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Authors: D J Wiseman

5 Alethia Joslin

Birth Date:
2 Sep 1892
Birth Place:
Bocking
Death Date:
10 Jul 1970
Death Place:
Braintree

Alethia is also variously recorded as Aletha and Alethea.

Alethia is the original elusive ‘self’ of the 1911 Longlands photograph. She is standing second from the left, next to a visitor, Mr Melville. She and Alice are your great aunts.

Spouse:
James Dix Myers
Birth Date:
4 Jul 1892
Birth Place:
Braintree
Death Date:
2 May 1968
Death Place:
Braintree
Spouse Father:
Henry Myers (1856-1928)
Spouse Mother:
Martha Dix (1858-1929)

James is standing in the back row, second from the right next to his brother Henry in the Longlands 1911 photograph.

According to the postcard sent by their son Henry from training camp in October 1942, James and Alethia were living at 27 Grenville Road, Braintree, Essex.

Marriage Date:
8 Mar 1922
Marriage Place:
Chelmsford
Children:
Henry Dix
Verity Dix

Albert Joslin (your great uncle) and his family

Birth Date:
3 Mar 1879
Birth Place:
Coggeshall
Death Date:
3 Jan 1961
Death Place:
Bocking
Occupation:
Ag. Dealer

Notes: 1901cen Lodging in Colchester, unmarried age 22, an agricultural dealer. (Note - recorded as Jocelyn).

This is the Albert sitting to the right of ‘Mama’ as you look at the Longlands 1911 photo.

Spouse:
Beatrice Pelham
Birth Date:
1882
Birth Place:
Saffron Walden
Death Date:
9 Jun 1963
Death Place:
Braintree

Beatrice is seated on the left of the middle row of figures in the Longlands 1911 photograph.

Marriage Date:
3 Feb 1902
Marriage Place:
Bocking, Essex
Children:

1 Beatrice Pelham Joslin

Birth Date:
2 Dec 1902
Birth Place:
Bocking End
Christen Date:
8 Jan 1903
Christen Place:
Bocking
Death Date:
10 Jan 1903
Death Place:
Bocking End

2 Albert Pelham Joslin

Birth Date:
6 Aug 1903
Birth Place:
Braintree, Essex
Death Date:
1944
Death Place:
Tooting, London
Occupation:
Commodities Dealer

1942 Telephone directory gives address of Joslin A P as 16 Ansell Road SW17.

Note, died as a result of a VI bomb, one of the first to land on London.

This is the Albert who is sitting cross legged on the grass second from the right in the Longlands 1911 photograph.

Spouse:
Hannah Brightside
Birth Date:
18 Sep 1902
Birth Place:
St Marylebone
Death Date:
Sep 1949
Death Place:
London
Marriage Date:
19 Jun 1928
Marriage Place:
Westminster
Children:
Ethel Beatrice
Violet Hannah
Rose Elizabeth

3 Harriet Pelham Joslin

Birth Date:
7 Jul 1905
Birth Place:
Bocking
Death Date:
4 Apr 1997
Death Place:
Maldon, Essex

Dorothy, this is the Harriet in the 1911 Longlands photograph. The only record I can find that fits the facts is a death record for Harriet Joslin in 1997. She died a spinster in a care home in Maldon.

Francis Marshall (who married your great aunt Isabella) and their family

Birth Date:
1876
Birth Place:
Coggeshall
Death Date:
1916
Death Place:
France
Occupation:
1902-4 Insurance Agent (from children’s birth certificates)
Spouse:
Isabella Joslin (your great aunt)
Birth Date:
14 Sep 1881
Birth Place:
Bocking
Death Date:
9 Nov 1948
Death Place:
Colchester
Spouse Father:
Albert Joslin (1851-1923)
Spouse Mother:
Pitternell White (1858-1931)
Isabella is seated next to her father in the Longlands 1911 photograph.
Marriage Date:
1901
Marriage Place:
Bocking
Children:

1 Phoebe ‘Bee’ Isabella Marshall

Birth Date:
29 May 1902
Birth Place:
Coggershall
Death Date:
About 17 Jul 1983
Death Place:
Bride’s Cottage, Bridekirk Cockermouth
Burial Date:
Jul 1983
Burial Place:
Bridekirk, Cumbria

Phoebe was the first of the family that I was able to identify with any certainty. It was Phoebe’s grave that I found in Bridekirk churchyard. Phoebe visited your mother together with Ethel Ingleby (Joslin) and Ethel’s children Susan and Paul.

Phoebe is in the Longlands 1911 photograph as ‘Bee’

1.2 Albert William Francis Marshall

Birth Date:
11 Nov 1904
Birth Place:
Braintree
Death Date:
1939
Death Place:
France

Albert is in the Longlands 1911 photograph and is captioned as ‘Albert M’.

