Read The Romanov Sisters (Four Sisters) Online
Authors: Helen Rappaport
Tags: #History, #Europe, #Russia & the Former Soviet Union, #Biography & Autobiography, #Women's Studies, #Family & Relationships, #Royalty, #1910s, #Civil War, #WWI
on rue Daru in celebration of the tsaritsa’s safe delivery. But the
British press was quick to note an element of dismay in Russian
political and diplomatic circles: ‘A son would have been more
welcome than a daughter, but a daughter is better than nothing’,
observed the
Pall Mall Gazette
.39 At a time when Russia and England were still to some extent political rivals, the
Daily Chronicle
wondered
* The Russian equivalent of Obstetrician-in-Ordinary.
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whether baby Olga ‘might be made a peg to hang an Anglo-Russian
understanding on’ at some future date. The seed was sown for a
rapprochement between the Russian and British royal families, and
what better way than through a future dynastic marriage?
On 5 November 1895 an Imperial Manifesto was issued in St
Petersburg greeting Grand Duchess Olga’s birth: ‘Inasmuch as we
regard this accession to the Imperial House as a token of the bless-
ings vouchsafed to our House and Empire, we notify the joyful event
to all our faithful subjects, and join with them in offering fervent
prayers to the Almighty that the newly born Princess may grow up
in happiness and strength.’40 In a magnanimous gesture to celebrate
his daughter’s birth, Nicholas announced an amnesty for political
and religious prisoners, who were given a free pardon, as well as
remittances in sentence for common criminals.
But not everyone shared the optimistic view of little Olga’s future;
early in the new year of 1896 a curious story appeared in the French
press. Prince Charles of Denmark (soon to be married to Princess
Maud of Wales, daughter of Alexandra’s cousin Bertie) had, it
appeared, been ‘exercising his ingenuity in drawing the horoscope
of the Czar’s infant daughter’. In it the prince predicted critical
periods in Olga’s health at ‘her third, fourth, sixth, seventh, and
eighth years’. In so doing, he felt unable to ‘guarantee that she will even reach the last-named age, but if she does she will assuredly
reach twenty’. This, the prince concluded, would grant ‘twelve years
of peace to be thankful for’. For ‘it is certain . . . that she will never live to be thirty’.41
*
The moment her new great-granddaughter was born, Queen
Victoria, as godmother, took it upon herself to ensure that the baby
had a good English nanny and promptly set about recruiting one.
But she was horrified when Alexandra announced her intention to
breastfeed, just as her mother Alice had done. The British press
quickly got wind of what, for the times, was sensational news. It
was unheard-of for sovereigns – particularly imperial Russian ones
– to breastfeed their children. The news had ‘astonished all the
Russians’ although a wet-nurse was also to be appointed as essential
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back-up. ‘A large number of peasant women . . . were gathered from
various parts’ for the selection process. ‘None of them was to be
the mother of fewer than two or more than four children, and those
of dark complexion were to be preferred.’42 Alexandra’s first attempts at breastfeeding did not, however, go to plan, for baby Olga rejected her, and, as Nicholas recalled, it ‘ended up with Alix very successfully feeding the son of the wet-nurse, while the latter gave milk to Olga! Very funny!’ ‘For my part I consider it the most natural thing
a mother can do and I think the example an excellent one!’ he told
Queen Victoria soon after.43
Alexandra, as one might expect, bloomed as a nursing mother;
her whole world, and Nicholas’s, revolved around their adored
newborn daughter. The tsar delighted in recording every detail of
her life in his diary: the first time she slept through the night, how he helped feed and bathe her, the emergence of her baby teeth, the
clothes she wore, the first photographs he took of her. Neither he
nor Alexandra of course noted that little Olga was in fact not the
prettiest of babies – her large moon-shaped head with its awkward
quiff of blonde hair that replaced the long dark hair she was born
with, was too large for her body, and made her seem almost ugly
to some members of the imperial family. But she was, from the
outset a good, chubby and happy baby and her doting parents rarely
let her out of their sight.
On the morning of 14 November 1895 – her parents’ wedding
anniversary and the Dowager Empress’s forty-eighth birthday – Olga
Nikolaevna Romanova was christened (with just the one given name,
according to Russian Orthodox practice). It was a particularly joyful occasion for the imperial court as it marked the end of official
mourning for Tsar Alexander III. The baby was dressed in Nicholas’s
own christening robes and conveyed in a gold state coach drawn by
six white horses, accompanied by the Tsar’s Escort, to the Church
of the Resurrection, the imperial chapel at Tsarskoe Selo. From
here, Princess Mariya Golitsyna, the mistress of the robes, carried
Olga to the font on a golden cushion. In line with Russian Orthodox
practice, Nicholas and Alexandra did not attend the actual ceremony,
at which members of the Orthodox synod, illustrious royal relatives,
diplomats and foreign VIPs, all in full court dress, were gathered.
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The baby had seven sponsors including Queen Victoria and the
dowager empress. But most of these could not attend in person, so
Maria Feodorovna presided, resplendent in Russian national dress
and jewelled
kokoshnik
, surrounded by most of the Russian grand dukes and duchesses. During the service, the baby ‘was dipped three
times into the water in the orthodox way and then was straight laid
into a pink satin quilted bag, dried and undressed, & returned to the gamp [nurse], who was very important in corded silk’.44 Olga
was then anointed with holy oil on her face, eyes, ears, hands and
feet and carried round the church three times by Maria Feodorovna,
with one of the godfathers on either side of her. When the ceremony
was over, Nicholas invested his daughter with the Order of St
Catherine.
Olga’s difficult birth had, inevitably, left Alexandra considerably
weakened and she was not allowed out of bed until 18 November.
