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| 57. Solomon, "The Virtue of (Erotic) Love," 506, 510; also see Kathryn Pauly Morgan on Beauvoir's paradoxes of romantic love, "Romantic Love, Altruism, and Self-Respect," 398401.
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| 58. Solomon, "The Virtue of (Erotic) Love," 513.
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| 59. See Seidman,
Embattled Eros
, 12223.
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| 60. See Elliston, "In Defense of Promiscuity," 229.
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| 61. See J. D. Unwin,
Sex and Culture
, vols. 1 and 2 (London: Oxford University Press, 1934); Margaret Mead,
Sex and Temperament in Three Primitive Societies
(New York: Morrow, 1935); Reay Tannehill,
Sex in History
(New York: Stein & Day, 1980); Helen E. Fisher,
Anatomy of Love: The Natural History of Monogamy, Adultery and Divorce
(New York: W W. Norton, 1992).
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| 62. Sigmund Freud, "'Civilized' Sexual Morality and Nervous Illness," in Solomon and Higgins,
The Philosophy of (Erotic) Love
, 16776; John McMurtry, "Monogamy: A Critique," in Baker and Elliston,
Philosophy and Sex
(1984), 112, 114.
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| 63. Rubin, "Thinking Sex," 277.
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| 64. See Sheila Ruth, "Bodies and Souls/Sex, Sin and the Senses in Patriarchy: A Study in Applied Dualism,"
Hypatia
2 (winter 1987):14964; Rubin, "Thinking Sex," 28182.
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| 65. Rubin, "Thinking Sex," 275, 309.
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| 66. Ibid., 306. On the subject of consenting to sex under patriarchy, see ibid., 3046; also see Joan Nestle, "The Fem Question," in Vance,
Pleasure and Danger
, 23241. For further discussion of the appropriateness of sex without love or intimacy, see Raymond A. Belliotti,
Good Sex: Perspectives on Sexual Ethics
(Lawrence: University Press of Kansas, 1993), 7477, and Russell Vannoy,
Sex without Love
(Buffalo, N.Y.: Prometheus Books, 1980).
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| 67. Elliston, "In Defense of Promiscuity," 235, 236.
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