Authors: Flora Fraser
The Duchess of Gloucester was always content when with Victoria and Albert and their children. She watched âPuss' â Princess Vicky â play as a toddler in the Grand Corridor at Windsor when she stayed there one November, and was delighted when her great-niece and her great-nephew Bertie were brought down to
luncheon.
Bertie, Prince of Wales, received a letter from his great-aunt four years later, thanking him for the pretty drawing he had made for her birthday. She told the five-year-old she had just seen his grandmama, the Duchess of Kent. âI fear in this cold weather you will not have found your garden much advanced as to flowers,' she said, âand that the east wind will make it very cold by the
seaside.'
The Queen had taken her growing family to holiday on the Isle of Wight, which had remained a favourite spot from her childhood â even though her first acquaintance with it had come through her bête noire, Sir John Conroy.
Meanwhile the Duchess summered at her new country retreat, White Lodge in Richmond Park. Having previously demurred at moving from Bagshot, she took up residence in this new home after Lord Sidmouth, the old premier and its previous inhabitant, died in 1843. Her sister Sophia's increasingly weak condition made Mary reluctant to be out of easy reach of her at Bagshot. White Lodge was a charming solution. The Duchess established all her furniture and pictures there, and soon the Lodge was redolent of comfortable chairs and feminine charm.
Queen Victoria took her five-year-old daughter Vicky with her on a visit to her aunt Sophia one January day after luncheon in 1846. They found âa sad sufferer and a complete cripple, unable to move, and quite blind', as the Queen recorded afterwards in her diary. âIn spite of it all,' she marvelled, âshe is quite cheerful. She was much pleased at my bringing Vicky who was very civil and good.' Six months later, however, after another visit the Queen was less sanguine. Sophia was âin a very sad state', she wrote in her diary, and she felt âthe greatest pity for her ⦠her existence is dreadful and she bears it so admirably, without ever
complaining.'
Eighteen months later in January 1848 there came a change. At seventy years old Sophia was suddenly, as the Duke of Cambridge reported to Queen Victoria, âin a very precarious state and, I fear, sinking ⦠she seems herself not to wish to
live on.'
Queen Victoria drove to see her aunt on Valentine's Day, and found her âmuch altered. She is nearly bent double, and very much wasted, and her voice is very
feeble.'
In the midst of anxiety about Aunt Sophia, Victoria and Albert had cause for concern about the Queen's other aunt, the Duchess of Gloucester. Aunt Mary was âagain in one of her nervous states', wrote her niece Victoria to Uncle Leopold in May 1848, âand gave us a dreadful fright at the christening [of Victoria and Prince Albert's latest daughter, Princess Louise] by quite forgetting where she was and ⦠kneeling at my feet in the middle of the service. Imagine our
horror.'
Leopold's reply was swift: âYou must have been terrified by the poor Duchess of Gloucester.' And he added quite untruly, âThere is a little madness in her
case.'
But Victoria believed everything that Leopold said about the âold Royal Family', of which he had so briefly been part â and with whom he had fought over Charlotte's memory.
In fact, the elderly Duchess had been much affected by having to give her opinion, as her sister Augusta had years earlier, in a case that rumbled on. Should Victoria or Ernest in Hanover inherit Queen Charlotte's jewels? Plumping, like Augusta before her, for Ernest, Mary still felt all the weight of her niece Victoria's disapproval of her answer, and it had preyed on her mind. Soon she was to be further disturbed in her old age, for, one afternoon in May 1848, the Duchess's remaining sister Princess Sophia died quite dramatically for one so weak.
âIt was terribly sudden and melancholy in the midst of such rejoicing,' Queen Victoria wrote in her journal. She and Albert had held a very successful drawing room that day at St James's â Mary was not there, âAunt Sophia not being so well'. When it was over, Prince Albert decided to ride down to Kensington and enquire at York House after the invalid's health. Meanwhile, Queen Victoria took a drive around the Park to get some air with her younger children, Princess Alice and Prince âAffie' or Alfred. She had just returned and was in the garden of Buckingham Palace when Albert's equerry, Captain Gardiner, came running in. Victoria was terrified that some harm had come to Albert. But the Captain explained â to her âutter astonishment', as the Queen wrote in her journal â that Albert had sent him from Kensington with word that âpoor Aunt Sophia had just
expired.'
