
I'm A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here.
She was also on the TV show
This Morning
and was there when I met Steve Irwin for my birthday so I thought that maybe Mum was planning a surprise party for my 13th birthday. She said we were going to go shopping in London for my birthday. I have been to London lots for hospitals and when I am interviewed on TV but I had never been shopping before. I didn't know what sort of shops they had there, so I said it would be cool.

I was on Facebook the day before my birthday and I had some messages from my friends Emily, Charlie, Lauren, Casey and Sydney. They had made a video and posted it on YouTube. It said: ‘December 3 1997, the most precious little girl was born. She goes by the name of Hayley Okines. This girl is a pocketful of sunshine. She's so sweet, so kind, so loving, so caring, and so full of smiles and so many other incredible things. You've grown so much from a young baby to a young adult. Happy 13th birthday Hayley. We all hope you have the best birthday ever. We hope you live plenty more years filled with health, happiness, smiles, laughter, friends and family. We love you so much from all the girls in BiebsmeetHayley.' On the video loads of girls who were my friends held up cards and said happy birthday. It was so sweet. I had never met Emily, Charlie, Lauren, Casey and Sydney before but they had seen me on telly and asked to be my friend on Facebook.

Lots of my friends love Justin Bieber and when I said I would love to meet him they put it on Twitter. It said ‘Justin, Hayley is fighting for her life. It's her dying wish to meet you, please help make it come true. We love you Hayley.' #BiebsmeetHayley. Loads of people Tweeted it around the world and it got so big that the girls got to be on TV in America.

I have liked Justin Bieber for ages I first heard him when I was round my friend Lydia's house and she was listening to him. I thought, who's this? And she showed me his video on YouTube. He was really fit. Then I got a bit obsessed and started playing his music all the time on YouTube. I cut out his pictures and stuck them on my bedroom wall. Lydia bought me a giant poster for my birthday which is like almost as big as real life. Last Christmas Mum bought me a Justin Bieber calendar. I had it on my bedroom wall until Ruby started kissing it, which is so annoying because she was never bothered about him till I started liking him. Mum had to move it where she can't reach it. I can't reach it either but I don't want to kiss it all the time like her. My friends on Facebook like him too. We always talk about what it would be like to meet him and what we would do. I think that maybe I am his biggest fan.

I hoped that one day I could meet Justin Bieber. My friends in America said they hoped that one day they can meet me which is really sweet. I have asked my mum if we can make it happen and she says ‘We'll see.' It makes me happy when everyone says nice things about me!

On the day of my actual birthday I had lots of cards and presents and £110 in money. Mum took me shopping in the morning. We bought cake and crisps and chocolate for my sleep-over. The next morning after the sleep-over, my friends went home and me, Mum, Dad, Ruby and Louis and my cousin Sophie went up to London shopping.

When we got there Mum took us into this really posh hotel. I asked her why we were going there. She hesitated and said we were going to get coffee because it was cold outside. I said to my cousin Sophie that doesn't sound right. It was weird because I am always the one that gets cold and I always have to wear a cardigan even in the summer because I have progeria and I don't have much body fat to keep me warm like other kids. Anyway we went into the hotel and I took off my gloves and hat. I said I wanted to go to the toilet so me and Sophie went to the toilet. While we were in the toilet Sophie said to me, ‘What would you do if Justin Bieber was here?' ‘I would scream,' I said. When I came back I heard Mum on the phone to that woman called Alison again. I thought it must be the one from
This Morning
. Mum told us to go upstairs and wait for her. So we did. When we came back Justin Bieber was standing there. I thought, that's not possible. It can't be Justin Bieber. But it really was. I tried to play it cool but I screamed and ran towards him and hugged him. My arms only reached his waist because he was really tall. But he put his arm around me and I kept thinking, I am the luckiest girl in the world. Justin Bieber is holding me! We sat down next to each other and we talked about my friends and my progeria and how cool it was to meet him. Then he asked what I wanted for Christmas and I said, ‘You!' and he laughed and I went a bit red. Then he said he was going to be on
X Factor
the next night and asked if I watched
X Factor
. I said I would definitely watch it if he was on. And he laughed. He said he was coming back to Britain to do a concert in a couple of months and would I like to have front-row seats. I just said, ‘Yes please!' I thought, it can't get any better than this. My life is complete.

Before Justin left Mum got her camera out and asked if we could take a picture. He put his arm around me and smiled and I smiled back my biggest smile ever. My favourite song of Justin's is
U Smile
. In it he sings, ‘When you smile, I smile.' I thought this is true it's really happening.

When we were going home I said to Sophie, ‘Did you know we were going to meet Justin Bieber?' She said she didn't and I believed her.

When I got home I went on Facebook and said I had met him. All my friends like him even more now. They say he is a caring person. Even Mum said he was lovely and normally she only likes men with big guns – that's what she calls muscles. Meeting Justin Bieber was definitely the best day of my life ever!

I didn't think it could get any better but then three months later on March 17 2011 we went to see him in concert in London with the front-row seats he had promised and I got to meet him again. I went with Mum, Erin, Auntie Janie and my cousin Sophie. Before Justin came on stage we saw Willow Smith. She is like only eleven and is a really big pop star. Her dad is the famous movie star Will Smith. When she was on stage she saw me in the front row dancing and waving and she waved back. When she finished singing one of the bodyguards came up to Mum and said Willow would like to meet me back stage. I thought that was really cool. We went back stage and everyone was looking at us thinking, who are they? Why are they going back stage? I felt really special.

Back stage Willow came out of her dressing room to say hello. She was really wicked. I said I thought she was a really good singer and she asked if I would have my photo taken with her like I was the famous person not her. Then she asked for my address and gave me her email and told me to email her anytime.

Then who should come along but Justin Bieber. He was even nicer than I remembered the first time. And he actually remembered me and thanked me for coming. I said it was OK, he didn't have to thank me. I felt good to think that he sees loads of girls all over the world but he remembered who I was. Mum asked if he would do a video for my new website. He looked at the camera and said, ‘Hi. Welcome to Hayley's new website.' That is so cool I can't wait until Dad gets time to put it on my new website. How many girls can say Justin Bieber has given them a special message? Then I thought how many girls can say they have met Justin Bieber – twice! I felt sooo lucky to be alive.