June 2003
I DIDN’T SAY ANYTHING FOR A MOMENT; I JUST STARED AT DR. Adler’s bookshelves. I noticed she had relocated
The Age of Innocence
from its hiding place on the bottom shelf to one of the upper shelves. I wondered if there was some message for me in this gesture or if it was just a random act. Probably whoever cleaned her office put it there.
“And then what happened?” Dr. Adler asked.
“What do you mean?”
“I think you know perfectly well what I mean. It’s a fairly straightforward question.”
“I know. I didn’t really mean what, I meant why: Why would you ask me that question? If I wanted to tell you what happened next, I would.”
“Would you? I’m not sure you would.”
“Why wouldn’t I?”
Dr. Adler sighed wearily, which I thought was an unprofessional thing for a psychiatrist to do. “I think you’re smart enough to know what you’re doing,” she said. “And I don’t think it’s helping you, or us. In fact, that’s probably why you’re doing it.”
I looked at her. She had never made pronouncements like this before, and I was startled. She looked directly back at me, her expression hard and clear and unvarying.
“You make it very difficult for people to talk to you, sometimes. Often, in fact. You create obstacles. Why do you think you do that?”
“Because I don’t want people to talk to me,” I said.
“Why?”
“I don’t know. I just don’t.”
“I think you do,” she said.
“Can we just forget this? Can I just tell you what happened next?”
“You can forget anything you want. You can tell me anything you want.”
“What if I want to forget everything and tell you nothing?”
“Then I suppose that, among other things, you should stop coming here to see me.” She leaned back in her chair—I hadn’t noticed that at some point she had leaned forward. She crossed her arms and looked at me gently, patiently, as if we could sit like that forever. She smiled slightly, as if she remembered something fairly pleasant from a long time ago.
I don’t know why, but it was a nice moment. One of those moments when everything seems to be in its place. The pencils in the Guggenheim Museum coffee mug on her desk, how they fell away from each other at varying angles and directions, like those apparently casual beautiful flower arrangements that are actually the result of much artful expertise—I had a notion of them being the center of the universe and everything spreading out around them, all the other items on the desk, the office, the building, the block, the city, and the world beyond.
“I feel very good about where everything is,” I said.
She nodded as if she understood what I was talking about.
“What happened next was that the bus drove back into D.C. and I got out in a nice neighborhood with lots of nice hotels and I went into the nicest and used my mother’s credit card to check in. I was worried because I had no suitcase and in movies hotel clerks are always suspicious of people checking in with no bags, but it didn’t seem to be a problem at this hotel. And then I took the elevator upstairs and used my little key card to get in the room, and it was just like a hotel room should be, it was very clean and still and quiet and there was something about the stillness and the quiet that made me feel weird, like I shouldn’t speak or move or I would disturb the room. I wanted to be as quiet and still as the room. I wanted to be as little in the room as possible. To have the least effect on the room I could have. So I lay down very carefully on the bed, trying not to muss the comforter.”
“I lay on the bed and thought about what I had done. I knew that leaving the theater was bad, not getting back on the bus was bad, but there was nothing I could do about it now. So I did nothing. I thought the best thing to do would be nothing, and in that way things couldn’t get any worse. I kept thinking about that oath that doctors take: First, do no harm, and I kept saying it to myself, over and over,
first do no harm, first do no harm, first do no harm,
and that was fine because I didn’t want to do anything or think anything, and at some point I fell asleep.”
“I spent most of the next day wandering around D.C. I was a little afraid I might run into The American Classroom somewhere, or they would drive by and someone in one of the buses would look out the window and see me, but then I realized that would never happen. That I was alone and no one could find me. No one knew where I was or who I was. It was a beautiful day, I remember, warm and springlike, everything green and blooming. The trees had new leaves, clean, fresh new leaves, like baby lettuce. Filed greens.”
“When it got dark I went back to the hotel, and had dinner in the restaurant. It was a very bad fancy restaurant, but luckily I had my American Classroom clothes on, so I looked like a nice young man and I remember sitting alone and having this very expensive (bad) dinner and thinking that other people in the restaurant were looking at me and wondering who I was, what I was doing there, eating alone.”
“And then I went up to the room and slept the same as the night before, on top of the comforter. I think I thought that if I didn’t leave any evidence of being in the hotel room I could somehow claim I had never been there. That my mother couldn’t get angry at me for using her credit card to charge a three-hundred-dollar hotel room if I had only barely experienced it, hadn’t used the towels or the whirlpool bathtub or the complimentary organic bath products scented with ylang-ylang, hadn’t lain between the four-hundred-thread-count sheets or watched soft-core porn on my in-room entertainment center.” I paused. “Is my time almost up?”
Dr. Adler looked past me, as if she could tell time by gazing into the future, but I knew she was only looking at the clock that was strategically placed on the bookshelf facing her. “No,” she said. “Why?”
“Because I don’t want to start talking about what happened the next day if there isn’t time.”
“Don’t worry about that. There isn’t a patient after you. What happened the next day?”
“The next day I got up and had breakfast at Au Bon Pain and read
The Washington Post
. There was a small article about me being missing and a photo. The caption under the photo was ‘James Sveck: Missing Misfit.’”
“Are you making that up?” Dr. Adler asked.
“No,” I said. “It’s the truth. I was the missing misfit. Google it if you don’t believe me. They interviewed Nareem Jabbar because she was the last person to speak with me, and she said I was a misfit. Actually she said I didn’t fit in, but ‘James Sveck: He Didn’t Fit In and He’s Missing’ isn’t a good caption.”
