Ride 'Em Cowgirl

Table of Contents

Praise

Title Page

ForePlay

Let’s Get Physical

Scoring Sex Etiquette Points

Cowgirls Only! - How To Score Etiquette Points With Him

Cowboys Only! - Etiquette Points Count Toward Fabulous Prizes!

Cowgirls & Cowboys! - Brighten Your Passion Picture

Cowgirls Only! - Are You Pre-Orgasmic?

It’s Okay To Get In Touch With Yourself Cowgirls Only! - The Male Orgasm Menu Cowboys Only! - The Art Of The Female Orgasm Come…Meet The Clitoris

The Female Orgasmic Combo Platter Supersize Your HE-gasms!

Cowgirls & Cowboys! - Strengthen Your Orgasm Muscle!

Chapter 3 - The Art of Penetration Cowboys Only!

Wetness: The Lube of Love Treat Her To An Exotic Labial Massage Making Your Grand Entrance Get Your Pump On

Secrets To Being Her Sexiest Pleasure Partner Whisper. Moan. Or Wake The Neighborhood!

Cork Poppers Anonymous

Chapter 4 - The Art Of Being Penetrated Cowgirls Only!

Wetness: The Lube Of Love You’ve Got To Hand It To Yourself Make His Entrance A Grand One Get Your Pump On

Secrets To Being His Sexiest Pleasure Partner Why Silence Is Not Golden

Your Mission: Make It Even Better

Limbs: Your Levers Of Love

Cowboys Only! - Hip! Hip! Excitement!

Cowgirls Only! - Don’t Bottom Out

Cowboys Only! - Raise Your Pleasure IQ

Cowgirls Only! - Arch, Angle And Play For Pleasure Chapter 7 - Ride ’Em Cowgirls!

Cowgirls Only! - Create Your Own Orgasmic Pleasures Shape Your Pleasure To Your Lover’s Shape Shape Your Style to His Pleasure, Too You’re In Charge. Grant Him An Upgrade!

Cowboys Only! Don’t Fall By The Waist-Side

Why All The Swooning About Spooning?

Spooning 101: Just Stir

Gowgirls Only! - She’s Got Legs—And Knows How To Use ‘Em

Cowboys Only! - Don’t Fall Behind

What (And Where) Is The Clitoris Anyhow?

Two Sensitive Heads—One Super Craving

20 Ways To Supercharge Intercourse

Cowboys Only! - Coming During Intercourse (Not You…Her!)

The Mystery Of The Missionary Orgasm Revealed!

What And Where Is The G-spot?

Mastering The G-Spot Magic Touch

Cowboys Only! - Lift Her ‘G’ To Multiple ‘GEEEEEEs!’

Yet Another G-spot Magic Touch

The G-spot Position Decision

Cowgirls Only! - Come Meet Your G-spot

The Surprise Of The Liquid Orgasm

Why The Fascination With Anal?

The 4 Guidelines For Enjoying Anal Sex Precautions & Preparations For Anal Sex A Word About…Er…Poop!

Cowgirls Only! - Insider Tips For Smoother Anal Cowboys Only! - How To Be Her Anal Hero The Art Of Anal Penetration The Art Of Anal Loving

Cowboys Only! You Shall Overcome

Cowgirls Only! - Ease Up A Butt. Then Take Charge!

Precautions & Preparations For HE-spot Play

Going In For The Thrill

Not Gonna Do It? You’ve Got An Alternative

Cowgirls Only! - Plus Size Can Be A Plus

Cowgirls & Cowboys! Supersized Sex’s Biggest Secret

Cowgirls Only!

Hop On The Hormone Rollercoaster Play It Safe, For Baby’s Sake!

First Trimester: Sex Takes A Holiday Second Trimester: Pregnancy’s Honeymoon Third Trimester: Getting Over The Hump Positions (And Pillows) With A Purpose Cowboys Only! - Be Her Superhero—Here’s How Sex-During-Pregnancy FAQ

Sex In Postpartum Times

Chapter 15 - Outercourse: Good Messy Fun Exciting! Exhilarating! Safer! Convenient!