Thereafter, she went for quiet drives in the park with Nicky but
despite the presence of her brother and his wife Ducky (Victoria
Melita’s pet name in the family), she took little advantage of their
company, even though they were only there for a week. Ducky
complained in letters to relatives of her boredom, of how Alix was
rather distant and that she talked endlessly of Nicky and ‘praise[d]
him so much all the time’, that she came to the conclusion that her
sister-in-law preferred being on her own with him.45 She certainly
jealously guarded her time with Nicky; the rest of it was spent
mothering Olga. Orchie was still in evidence, as a superannuated
family retainer, given the token role of supervising the running of
the nursery, but she was not entrusted with the baby’s care, even
when Madame Günst – who stayed on as maternity nurse for three
months – was laid up for a couple of days.46 The presence of Günst
caused considerable disgruntlement. ‘Orchie slept in the blue room
and scarcely spoke to me, so offended we did not have Baby with
her’, Alexandra told Ernie.47
Professional English nannies were sticklers for routine and did
not like being usurped in their roles, and the arrival on 18 December of Queen Victoria’s hand-picked recruit, the redoubtable Mrs Inman,
was not a happy one. Nicholas remarked that his wife was worried
that ‘the new English nanny would in some way affect the way of
things in our daily family life’. And sure enough she did, for the
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protocols of royal nannying demanded that ‘our little daughter will
have to be moved upstairs, which is a real bore and a shame’.48 The
day after Mrs Inman arrived baby Olga was duly removed from
Nicholas and Alexandra’s ground-floor bedroom to the nursery and
Nicholas was already writing to his brother Georgiy, complaining
that he and Alexandra ‘[did] not particularly like the look of Mrs
Inman’. ‘She has something hard and unpleasant in her face,’ he
told him, ‘and looks like a stubborn woman.’ Both he and Alexandra
thought she was ‘going to be a lot of trouble’, for she had imme-
diately started laying down the law: ‘she has already decided that
our daughter does not have enough rooms, and that, in her opinion,
Alix pops up into the nursery too often.’49
For the time being, the only sight the Russian people might be
likely to get of their tsar and tsaritsa would not be at court in St
Petersburg but wheeling their baby in the grounds of the Alexander
Park. The world beyond knew even less of them. The British press
had hoped that the tsaritsa’s informal approach to mothering might
have a positive effect politically: ‘The right feeling shown in the
young wife’s decision is likelier to rally the mothers of Russia to her Majesty’s side than many more imposing actions on the part of the
Czar’s Consort. And with their support the Empress may go far.’50
It was an ambitious hope, but one that would fall on fallow ground;
for the fact that the empress had not produced a firstborn son was
already a source of disfavour among many Russians.
In the new year of 1896 and much to her dismay, Alexandra was
obliged to abandon the intimacy of the Alexander Palace and transfer
to her newly renovated apartments at the Winter Palace for the St
Petersburg season. Although Ella had taken a hand in their design,
the unworldly and inexperienced Alexandra did not take to the grand,
ceremonial ambience of the palace. Nor was she warming to Mrs
Inman. ‘I am
not at all
enchanted with the nurse’, she told Ernie: she is good & kind with Baby, but as a woman most antipathetic,
& that disturbs me sorely. Her manners are neither very nice,
& she will mimic people in speaking about them, an odious habit,
wh.[ich] would be awful for a Child to learn – most headstrong,
(but I am too, thank goodness). I foresee no end of troubles, &
only wish I had an other [
sic
].51
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By the end of April Alexandra was forced to give up breastfeeding
Olga in preparation for travelling to Moscow for the arduous coro-
nation ceremony: ‘that is so sad as I enjoyed it so much’, she confided to Ernie.52 By this time the domineering Mrs Inman had been sent
packing. Nicholas had found her ‘insufferable’ and on 29 April noted
with glee that ‘we were delighted finally to be rid of her’. Motherhood clearly became Alexandra, as her sister Victoria of Battenberg noted
when she arrived for the coronation in May 1896. Alix, she told
Queen Victoria,
is looking so well & happy, quite a different person & has developed into a big, handsome woman rosy cheeked & broad shoul-
dered making Ella look small near her – she feels her leg a little
from time to time & gets a headache off & on – but there is
nothing left of the sad & drooping look she used to have.53
As for baby Olga, Victoria thought her ‘magnificent & a bright
intelligent little soul. She is especially fond of Orchie smiling broadly whenever she catches sight of her.’54 Although Orchie was still in
evidence, in fading hopes of a role, a new English nurse was taken
on temporarily while a replacement for Mrs Inman was sought.55
Miss Coster was the sister of Grand Duchess Xenia’s nanny and
arrived on 2 May. She had an extraordinarily long nose, and Nicholas
didn’t much like the look of her.56 In any event nanny or no nanny,
Alexandra was still doing things determinedly her own way, now
insisting that baby Olga ‘has a salt bath every morning according
to my wish, as I want her to be as strong as possible having to carry such a plump little body’.57 After the exertions of Moscow another
important trip was approaching: a visit to Grandmama at Balmoral,
where baby Olga could at last be formally inspected.
*
On the surface the visit to Scotland would be an entirely private
family visit,
*
but the logistics were a security nightmare for the British police, totally inexperienced in dealing with high-risk Russian
* Although Nicholas took advantage of the visit to hold several important private and wide-ranging conversations with the British prime minister, Lord Salisbury.
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tsars legendary as the target of assassins. The Russian royals arrived just as hysterical stories appeared in the British press of a ‘dynamite conspiracy’ led by Irish-American activists working with Russian
nihilists, to kill the queen and the tsar too.58 Thankfully the ‘plotters’ were arrested in Glasgow and Rotterdam prior to the visit, and
press suggestions of an attack on the tsar were later proved erroneous, but the scare underlined fears for the safety of the imperial couple