Sufficient Grace (2 page)

My family is my church, and my church — the Full Quarter Church of Failing — is my family. What I know of women and men I know from Full Quarter. There, folks have sore knees from hunting, farming and praying on concrete, crying out in the sanctuary and in the milking pen alike. Hands callused from axe handles, factory machines, and mixing spoons raise up in praise to the Lord. We sing
holy, holy, holy
and we welcome everybody, former drunks and wife beaters included. We don't drink poison and raise the dead, but we might.

Sometimes I know what they are talking about in church, sitting in the sanctuary in our pews or on folding metal chairs in a circle in the fellowship hall. They talk about the lost, the world, keeping a clean house, and standing before God to give account. But they don't question what I question. Like why we keep trout but leave suckers on riverbanks to die, and which caterpillars turn into butterflies and which to moths. How come cold rises up from the ground? Folks stay busy talking about flesh falling into sin, who and what's under the blood, and their prayer life and spiritual walk. All that is more about women and men, than God. But women and men is where God is.

Sunday means church, so we get up early in the dark. Daddy has warmed the pick-up truck; it's humming in the garage. My brother Reuben is yawning, and Mom's still braiding her hair as we pile into the truck and drive to town.

Before Uncle Ingwald's preaching starts, the worship service goes on for a half an hour, starting with the regular, old-timey hymns and usually finishing with a couple praise songs or choruses. Aunt Gloria, with her wavery, opera-lady voice and baby hands, is leading the singing. Sometimes, when the Spirit lays heavy in the air over the heads of the congregation, he will descend. It seems he descends quite regularly onto Grandma Esther.

My daddy's momma has the gift of tongues. Not that that is much unusual, as most folks in my church have been filled with the Holy Spirit and use heavenly languages to worship and pray in church most Sundays. But Grandma Esther's gift is more than a prayer language: she prophesies. Right when she was filled with the Holy Ghost, my grandma got some of her spiritual gifts, and she got some more as she grew stronger in her walk with the Lord. She grows more powerful daily with Jesus. We don't take up snakes like some churches we hear of in the South, but I bet Grandma could.

Grandma is stronger than a snake, and through Jesus she is stronger than death. Grandma is a discerner of spirits: she can tell the living from the dead, more like good from evil if I understand right. When the Spirit comes upon her and gives her a message for the church, she feels it in her bones whether it is the Lord or the Enemy speaking, trying to lead us astray. How she tells the voices apart, I don't know. But she knows, and the Lord knows, and that is enough.

Everybody is rocking slowly in the pews, standing or sitting as the Spirit leads them, singing their own song of love and joy or weeping out repentance to the Lord. Suddenly, it seems as if the air has been sucked out of the sanctuary, and my skin feels hot and tight. There is a stillness and a quiet like the middle of the woods. Grandma in her pale church dress bolts straight up in her pew. It's time.

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Grandma speaks out the words that the Holy Spirit puts in her heart; the Spirit of God indwells her body and gives the entire congregation a message. She speaks soft and slow, and she speaks harsh and fast. She always speaks the Word of the Lord. Her rhythm matches the ancient drumming that plays on the reservation radio station, and her voice matches the tribe's low rumbling and pitched cries.

Aunt Gloria waits up at the podium on the stage. Keeping her head still and her eyes open, she waits silently with the congregation. She looks out on us; I see her eyes rest on her children, my cousin Samuel sitting next to his sister Naomi in the front pew. During this time, I'm meant to be praying to the Lord and waiting on one of his servants to bring forth a translation; instead, I'm holding my breath and looking round the room for tongues of fire to be resting on people's heads like the day of Pentecost. I haven't seen any fire yet, but maybe my eyes haven't yet been gifted for the seeing. I close my eyes and pretend I'm just not there, not alive in the Spirit, maybe closer to dead.

But my spirit leaps within me and I hear:
It is hard to tell the living from the dead
.

Then, I see.

