For a rush of heart-pounding pleasure, just a slight change of angle is all you need. Then multiply these sensations with sensual touching, and a few well-timed erotic words, and you’ll reach new heights of lovemaking together.
Gowgirls Only!
She’s Got Legs—And Knows How To Use ‘Em
The excitement of this position all starts with your legs:
Squeeze ‘em. For heightened pleasure, press your thighs together and hug his penis tightly by squeezing your PC muscles.
Bend ‘em. For deeper penetration, slide your top knee up and rest your foot on your other knee—or keep raising your knee toward your shoulder, then hold it with your forearm.
Dr. Sadie Sez: Beware Of The Unscheduled Wake-Up Call.
Spooning is the “sneaky” position—you may find him waking you up in the morning by slipping it to you. Not a bad way to greet the day, though!
Clutch ‘em. For closer skin-to-skin rhythmic motion, swing your top leg back and over him, clutching him with your heel, and bringing him closer with every breathtaking thrust. Reach back with your hand and grip his hip to magnify the sensations.
Cocoon ‘em. For the deepest penetration, raise both your knees to your chest, as he inches his body down for the most sensual angle of all.
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Don’t Fall Behind
Since this is one of the most romantic positions of all, why not add to the feeling with a few sensual touches of your own:
Kiss her. Bring your lips to her neck to tease her with angel kisses, and feel her shudder with delight. When you sense she’s close to climax, bite her neck lightly.
Touch her. Hold her head in your hands. Play with her hair. Massage her neck. Run your fingers over her lips. Caress her breasts. Tease her nipples. Give her goosebumps with all your skin-to-skin contact.
Hug her. Bring her entire body close to yours. When she lifts her leg, help her support it in the most comfortable position.
Tease her. Reach around and gently fingertip her clitoris to bring her to a glorious orgasm or two.
Well, which is it? Kli-TOR-iss…or KLIT-uh-riss?
It’s both. But more important, why is it so easily left out of lovemaking?
In one of those great unexplained mysteries of the universe, nearly every act of intercourse brings the clitoris ever-so-close to the hot delicious friction a woman needs to come.
Close. But no cookie.
Through no fault of womankind, in nearly every position women love, the clitoris is left out of the action to watch the penis plunge merrily towards its own happy ending.
Come on, let’s shoot for equal rights with lubrication and orgasms for all!
What (And Where) Is The Clitoris Anyhow?
The clitoris is the only human organ dedicated 100 percent to bringing heart-pounding, toe-curling, breathtaking orgasmic pleasure to women. That’s quite remarkable for an organ about the size of a small pea.
Nestled into the top of the vulva where both sets of labia come together, the clitoris is hidden slightly from view in its own cozy alcove under the clitoral hood. When lovingly aroused, the clitoris can double in size, emerge gloriously, and glow rosy red as orgasm nears.
But there’s more to the clitoris than meets the tongue. New research shows its real size may actually be closer to that of an entire penis! From just beneath its visible pea-shaped head, the two clitoral legs (crura) hug the entire length of the vaginal canal. This may well trigger clitoral stimulation from deep penetration. But the real heart-pounding pleasure comes from that tiny visible clitoral head, just aching to be touched.
Two Sensitive Heads—One Super Craving
As opposite as the sexes often seem, women and men share one important sexual similarity—the workings of their sexual pleasure centers. Here’s why:
The clitoris is micro-clustered with millions of the same type of erotic nerve endings found in the head of the penis.
Men become erect during arousal—and so do women! As the clitoris swells with blood, it swells in size. Next time, feel it grow from small and subtle to round and firm as foreplay heats up.
There’s rarely an orgasm without direct stimulation to the head of the penis. Likewise, there’s rarely an orgasm if you neglect the clitoris.
The clitoris and the penis respond best when slippery-wet. Did you remember to pick up a good sex lube?
By understanding these similarities, it’s easy to see why it’s vital to stimulate the tiny but powerful clitoris directly, especially during intercourse.
Guys…please read that last sentence again!
20 Ways To Supercharge Intercourse
Between the two of you, you’ll find 20 warm, soft, active little clitoral stimulators that you’ll never misplace, need no batteries, and can lift the woman to the highest orgasmic peaks on earth.