Joseph Joslin (your grandfather) and his family

Birth Date:
2 Mar 1883
Birth Place:
Bocking
Death Date:
9 May 1915
Death Place:
Near Ypres, France

Joseph died without having ever seen his daughter Fanny, possibly without even knowing that he was a father. In the 1911 Longlands photograph he is seated and on the far right of the row.

Spouse:
Fanny Holland
Birth Date:
1886
Birth Place:
Colchester
Death Date:
9 Oct 1922
Death Place:
Bocking

The photo of Fanny in Longlands album matches your photo from your mother’s papers. The rest of the information you already have so I have not repeated anything but the bare facts here.

Marriage Date:
15 Aug 1914
Marriage Place:
Colchester
Children:
Fanny

1 Fanny Joslin (your mother)

Birth Date:
19 Apr 1915
Birth Place:
Colchester
Death Date:
1963
Death Place:
Brighton
Spouse:
Byron Weston
Occupation:
RN
Reported to have died at sea.
Children:
Dorothy

James Dix Myers (who married your great aunt Alethia) and their family

Birth Date:
4 Jul 1892
Birth Place:
Braintree
Death Date:
2 May 1968
Death Place:
Braintree

James is standing in the back row, second from the right next to his brother Henry in the Longlands 1911 photograph. According to the postcard sent by their son Henry from training camp in October 1942, James and Alethia were living at 27 Grenville Road, Braintree, Essex.

Spouse:
Alethia Joslin (your great aunt)
Birth Date:
2 Sep 1892
Birth Place:
Bocking
Death Date:
10 Jul 1970
Death Place:
Braintree
Spouse Father:
Albert Joslin (1851-1923)
Spouse Mother:
Pitternell White (1858-1931)
Other Spouse:
Barbara Vaughan

Note. Alethia is also variously recorded as Aletha and Alethea. Alethia is the original elusive ‘self ’ of the 1911 Longlands photograph. She is
standing second from the left, next to a visitor, Mr. Melville.

Marriage Date:
8 Mar 1922
Marriage Place:
Chelmsford
Children:

1 Henry Dix Myers

Birth Date:
16 Oct 1922
Birth Place:
Braintree
Death Date:
18 Sep 1943
Death Place:
over Germany
Burial Date:
1945
Burial Place:
Reichswald Forest War Cemetery
Occupation:
RAF

Other information discovered: October 1942 at RAF training camp; 1943 at RAF Waterbeach; Died when shot down navigating a bomber over Germany in 1943. He was removed from his original burial place in 1945 and re-interred at Reichswald.

Spouse:
Kathleen Farrow
Birth Date:
1923
Birth Place:
Dover
Marriage Date:
22 May 1943
Marriage Place:
Cambridge

2 Verity Dix Myers

Birth Date:
16 Oct 1922
Birth Place:
Braintree

Apart from her birth record and the reference to her on the postcard to her parents, no other record has been found under Myers or Dix Myers or variants of these. She may have emigrated or she may yet still be alive and living in the UK.

Albert Pelham Joslin (your great uncle Albert’s son, which makes him your 1
st
Cousin ‘once removed’) and his family

Birth Date:
6 Aug 1903
Birth Place:
Braintree, Essex
Death Date:
1944
Death Place:
Tooting, London
Occupation:
Commodities Dealer

1942 Telephone directory gives address of Joslin A P as 16 Ansell Road SW17. He died as a result of a VI bomb, one of the first to land on London. This is the Albert who is sitting cross legged on the grass second from the right in the Longlands 1911 photograph.

Spouse:
Hannah Brightside
Birth Date:
18 Sep 1902
Birth Place:
St Marylebone
Death Date:
Sep 1949
Death Place:
London
Marriage Date:
19 Jun 1928
Marriage Place:
Westminster
Children:

1 Ethel Beatrice Joslin

Birth Date:
10 Oct 1929
Birth Place:
Tooting
Death Date:
7 Oct 1972
Death Place:
Oxford

Ethel is the third woman in the picture from your kitchen drawer, together with your mother and Phoebe Marshall. Ethel is your ‘second cousin’, as are her sisters Violet and Rose. Ethel and her family are the once most often featured in the album with the seaside holiday pictures. When she added to the album Ethel wrote herself as ‘self ’.

Spouse:
Frederick Ingleby
Birth Date:
3 Jan 1924
Birth Place:
Hemel Hempstead
Death Date:
6 Feb 1975
Death Place:
Oxford
Occupation:
Electrical Engineer
Marriage Date:
3 Dec 1951
Marriage Place:
Chelsea
Children:
Susan Dorcas
Paul Donald

2 Violet Hannah Joslin

Birth Date:
9 Jul 1934
Birth Place:
Tooting

No record of Violet has been found, other than her birth record.

1.3 Rose Elizabeth Joslin

Birth Date:
21 Apr 1936
Birth Place:
Tooting

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