“Okay,” she said. “Go on.”
I paused for a moment because I didn’t like the way she was directing me. “I knew no one would recognize me because the picture in the paper was my yearbook photo from junior year, when I was experimenting with long hair. I have to admit I did look rather like a misfit.”
“After breakfast I went to the National Gallery. I love how the National Gallery is free. You can walk in and walk out and walk back in. When I find something good like that (which is practically never), I try to take advantage of it, so I’d go out one door and back in at another entrance because it felt so good to enter a museum for free. Anyway I spent a lot of time in the museum. It was odd, like I had never been in a museum before. It just seemed weird that you could walk in and look at all these old, beautiful, valuable paintings. You could look at them closely, with nothing between you and the painting. And I was going very slowly, looking at every painting, and I felt that there was something beautiful about each one. Even the ugly still lifes of dead fish or lynched rabbits, or the bloody religious paintings, if you just looked at little pieces of them, like a single square inch, the paint was beautiful, and I kept thinking about the difference between these rooms of paintings and the dinner theater and how good the paintings made me feel about life and how bad the dinner theater made me feel. And I knew life was not about a choice between the National Gallery and a dinner theater, but I felt that it was in some way, that the two couldn’t coexist, that if you had a world with these paintings in it, hung in these beautiful rooms that anyone could walk in off the street and see, then how could there also be TV moms acting in a terrible play while people watched them and ate chicken paprika? I suppose most people would think that it was wonderful, that the world is so varied, that there is something for everyone, and I don’t know why I felt so closed and bitter and threatened by things I did not like. I knew I was fucked up and I thought:
misfit, misfit.
”
“Then I walked into a small room with only four paintings, and I remembered those paintings from the last time I had been in the National Gallery, which was on my eighth-grade class trip to Washington. They are by Thomas Cole and are called
The Voyage of Life.
Have you seen them?”
“No,” she said. “I don’t believe I have.”
“This is embarrassing because they’re very sentimental, hokey, kind of stupid paintings. They depict the four ages of man: childhood, youth, manhood, and old age. In each one a figure in a boat is floating down a river and is guided by an angel. In the first one, there’s a little baby in the boat, and the boat is emerging from a dark cave. The womb. It’s early morning and the stream flows calmly through an idyllic valley full of flowers. The angel is in the boat, standing up behind the baby, and they both have their arms stretched out to embrace the world before them. In the
Youth
painting it’s noon and the boat has moved farther into the beautiful valley. The baby has morphed into a young lad and he’s standing up, reaching out toward the future. The angel is hovering on the bank, pointing the way like a traffic guard. The clouds have formed themselves into a fantastic castle in the air, surrounded by blue sky. In the
Manhood
painting the stream has turned into a raging river, and the landscape is rocky and barren. It’s dusk and the sky is full of storm clouds. The youth is now a man and he’s still standing up in the boat, but now his hands are clasped in prayer as the boat heads toward the rapids. The angel is far away, looking down through a hole in the clouds, watching the boat as it plunges forward. It’s very creepy. In the final painting the boat enters from the opposite side of the canvas. It’s hard to say what time it is, because the sky is full of dark clouds except for far in the distance, where there are shafts of light falling. It’s some twilit time outside of time. The river is about to flow calmly into a huge dark sea. An old man sits in the boat and the angel floats right above him, pointing toward the dark sea and sky. In the distance another angel looks down from the clouds. The old man’s hands are still clasped, but it is hard to know if he’s praying, or beseeching the angel to save him before he floats off into the huge creepy darkness.”
I paused.
“You know those paintings very well,” said Dr. Adler.
“When I first saw them, when I was in eighth grade, I thought they were wonderful. They seemed very profound. I bought prints of them, one of each, in the gift shop. Not postcards, but actual prints. I used the money my mother had given me to buy souvenirs, and I brought them home and put them in cheap frames and hung them over my desk.
Childhood
and
Youth
on top and
Manhood
and
Old Age
beneath. And I liked to look at them. They’re very formulaic, but I liked that, I liked to see how the elements changed from one to another. How the clouds were castles in one and thunderheads in the next. How the fertile valley became a rocky wasteland. And then one day this kid named Andrew Mooney came over after school and he saw the paintings and told me they were stupid and faggy, so I took them down. I think I threw them away. Anyway, I forgot about them.” I paused.
“Yes …” Dr. Adler murmured.
“I was shocked when I saw them again, exactly as they had been, in the same little room. I couldn’t believe that such hokey paintings would be on permanent view at the National Gallery. And then I had the irrational feeling that they had not been, that somehow someone knew I was coming back and had just rehung them. That it was some sort of trap or something. But I knew that wasn’t true. I knew that they had hung there—I guess it was only five years, but it seemed like a very long time. You can’t go backward in time, I know that. But that’s what I felt I had done. Everything else sort of dropped away, those five years and the entire world, and I felt like I was two people. Seriously. I could feel what I felt when I was thirteen looking at the paintings, and I could feel what I felt then. I stayed in the room for a very long time. I kept thinking, I should go now, but I didn’t. A guard kept coming in and looking at me. And then I got upset because I realized I wanted to be in the last painting,
Old Age.
I wanted to be in the boat floating into darkness. I wanted to skip the
Manhood
boat. The man in that boat looked terrified, and I couldn’t understand what the point was: why crash through those treacherous rapids along a river that only flowed into darkness, death? I wanted to be in the boat with the old man, with all the danger behind, with the angel near me, guiding me toward death. I wanted to die.”