The Marriage Book (87 page)

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Sackville-West, Vita. Letter to Harold Nicolson, June 25, 1929. In Nigel Nicolson, ed.,
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“The Sale of Wives,”
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Sanger, Margaret.
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Savile, George.
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Schopenhauer, Arthur. “Of Women,” 1851. In
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Scriven, Abream. Letter to Dinah Jones, September 19, 1858. In Frances Smith Foster, ed.,
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Seinfeld, Jerry. White House tribute to Paul McCartney, 2010. Online at
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Sexual aid advertisement. “The Triumph of Love,”
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Shakespeare, William.
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———. Sonnet 116, 1609. In Douglas Bush and Alfred Harbage, eds.,
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———.
The Taming of the Shrew
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Shanley, John Patrick.
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Shapiro, Stanley, and Maurice Richlin.
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Shaw, Elizabeth Smith. Letter to Abigail Adams Smith, November 27, 1786. In C. James Taylor, ed., The Adams Papers (Digital Edition). Charlottesville: University of Virginia Press, Rotunda 2008. Online at
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Shaw, George Bernard.
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“Should This Marriage Be Saved?”
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Simon, Neil.
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Sizer, Nelson, and H. S. Drayton.
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Sondheim, Stephen. “Getting Married Today” (from
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), 1970. Copyright © Herald Square Music o/b/o Range Road Music/Quartet Music. All rights administered by WB Music Corp (Publishing) and Alfred Publishing Company, Inc. (Print). All rights reserved.
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Spiegel, Marcus. Letter to Caroline Spiegel, May 8, 1862. In Frank L. Byrne and Jean Powers Soman, eds.,
Your True Marcus: The Civil War Letters of a Jewish Colonel
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Stanton, Elizabeth Cady, Susan B. Anthony, and Matilda Joslyn Gage, eds.
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Stanton, Henry.
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Steinbeck, John. Letter to Gwyndolyn Steinbeck, July 4, 1943. In Elaine Steinbeck and Robert Wallsten, eds.,
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. New York: Penguin Books, 1975, pp. 256–57. Copyright © 1975 by Elaine A. Steinbeck and Robert Wallsten. Reprinted by permission of Penguin Group (UK), Ltd. and Viking Penguin, a division of Penguin Group (USA), Inc.
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Stevenson, Robert Louis.
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Stopes, Marie Carmichael.
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Stoppard, Tom.
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Stowe, Harriet Beecher.
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Strindberg, August.
Getting Married
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Sutton, Dora. Household commandments, 1902. In “Too Much for Sutton: His Wife Formulated 12 Household Commandments—He Bucked, Was Arrested and Then Discharged.”
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Swan, Annie S.
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Talese, Gay.
Thy Neighbor’s Wife
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Taylor, Richard.
Having Love Affairs
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Tennyson, Alfred, Lord. “Marriage Morning,” circa 1867, and “The Princess,” 1847. In
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Terman, Lewis.
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Thayer, Ella Cheever.
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Thomas, Dylan. Letter to Caitlin Thomas, circa March 11, 1950. In Paul Ferris, ed.
The Collected Letters of Dylan Thomas
. London: J. M. Dent, 2000, pp. 836–37. Copyright © 1957, 1966, 1985 the Trustees for the Estate of Dylan Thomas. Reprinted by permission.
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Thompson, Dorothy. Letter to Sinclair Lewis, 1938. Dorothy Thompson Papers, Syracuse University. Reprinted by permission of William Morris Endeavor.
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Thompson, Ernest.
On Golden Pond
, dir. Mark Rydell. Universal Pictures, 1981.
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Tournier, Paul.
The Meaning of Persons
, 1954, trans. Edwin Hudson. New York: Harper & Row, 1957, pp. 136–38. Copyright © 1954 by Paul Tournier, renewed, © 1985 by SCM Press, Ltd. Reprinted by permission of HarperCollins Publishers and SCM—Canterbury Press, Ltd.
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Traditional rhyme. “Monday for wealth,” n.d.
Galveston Daily News
(Houston, TX), August 4, 1878, col. H. Online at Gale 19th Century U.S. Newspapers.
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Traditional rhyme. “Ponder This Ye Brides-To-Be,” n.d.
The Presbyterian Banner
(Pittsburgh, PA), April 2, 1903, pp. 20–21. Online at Google Books.
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