Mastering Multiple Position Sex (16 page)

Although this position can bring a great amount of pleasure, it can be too deep for women who want the outer third of their vagina stimulated. If you like deep thrusting, this and the next position are ideal. Make sure that you are communicating this to your partner, so that he pleases you and doesn’t pain you. He can provide shallower movements if that feels more satisfying.

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With a slight twist of her body and a push of her hands, this position turns into a final vagina-filling force. Again, following the caveats mentioned in the previous position, this position can be a deep penetrator like a rig drilling for oil or as if he is dipping a quill in an inkwell. Though the man can chime in with his opinion, the woman is in control.

Lower your cocked leg down by your other knee. Push your legs back through his, as you roll over on your back. Pull one leg—probably the one you didn’t cock because it needs a rest—back toward your face and prepare to place it over one of his shoulders, or if you have tight hamstrings, you can bend it at the knee to brace against his chest.

Guide her leg into the air to make a V. Place her raised leg on your shoulder, hold it in the air, or place her bent leg against your chest.

Lean forward and into her vagina, as you penetrate at a speed and depth comfortable to you both.

Bring your faces together for a kiss or to lick lips or, if those are too strenuous, you can connect through your eyes.
   If her upper leg tires, it could prevent her from having an orgasm. If she starts to fatigue or to cramp, lower her leg until she regains her comfort.
   He will be in an ideal position not only to touch several sides of her vaginal wall, but also to rub her clitoris and breasts.

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Brava! Bravo!

Whether via oral sex, the shorter thrusts of his cock, the tightening of her vagina, or the deep thrusts from the last position, this chapter should provide several opportunities for her pleasure. And that hardly means that the man should feel left out. Each of these positions will excite different parts of his cock, which could help him master his orgasms as well.

And here’s the most rewarding part of this chapter: the understanding that through communication and slight shifts in positions, partners can both deliver and experience a higher level of pleasure and intimacy.

“Continue to communicate throughout the experience.
Grunts, groans, pants, and moans all add to the experience.”

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Venerating the Vibrato: Using Toys for Her and Him

What would make a healthy, sexually satisfied couple want to use toys, when they have each other? So they can continue to be healthy and satisfied. Toys serve so many purposes. They can improve sex, they can serve in lieu of sex, or when necessary, they can help delay sex. For many people, however, they are not the easiest items to buy.

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This Chapter’s Positions and Their Degrees of Difficulty:

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1: Slide, Sally, Slide

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2: Shake It Up

Whether it’s a lack of knowledge or lack of confidence, buying adult toys can be as daunting as trying to pair food with the perfect wine, but it can also be fun and educational. For my clients who want to explore the exciting world of intimate accessories, I act as a “sex sommelier,” pointing out what adult toy or DVD serves what purpose. Shopping for sex toys can be as much fun as a childhood trip to a kid’s toy store, and there are certain boutiques where I bring my clients because those places are warm, welcoming, and accommodating. Like a father who gives his children money to spend at a candy store, I may bring one of my couples to an upscale adult boutique and allow them to venture off in different directions, instructing them to meet back at the register after fifteen minutes to see who picked out what item. In the case of heterosexual couples, she tends to approach the register with a strap-on dildo, and he usually selects a costume for her or a piece of vaginal machinery so big that it looks like it could carry astronauts into space. Invariably, both parties enjoyed themselves and got aroused, long before any clothes came off!