Cut Cords of Attachment (3 page)

• Aura Reading Through All Your Senses
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• Face Reading Secrets
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• Empath Empowerment
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Because my method of cord cutting became significantly different from what I had learned from Joanna Lester, I went through the process of trademarking that system as well:

• 12 Steps to Cut Cords of Attachment
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Combining all four skill sets, doing more than 1,000 client hours every year, I began to integrate my approach into a system that was officially named for the first time in this very book: Rosetree Energy Spirituality.

Why that name? By that time, I had become friends with Donna Eden, founder of “Energy Medicine,” also friends with her husband David Feinstein, Ph.D. who pioneered the term “Energy Psychology.” I asked for—and received—their blessings to name my system “Rosetree Energy Spirituality.”

Back at my own experiences with this method I’m teaching you, by 2001, I had facilitated so many healing sessions that I could do them over the phone just as easily as in person, so 95% of my sessions became phoners.

Next, Japan’s seminar company, VOICE, began to sponsor me, starting in 2003. I discovered that, with the help of a good interpreter, cord cutting could be done in any language. Twice I have set records with VOICE as their most popular healer, which is an honor considering the huge number of healers sponsored over the decades by this biggest mind-body-spirit company in all of Japan.

Clients and healers from different parts of the world began asking me to teach them so they could do this kind of work themselves. For a spiritual teacher, there can be no sweeter call to action. In 2010, I started training professionals with a Mentoring Program in Rosetree Energy Spirituality.

This book was written as a teaching tool for those who don’t have the chance to study with me personally. “Cut Cords of Attachment” is for do-it-yourselfers aiming to cut their own cords, as well as helping family members and friends.

I feel confident that this book will provide all you need to know for this purpose. You will learn exactly the same method I use for cord cutting.

You can do so much good for self-healing and as a volunteer. Find out how much you can help your family members and close friends.

Perhaps you may always prefer to cut only your own cords of attachment, however. And that would be just fine, too.

Are these great possibilities or what? Now, let me give you a clearer picture of what, exactly, is involved in cutting cords of attachment.

The Promise

You meet John at work. Charming! Smart, too. He makes such a great first impression, by the end of the day you are thinking, “That John could definitely be friend material.”

All it takes is one quick thought: “I’m interested.” Instantly, the two of you forge a spiritual tie, all sweetness and light, just wonderful for teaching you both about
unconditional
love.

But something else is installed, as well. Faster than you could say “Abracadabra,” you and John have been connected by an energy structure about
conditional
love. It becomes as real as the rest of your aura, this cord of attachment.

Cords carry very human emotions, like fear, pain, and worry. Regarding their consequences, they are not unlike puppet strings. And how quickly do they appear? Instantly.

In everyday life, most things take longer. Ever move to a new home where you must wait for days to get cable TV installed by your local provider? On the level of auras, no problem! Service is instant. Faster than any cable company, the Home Office will automatically install your cable or cord.

Well, congratulations… sort of. You and John are connected by a cord of attachment whose energy will distort your aura’s normal functioning. John may become your best friend, a helpful colleague—or your worst nightmare. Whichever energy pattern between you becomes the most toxic, that will dominate your cord of attachment. Over time, a more disturbing incident will replace what has been their previously, but there will always be something.

How long will the two of you remain connected in this way? Usually you will be stuck with that cord for the rest of your life.

Now I don’t mean to depress you. But even after John drops his physical body (becoming what, in Earth-Speak, passes for “dead”), your cord to him will keep repeating its most toxic pattern, relentlessly repeating 24/7, right until the day
you
die.

Unless, of course, you can find someone with enough skill to help you to sever that connection.

Soon, of course, that someone will be you.

Physically, what is a cord of attachment? It is made of electro-magnetic energy, the same frequencies found in other part of the human energy field, or aura. Later we’ll go into more detail about auras. For now, does this help? You could consider the substance in question to be completely real and physical… for something metaphysical.

That cord reaches from part of your body to part of the other person’s body.

“How big?” you may be wondering, starting to feel queasy.

When a cord of attachment is formed initially, the circumference could be as small as a bite of rigatoni. But later, depending on what happens as your relationship develops, your cord to John could grow as wide as a decent-sized pizza. That size depends upon how much energy flows through the cord.

Unfortunately, bigger is not necessarily better. That’s because a cord of attachment never contains positive energy. You know how people talk about giving with no strings attached? That would be spiritual ties, that other kind of connection I mentioned earlier.

Spiritual ties don’t bind. Actually, a big part of our learning here at Earth School comes from those wonderful, super-evolutionary, positive relationships. Through them, we discover loving kindness, compassion, inspiration, and more. It is the stuff that makes angels weep for joy.

Cords of attachment, on the other hand, set off a different kind of weeping, the kind for which tissues were invented.

Admittedly, learning is involved, but it’s a messier kind than the evolution we receive courtesy of spiritual ties.

Have you noticed? One of your biggest assignments at Earth School is to be yourself. For that, you may have to smash through a thousand illusions.

Energetically, socially, physically, sexually, psychologically, spiritually, etc., who are you? One worthy goal for human life is to serenely remain yourself, whatever the give-and-take between yourself and anybody else.

Cords of attachment make this harder. Cutting those cords makes it easier. Here are a few examples of the differences cutting a cord of attachment can make:

• Liam spent three years in psychoanalysis dealing with issues about his father. After cutting their cord of attachment, Liam stopped dealing and started living.
  
• Valerie’s blood pressure would go sky high whenever she spent time with her sister-in-law. The reaction made no sense whatsoever, not until Valerie cut the cord and learned what she had been receiving through it: The equivalent of a ton of rage each day. Afterwards, the blood pressure reaction stopped permanently.
  