The Prince himself had gone at once to Aunt Gloucester.
At Gloucester House the Duchess, who was calm and composed, revealed that, after seeing her sister at Kensington that afternoon, she had told the rest of the family who were gathered there of Sophia's mortal danger, but she had begged them not to send word to Victoria, as the drawing room should not be put off. The Duchess had then gone home, and, by the time she returned to York House at about six, Princess Sophia had âpassed away almost imperceptibly' â with her hand in that of her sister-in-law, the Duchess of Cambridge. Mary reported that Sophia looked in death at last âmost
placid.'
Sophia's had not been a life to remember with pleasure, or one that anyone could have wished prolonged. âShe was blind, helpless and suffered martyrdom; a very clever, well-informed woman but [one] who never lived in the
world,'
was the diarist Charles Greville's cold assessment. But Sophia had been much loved by the few to whom she had allowed a degree of friendship. The Duchess of Kent, who went to her daughter Queen Victoria after dinner that evening, was âmuch shocked' by the news, âhaving been very intimate', Victoria wrote, âwith poor Aunt Sophia, for, when we lived at Kensington, we saw her almost daily and she was always very kind and
amiable.'
There was immense curiosity in the family about Sophia's financial affairs and about her directions for burial. The Duchesses of Gloucester and Cambridge searched at Sophia's house in Kensington, as Queen Victoria noted in her journal, for âany will or papers, directing what was to be done'. Finding nothing, and knowing that Sir John Conroy âhad done everything' for the Princess, reluctantly they thought it best to send for him. He reported, as Queen Victoria put it, that everything was in âthe greatest order', but confirmed that there was no will, âthough he had several times expressed the wish [for her] to make one'. (Princess Augusta too had died intestate, but her sister Sophia should have had more to leave. With every death of the royal sisters who lived in England, the Parliamentary sum that the remaining princesses received â and that had been allotted them for division as far back as 1812 â grew larger.) Princess Sophia had always answered that âshe knew her brother and sister Dolly and Minny would do all that was
right.'
To the surprise â and disappointment â of the royal family, it emerged that Sophia had left practically nothing. She had expended all that she had had, at different times, on Sir John Conroy, on the purchase of his residences and on the maintenance of his family in a superior style, and on her charities.
Members of the royal family, following Sophia's death, visited her corpse at Vicarage Place, where it had been laid out by her dresser Mrs Cochrane. Although the Princess had left no will, she had, as it turned out,
left clear instructions about where that corpse should be buried. Two days after her death her banker Mr Drummond brought to Queen Victoria a letter dated 11 March of that year, in which Sophia expressed the wish to be buried âon the south side of the cemetery of Kensal Green', close to where her brother Augustus was buried, and her funeral âto be as private as possible'.
Where her brother Augustus had been buried earlier and where his widow the Duchess of Inverness was to be laid in due course, Princess Sophia's coffin was put to rest on 6 June 1848 â for the moment, within the cemetery vault. (Prince Albert's artistic adviser, Professor Ludwig Grüner of Dresden, had been given the task of designing a casket tomb to stand on the plot opposite that of the Duke of Sussex, long Sophia's fellow inmate at Kensington Palace.) The Duke of Cambridge was much affected, and all Sophia's ladies attended the interment, but, as Sophia had wished and as Queen Victoria recorded in her journal, âThere were only mourning coaches, no royal
ones.'
A year later, the Princess's tomb was ready, and Princess Sophia's remains were duly transferred to âgrave plot
number 8028',
and to Grüner's wreathed and swagged quattrocento sarcophagus. Carved of Carrara marble by the eminent Signor Bardi, with lions' paws for legs and bearing the name Sophia, this elegant casket perched atop a high stone podium made by Edward Pearce. On one panel of the podium ran the fitting legend, âCome unto me all ye that labour and are heavy laden and I will give you rest.' In addition Sophia's royal relations, while following her instructions for a private funeral, had ensured that her burial place would always attract attention. For while, across the way, her brother Augustus's sarcophagus was, if massive, plain, Sophia's ornate casket tomb was, in the public cemetery, highly noticeable, being surmounted by a large coronet.