Outercourse: A Tit For A Tat Come Awaken Your Sexual Creativity!

Chapter 16 - Location! Location! Location!

There’s No Place Like Home Sex In The Great Outdoors Secluded Sex, Alfresco Style Exhibitionist Sex, Alfresco Style Getting Caught, Alfresco Style Chapter 17 - Vive La Différence Cowgirls Only! - The Penis Monologues Average

Longer

Shorter

Thicker

Thinner

Banana

Bolted

Springy

Uncircumcised

Your Vagina: A Beautiful Unfolding Story The Vaginal Variations

Fitting Positions For Every Vaginal Style

Shake, Rattle & Roll!

Hot-To-Trot Penis Toys

Backdoor Entertainment

Slippery Sensations

Appendix: Safety First-Protect Yourself

AfterPlay

Dr. Sadie’s Pleasure Position Index

Special Thanks

About the Author

COME FEEL THE LOVE

Ride ’Em Cowgirl!

“Everyone should read Dr. Sadie’s books—they’re life-changing.”

—Barbara Leigh, PLAYBOY

“Dr. Sadie Allison combines sex education with erotic temptation so everyone can learn and enjoy. She’s one of the great emerging sexologists of the 21st century.”

—Dr. Ted McIlvenna, President, The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality

“Dr. Sadie Allison’s writings have been a great resource for Cosmopolitan magazine throughout the world … her books have inspired me.”

—Eleni Solomou, Senior Editor & Columnist

“Dr. Sadie’s sassy book gives you greater confidence to release your sexpot within and create new passions that thrill.”

—Dr. Ava Cadell, Founder of Loveology University®

Baileyd @ www.Demonoid.me

Dedicated to my Mom,

my biggest supporter and fan.

You are always in my heart.

I love you.

Copyright © 2007 by Tickle Kitty, Inc. All rights reserved.

No part of this book, including content, interior design, cover design, illustrations and icons, may be reproduced or transmitted in any form, by any means (electronic, photocopying, recording or otherwise) without the prior written permission of the Publisher.

Tickle Kitty, Inc.

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Edited by Rich Lippman

Illustrated by Steve Lee

Interior design by Chris Hall/Ampersand

Cover design by Todd Gallopo/ Meat and Potatoes, Inc.

Cover and author photographs by Michael Bisco

Ride ‘Em Cowgirl! Sex Position Secrets for Better Bucking

Copyright © 2007 by Tickle Kitty, Inc. All rights reserved.

ISBN 978-0-9706611-3-5

Printed in Canada

PLEASE NOTE

This book is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. Neither the Author, Illustrator, nor Publisher is responsible for the use or misuse of any sexual techniques or devices discussed here, or for any loss, damage, injury or ailment caused by reliance on any information contained in this book. Please use common sense. The illustrations in this book depict couples who are in faithful, monogamous relationships. Readers who are not monogamous, or who have not been tested for STIs, are strongly urged to employ the safer sex practices in the Appendix. If you have any health issues or other concerns, you should consult a qualified healthcare professional or licensed therapist BEFORE trying any techniques or devices. Please read the Appendix for tips on safer sex, and consult a physician or a qualified healthcare professional if you have any further questions. Be sure to read and carefully follow all instructions that come with any sexual aids you decide to use. The mention of any product or service in this book does not constitute an endorsement. Trademarks and service marks used are the property of their respective owners.

ForePlay

Hi. How’s sex lately?

If you and your lover can’t keep your hands off each other, reveling in pleasures from head-to-toe, night and day, orgasm after orgasm, I know why you can’t stop grinning.

Or maybe you’re just grinning over fond memories.

How quickly our days of sexual frenzy become frenzied days of must-do’s, need-to’s and have-to’s, with no time in between except for long-overdue sleep. When lovemaking does occur, it often waits for weekends, holidays, birthdays, anniversaries—even leap years!

Sex ruts happen, especially when couples stay together for months, years or decades. The good news: it’s reversible.