• Rape, even with a stranger, involves a cord of attachment to the rapist. Meg did all she could to get beyond the memory, but for more than 30 years she reacted to that rape every day of her life… until the cord of attachment was cut and, finally, she could go free.
  
• Brian wanted to stay married to Anne, but it was a struggle to deal with her mood swings. Having cut their cord of attachment, he found he could love his wife without taking on her problems. Due to Divine Homeostasis (something you’ll learn about later), Anne wasn’t hurt in any way when Brian regained his peace of mind.
  
• After realizing that she was in a cult, Sherry did what she could to exit, but this was as hard as leaving behind any other kind of addiction. Cords of attachment linked her to the cult leader and significant others within the organization. Sherry couldn’t find the strength to start her new life until these cords were cut.
  

Yes, cords of attachment are energy structures that keep a person stuck in old patterns. Whether you want to release a relationship or continue it, you will do that better having released the corresponding cord of attachment.

For generations, cords of attachment were permanent. But living when we do, now in the Age of Aquarius, techniques have become available to remove old obstacles.

With skill, cord removal brings freedom to release energetic ties to the past, a freedom that comes cleanly and permanently, quickly and insightfully. That, of course, is what you can experience with the 12 Steps to Cut Cords of Attachment.

Cord cutting is an important set of skills for Rosetree Energy Spirituality, a 21st century approach for breathing new life into the perennial search for spiritual connection. Humanity is evolving rapidly now, making Deeper Perception available to anyone who develops a solid skill set for perception at the level of auras.

Using this perception, reading the human energy field, it becomes possible to remove blockages to spiritual clarity, a.k.a.
“STUFF
.”

“STUFF” is my technical term for many forms of astral debris, physical structures that exist at a metaphysical level... with cords of attachment being an especially important form of STUFF to remove.

Whether you seek more intimacy in love relationships or a clearer connection to Spiritual Source, cord cutting can help bring you the results that you seek.

My blog,
Deeper Perception Made Practical
, is a free resource to help you learn more about all the components of Rosetree Energy Spirituality. Research away and refer your friends! At the time of publishing this book, the second most popular post out of 1,000+ is
Q&As about cords of attachment.

How wise of you, though, to have purchased this do-it-yourself manual! I worked hard for years to develop a systematic, thorough, easy-to-learn system. It cannot be cobbled together by reading anything on the Internet, not even my blog.

Here I will teach you how to cut cords with quality control, resulting in enormous gains for your emotional freedom, physical healing, and spiritual awakening on your personal path to Enlightenment. Other benefits come just from opening up your inner circuits to make what I call an “Energy Sandwich.

And not the least of these benefits is avoiding the problem I’ll discuss next.

The Problem

Right from the beginning, you might as well know. There’s a huge problem today with cutting cords of attachment:
Quality control.

That means applying standards, having true skill, bringing integrity to energy healing work. Obviously I don’t pretend that one and only one method will work. But many attempts to cut cords of attachment simply aren’t effective.

Some people have heard only vague rumors about cords and how to remove them. To be blunt, some practitioners have such limited technical skill at cord cutting—well, they might do better wishing on dandelions.

Unfortunately, most people don’t yet know enough to be able to evaluate what’s being offered in the marketplace. Hey, it’s a cutting edge skill!

So how can consumers choose wisely? That big abstract problem around quality control gives rise to many smaller, tangible problems with cord cutting. Sometimes they’re sad, sometimes funny. Here are samples.

“I have a weekly appointment to see my healer. We have to keep re-cutting the cord of attachment to my mother.”

Hold on: We’re not talking manicures here. Cutting cords of attachment is supposed to change your aura for good.

Yes, with skill, a cord of attachment is cut
permanently.
Once should do it. The method you are learning here will do the job right.

“My healer tried to cut the cord to my ex, Joe. But Joe was way too powerful, so he re-corded.”

Puhleeze! Nobody is that powerful. That’s like having a dentist say, “Sorry, I couldn’t pull that particular tooth. It was way too scary.”

When you have learned how to do the job properly,
nobody on earth will have the power to stop you
from cutting a cord of attachment. It’s a matter of technique, not which of you is bigger and badder, the healer or that scary monster at end of a cord of attachment.

One story of questionable cord cutting was touching:

“It was a beautiful thing. My therapist asked if I was ready to cut the cord to my brother. I decided I was. After she cut the cord, it reattached instantly, only now it was a beautiful shade of blue. I guess that’s because I still love him.”

Look, I think love is beautiful, too. And I’m delighted to hear about a therapist cutting cords, because this can be such a powerful adjunct to more traditional forms of therapy. Especially if the therapist cared as much about doing a quality job as for therapy skills. But
a properly cut cord won’t pop back up, like spam on the Internet
.

It’s great that this client put a positive spin on what happened, plus she has enjoyed a memorable experience of clairvoyance. But if she (or the therapist) think that they cut a cord of attachment, they are fooling themselves.

One tipoff: You already know that a spiritual tie (
I guess that’s because I still love him)
is a completely different energetic structure from a cord of attachment.

Another tipoff: “
After she cut the cord, it reattached instantly?—
and that is called “cut”? When a cord of attachment is really cut, you will never have a cord of attachment to that person again for the rest of your lifetime. Period.

Another tipoff: Making a big deal that “
it was a beautiful shade of blue”
reveals another common misunderstanding about cords of attachment. They are full of useful information, details that a professional healer would be foolish to ignore. “Blue,” of any shade, however is
not
useful information. So which types of information would be more valid for healing? Check out Steps 9, 10, and 11!