• Dry each other off, with the same affection and curiosity with which you washed, and then caress, stroke, and kiss way your way to the bed.
POSITION 1
POSITION 1:
Intimacy Blanket
Whether it is from past partners, current clients, or the models who helped make this book so beautiful, I am told that this position provides warmth, security, and a closeness like no other. The movements are slow and shallow, two words that you now know appeal to the first third of her vagina. Your breathing will synchronize, and even heartbeats have been known to match in this position.
Because the eyes cannot connect in this position, the hands and body serve as proxies that make the mind-body connection. After reading about the
9th Movement
on
page 122
, you can adapt both of these positions for anal sex as well.
Lie down on your stomach, with small pillow underneath your belly. This elevates your hips, and makes it easy for him to penetrate. It also puts you into a position called
lordosis:
an arched lower back that higher-level primates use as an “all-points bulletin” for cock.
Grab a light, all-natural massage oil, and with flat, gentle palms, apply a microthin layer to her back and the backs of her legs and arms. Always start with the least erotic body parts and build up to the most erotic, saving pricks and pussies or clits and cocks for last.
Let your mind wander, as he caresses you with oil. Be mindful of your thoughts and see where they lead you—let everything arouse you.
Vary your strokes, as your hands move up her legs toward her vulva. Tease the outer lips with your fingers, and let them sneak into the folds of her pussy lips.
Grind your pubic mound toward the floor, if the surface beneath you is firm. If there’s not enough pressure below, place your non-dominant hand over your dominant hand, and slide them under you so that the heels of your palms are against your pubic mound. Your fingers should find themselves against your inner and outer lips.
Penetrate her pussy with your middle finger and stimulate her ass with your thumb, as though you were holding a bowling ball. Open your mind: Ass play mesmerizes the nerves we have there, and this goes for you too. If you have a spare hand, touch your ass, nipples, or abs—all to get your cock harder.
Let your fingers dip into the warm, wet folds of your vulva, as you press against the floor or your hand. If you need to have better access to your pussy, contract your butt muscles, and your pelvis will rise up enough for you to reposition your hands and fingers.
Stroke yourself, if you aren’t hard already. Prepare to penetrate her, whether that means using lube, a condom, or anal stimulation on yourself or on her.
Align your non-dominant middle finger with your other middle finger, so now your dominant palm heel is near your navel, your dominant fingers rest on your clitoris (reinforced by your other palm heel), and your non-dominant hand can stimulate the rest of your pussy. Unless you have long fingers, the chance of your stimulating your own ass is a slim one, but you can always ask your partner.
Lean forward while you are on your knees. If you are strong enough and your cock needs coaxing right up to penetration, place your non-dominant hand to that same side of her ribs (your left to her left side, or vice versa for southpaws). Use your dominant hand to guide your cock into her elevated pussy. (If you have a weak back or carry extra weight, place your arms on the outside of her ribs. Slide your body up hers, until your erect penis enters her.)