So come on…I’m going to show you two lovebirds new ways to revive your passion and jumpstart a lot of that frenzied lovemaking once again!

And that’s worth grinning about.

Welcome To Your Own Sexual Revolution

Ride ’Em Cowgirl! is different from every other sex position book you can find (and believe me, I’ve seen them all!). Here’s why:

Instead of having to choose among hundreds of puzzling pretzel poses, I’ve shortened and organized the list to a handful of positions I’m sure you already love. I’ve then upgraded each one with orgasmic angle variations for pleasure-spot focus that you can easily adjust to fit your own unique shapes. Wait’ll you try them!

I’ve kept everything fun, entertaining and inspiring for you, with over 100 illustrations by the incredible Steve Lee to help you visualize everything you may wish to try. And you’ll never feel you’ve been left high and dry just before and after you orgasm: I’ve included lots of fun ways to stimulate your sexual appetite right up to and during penetration, along with passion-pleasing ideas to bring you gently back down (or up for another go-round!).

When I set out to write this guide, my goal was to empower women to take charge of their own sexual pleasures, to shake off self-defeating inhibitions, and to create their own magnificent orgasms, especially during penetration—a heart-racing joy too many women miss out on. I even named the book with you-go-girl! inspiration in mind for my female readers.

But Ride ’Em Cowgirl! is for guys too. After all, guys love women who revel in deep, orgasmic passion; who aren’t shy about seducing with the visual power of their own naked bodies; who know what they want, when they want it, and how they want it.

Isn’t that the whole point?

So this book is dual-purposed, featuring lots of pleasure tips just for “Cowgirls,” along with another set of pleasure pointers for all you “Cowboys.” After all, it takes two to tango, which is why this is truly a sexual empowerment guide for couples.

Cowgirls Only! Be Empowered Now

As promised, this is the first of many sections for women only. Guys: scram! (Just kidding…this is your sneak peek into the other team’s playbook. Feel free to read ‘em all—just keep your jaw off the ground!).

Today, women want and deserve all the pleasures that are ours to claim. No longer is it simply a matter of waiting and hoping for good things to happen—now it’s as straightforward as taking charge. And if you follow my prescription, sexual pleasure and magnificent orgasms will be yours for the taking. Ride ’em cowgirl!

Cowboys Only! Just Give And You Shall Receive

As promised, this book is about your pleasure, too. It’s a whisper in your ear about what your lover secretly wants, but isn’t telling you. It’s about opening exciting new communications between the two of you, both verbal and physical. And it’s about discovering how being a generous lover brings back generous lovemaking in return. Ride ’em cowboy!

Cowgirls & Cowboys! How To Fully Enjoy This Book

Do you ever wish your lover was a mind reader? Then you’d never have to overcome whatever stops you from asking for everything you desire during lovemaking.

I’m going to let you in on a little secret that’ll not only inspire your partner to find and touch your erotic hot buttons—but also to lovingly kiss, tease, lick, caress, squeeze, stroke, nuzzle, spoon, tickle and cuddle them as well. Here’s the secret:

Read this book together. In bed. Sit close and point at the fun stuff. Crease the corners. Giggle at the pictures. Then, when you open to those special erotic touches or lusty positions—the very ones you crave—your heart will quicken, your temperature will rise, you’ll move in closer—and arousal, romance and passion will take over.

Congratulations! Your secret desire’s out in the open—and you’re already in bed. Now dive in while it’s all so lusty and hot!

Laugh, learn, enjoy, be empowered—then empower each other.

Important: Always practice safer sex—your life and health depend on it. Be sure to read, understand and apply everything in the Appendix on page 201 before engaging in any sexplay.

Ever see monkeys making whoopie at the zoo, or dogs doing it doggystyle at the park?

Not exactly big on romance, are they?

That’s what separates us from them. To most humans, the sex act is more than just a primal urge to merge. It’s also an exotic cocktail of love, lust, passion, excitement, anticipation, desire, affection, romance and spice—with a splash of your own unique ingredients tossed in, too.