In my mind's eye I can see what Grandma speaks: an opossum lies stock still, foam caking in the corners of its mouth and stank coming up from the hindquarters. The thing is laying on a dirt road, feigning death, telling a lie. Its fangy teeth glare up from the ground, daring me to move it, but even if I grab that bait by the tail and drag it off the road, the liar won't start. Possums blur the line between the quick and the dead.

Nasty pinched face with stinky white fur, that ain't attractive to me. Once, Grandma told me that she'd used an opossum fur sponge in the bathtub as a girl, and that nothing she'd used since had even come close to the clean she got with a possum. She also said that spring brides would sometimes eat possum tail before their wedding to attract a New Year baby. The only redeeming feature I can see in the opossum is that she carries her babies in a pouch or on her back; running or climbing, she keeps them close to her. And no snake can kill her; she is stronger than his bite.

The church waits. I play possum and hold my breath; I do not speak the vision. God's revelation to our church will have to be interpreted by someone else. I'm no prophet; I'm scared that Grandma's blood in my veins will call out to God and tell him that I'm ready. Then again, most everybody in our church is related already, so there is lots of Grandma's blood calling out. Besides my aunt and uncle, I've got cousins and second cousins and third cousins filling up the pews. Our whole family — except the dead and my prodigal Uncle Peter — sits inside this very sanctuary.

Usually, after waiting to give others an opportunity to walk in the gifts of faith, Aunt Gloria still ends up bringing forth the message anyway.

And Aunt Gloria speaks, clipping her words, almost quacking, ‘The Lord sayeth unto us — do not be afraid of what is happening all around you. Do not look to the left and fear what tragedy is befalling your neighbour; do not look to the right and covet what joy is uplifting your enemy. For it is my will, sayeth the Lord, my will which shall determine the tragedy and joys, sorrow and smiles of my people. I will guide you. I will protect you. You are mine, I am yours, and you are safe in my arms!'

She did not see what I saw.

Everyone thanks God for the message of safety and love. Quickly, all the air comes back in the room and swells up folks into joy and thanksgiving. Most everybody starts calling out happy prayers to God, and little patches of singing erupt in different rows throughout the church. The breeze wafting through the church smells like grass right after the rain.

Daddy, though, stands with his hands folded and his eyes squeezed shut tight. Reuben and I lean together against the back wall of the church. My mom sways while she softly plays the church organ, and Grandma Esther sits down exhausted in her pew, next to my silent cousins. My uncle nods at them from the stage. Aunt Gloria leads the church in singing one of our favourite choruses.

As the deer panteth for the water, so my soul longeth after Thee. You alone are my heart's desire, and I long to worship Thee. You alone are my strength, my shield. To You alone may my spirit yield. You alone are my heart's desire, and I long to worship Thee
.

After morning service, we are having a special youth Sunday school class to talk about coming of age and meeting your intended. All of the teenagers in the church were whispering and joking during my mom's scripture study about courtship and marriage, but when Uncle Ingwald came into the fellowship hall, they stopped their kidding around. He's my dad's eldest brother — scrawny and bald — but he's stern Pastor Ingwald to most of them. Especially when my brother Reuben and our cousin Samuel sat up square on the couch and quit crossing their eyes at each other, everybody straightened out. Reuben's fourteen and big and quiet, but Samuel's sixteen and the one we watch. He's strong — maybe a bit wild — but he always knows what they want to see.

Uncle Ingwald starts sharing his testimony, pacing the carpet at the front of the hall.

Most of it ain't even a secret; I've heard Ingwald's testimony more than once. My Grampa Ole had always wanted him to take over the farm, but Grandma Esther says the Lord won out because Ingwald ran away to California and Strength Bible College just days after his high school graduation. When Uncle Ingwald returned to Wisconsin, he brought with him a Bible degree and a tiny, pretty girl. Gloria Goldstern's almost purple eyes looked straight into his chest; she was like a china doll with miniature hands but curly red hair and a California accent. They'd met at Strength in their final-year Old Testament Prophets class.