As for the last remaining daughter of George III, the Duchess of Gloucester's dresser Mrs Gold said her mistress ânever thought of being, or wished to be, buried anywhere but at Windsor and ⦠was much shocked at her brother, the Duke of Sussex, and her sister being buried at Kensal Green, remarking at the time, “They shall not carry
me there.'
” Accordingly the Duchess of Gloucester set down immediately after Princess Sophia's death the directions for her own interment at Windsor, whenever it should occur.
There were those who thought that Sophia chose Kensal Green as a burial place where her son Tommy Garth might one day also lie, but she left no such instructions. It seems likely that the idea would have been repugnant in the extreme to Sophia. Tommy Garth himself, however, may
have believed that this wish directed her choice of burial ground. He certainly expected to inherit a fortune on her death, as he later told George, Duke of Cambridge â and he swore it was George's own father, Adolphus, who had told him so immediately after Sophia's death. But of course there was nothing.
Shortly after his passage of arms with Sir Herbert Taylor in 1829, Tommy Garth, failing to fend off creditors any longer, had taken up residence in the King's Bench debtors' prison in south London. He remained there five years â years during which his lover Georgiana Astley stayed close by and gave birth to his daughter, Georgiana Rosamund Garth. Adding further melodrama to a story already overladen with it, Lady Astley died in childbirth. And her daughter, whom we must assume to have been Sophia's granddaughter, although she was baptized confusingly after her mother's death as the daughter of Sir Jacob and Lady Astley, was reared in the neighbourhood of the King's Bench, while her father Tommy Garth lingered inside. Appeals to Sir Herbert from prison eventually brought Garth in 1834 a lump sum of £10,000 to effect his release and establishment, and when he emerged from jail he took his young daughter Georgiana to
live with him.
Princess Sophia's death in 1848 and the disappointment of his hopes that he was the heir to a fortune came at a moment when Tommy Garth's lump sum of £10,000 from Sir Herbert had dwindled to nothing. Repeated appeals to the royal purse secured, as the scandal faded, a less generous settlement, a pension of £300 a year. When, following her father's death in 1875, Georgiana Garth made claims of her own to the royal family for assistance, she failed entirely in her
attempts
. If Tommy Garth's life had been blighted from birth by the mystery of his parentage, Georgiana Rosamund was doubly cursed. She never married, apparently feeling that the scandal of her birth and its circumstances made such an enterprise impossible. In this she echoed her grandmother Sophia's own sentiments from years before.
Following Sophia's death in May 1848, Victoria and Albert were tender in their care of the Duchess of Gloucester.
Seaside air,
they decided, would help to ease her suffering. That July she was invited to Osborne, their new house on the Isle of Wight, to âwalk around by the sea' and to play with her great-nephews and nieces. Uncle Cambridge, as a great concession, was invited too, and the brother and sister planted trees at their niece's request, then sat under their shade. âAunt Gloucester is a most kind, amiable
old lady
and very
sensible,'
was Victoria's judgement.
With
Princess
Sophia's death the Duchess of Gloucester and her brother the Duke of Cambridge were released from their dutiful daily attendance at York House in Kensington, just as their sister was released from her circumscribed life. But the loss for the Duchess was frightful, and her sister's death no blessing. Sophia had been to her a cherished companion, the sister nearest in age, the last of the sisterhood whose memories were long and active. A
year
later, back at Osborne, Mary âtalked with grief of Aunt Sophia and many things which had
distressed her.'
The Queen took her aunt for a drive after lunch to distract her, and a beach expedition the next day with the Prince of Wales, the Princess Royal, Princess Alice and Affie was still more successful. They floated about on two barges until eight in the evening.
That same year, 1849, the Duchess went with her brother Cambridge and his
family
to the Isle of Anglesey, when he was ordered
there
for his health, and they mourned together the death of their pious sister-in-law Adelaide, the Queen Dowager. But neither the Duchess nor the Cambridge household at Kew suspected that they were soon to be dealt a far worse blow. In July 1850 âdear Dolly' was taken fatally ill at his London home, Cambridge House in South Audley Street, and an express was sent to Mecklenburg-Strelitz to urge his daughter Gussy to leave for England at once if she wished to see him alive.