‘I took my heart beating like it was about to pop out of my chest as a direct message from the prophets that this was my intended helpmeet.' Uncle Ingwald only smiles a little.

I don't know if he's kidding or not. I keep my hands folded in my lap.

But the private men and women part is a bit new, even to me. Uncle Ingwald tells us the story of how he and Aunt Gloria had been chosen by the Lord for each other, and how they were married in the holy chapel in California around six weeks after they met. Although they knew that the Lord had called them into full-time ministry, and that that could mean saving souls overseas in Africa or even India, they also knew that they had been called to come forth and multiply.

We believe children are just like pines: when they are seeded tight together, they grow up straight and tall. So, they set to building themselves a family, planting a forest. Cousin Samuel, ‘our boy angel', was born seven months after their matrimony, and his survival — even after being borned before he was fully ready — was a testament to the grace of God.

Samuel is shifting and looking mighty uncomfortable in his seat. He must hate being compared to an angel on account that he looks so much like one with his curly golden halo and sweet pink cheeks. After birthing Samuel, though, Gloria had what medical doctors call complications, but that's not how Uncle Ingwald sees it.

‘What she had were temptations, not complications.'

What she had was a temptation to complain and focus on her pain rather than thank the Lord for her son's survival. It ain't something we talk about much, but we all are family in the room — if not by blood, then by the Spirit — so we don't need to feel ashamed. We are old enough to know how we have been wonderfully made, and living on a farm helps figure it out a bit. Gloria's trial, her temptation, was that she was subject to bleeding just like the woman in the Gospel of Mark.

Gloria's issue of blood continued from the day of Samuel's birth through until three years and two miscarriages had passed. They tried hard to find her some help, but none of the doctors could help at all. Not that I'm surprised. We don't put much stead in medicine, but Gloria wasn't raised like us; she's got herself some worldly ideas. But the Lord had His way: neither the doctors in Milwaukee or Madison, nor the ones in Minneapolis and Saint Paul, could give them any answers either to stopping her bleeding or keeping her babies. They'd just scratch at their heads and say that they didn't even know how she kept getting in the family way. This complication, this trial, was just something that Gloria was going to have to live with; she'd have to live with it like the Apostle Paul's thorn in his side.

Uncle Ingwald and Aunt Gloria kept praying and searching the Lord for His will to be done in their family. Knowing in their hearts that God had intended for them to have more children, they eventually went to the state and asked for a child that didn't have people. They pledged to give that child love and care and a family; they pledged to give that child instruction in the Word of God. That is how we were gifted with our Naomi.

I'm glad Naomi isn't here to witness her father telling all and sundry that she was adopted. She is happily singing Bible songs in the sanctuary with her fancy momma and all the little kids of the Hope Prayer Group. Maybe such a personal issue should not be used as a sermon illustration, but, in my family, private things are used to further the work of the kingdom just like anything else. And Naomi is proof of Uncle Ingwald and Aunt Gloria's testing by the Lord.

It don't come as a surprise to me that Naomi is adopted. I've always known and not just because she has a second set of teeth pushing through the top of her gums right at the front of her smile. Well, not an entire extra set of teeth, but two more than a body has a right to, and they're setting right above her pointy dog teeth. I can see them every time she laughs. Anyway, Naomi has thick black hair and big brown eyes like a calf. All the Rundhaugs have blonde hair and bright blue eyes, like most everybody up here, well, outside of the Indian reservations anyways. But Naomi is a Rundhaug by love, if not by birth.

The moment Gloria took that squirming little baby in her arms, that Chippewa baby that was all big moon eyes and thrashing legs, her temptation stopped. Not just the wishing for and hoping about being healed and having more babies stopped, but the issue of blood also stopped completely, and that sweet lady has been healed ever since. Gloria reached out and touched the Lord; He felt her grab His cloak, pull at His sleeve, and she was released from her torment. That is the kind of God we serve. He gives us all that we need and exactly when we need it.