They’re your fingertips—just add sex lube!
The fingertip secret is to touch the clitoris with slow, gentle caressing motions, matching the pressure and pace to the level of her arousal. Just be sure there’s lots of lubrication, start slow and soft, and you can’t go wrong.
Whoever is doing the arousing, vary your fingertip motions till you find a pattern that works: up’n’down, side-to-side, round’n’round, or even figure eights. For a real treat, try these motions with the tip of the penis.
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Coming During Intercourse (Not You…Her!)
When a woman finally catches her breath after her first deep-penetration orgasm, she may lovingly whisper those magical ego-boosting words, “No one’s ever done THAT to me before!” Here’s how to do THAT:
Grind. When you’re deep inside, gently press your soft pubic mound into her clitoris and grind till you discover the moves that set her off.
Fingerplay. Reach over, under or around and gently fingertip her clitoris in harmony with your thrusting.
Accessorize. Surprise her with a sensual gift: a small bullet vibrator to tantalize her clitoris during lovemaking.
Ask: “How does this feel?” or “Do you want it faster?” Let her guide you. Then do what she says!
Preheat. Use your talented tongue or frisky fingertips to bring her within moments of a huge orgasm. NOW—quickly slide your penis inside and finish her off by gyrating in small circles against her clitoris.
The Mystery Of The Missionary Orgasm Revealed!
Did you know that one little adjustment to your Missionary technique can unleash a torrent of wild penetration orgasms in your lover? Here’s how:
Place a small pillow under her hips, and ease your lubricated penis deep inside her. Now slide your entire body high-up on hers, so you are pelvis-to-pelvis. As you stroke down and in, the base of your penis will directly stimulate her clitoris, then grind your pubic mound into her in little circles. Try visualizing her clitoris as you press on it, and resist the temptation to lift off and thrust in and out. Just keep your penis tucked snugly inside her, and sway in small circles to find the rhythm she needs. You’ll know it’s starting to work when you feel her holding you tighter while she begs you to speed up.
Dr. Sadie Sez: Ladies! Missionary Orgasms! For Real!
When your guy rides up on you in Missionary, and grinds deliciously into your clitoris, move your hips in harmony with him to help him find your spot. Then let him know with a simple, “Ohhh, just like THAT!” Wrap your legs around him, pull him tighter, and focus on your rising passion. If you want it faster, tell him. And when you reach that point-of-no-return, whisper (or shout!) what’s about to happen…
Cushion Pushin’ Holding his neck (or back of the couch) for balance, she can pleasure-rub or power-thrust—or both!
Every woman on earth is graced with a G-spot—a powerful epicenter of deep, satisfying, body-pulsing orgasms—yet none can experience its profound pleasures without the secret of its magic touch.
Hello, guys…are you listening?
What And Where Is The G-spot?
The G-spot is a small, ridged, oval-ish area of spongy tissue that’s 2-to-3 inches inside the vagina, on its upper wall, just behind the pubic hairline.
The right touch can be pleasureful beyond belief, but the G-spot also serves an important biological purpose. During sexual excitement, it swells with blood to cushion the urethral cord it surrounds, protecting the woman’s delicate urinary passageway from her lover’s rapid-fire pleasure-pounding.
The G-spot is easier to locate than you might imagine. Slide a lubricated finger or two inside the vagina, along the upper wall, with fingertips facing up so you can curve your fingers toward the belly. At 2-to-3 inches inside, when the vagina’s sensual softness turns to sensational ridgy-ness—eureka—you’ve found it!
To the touch, the G-spot feels a little bulgy, about the area of a quarter, with ridges that feel much like those along the roof of your mouth (run the tip of your tongue up top now for a free demo). If you have trouble finding it, try exploring after some heated foreplay, when it swells from stimulation and excitement.
Mastering The G-Spot Magic Touch
Touching the G-spot with the same gentle caressing that excites the clitoris probably won’t create the erotic heat you seek. Here’s why.
While the clitoris is super-packed with millions of touch-sensitive pleasure receptors, the G-spot is not. However, the G-spot does respond in a big way to a different type of erotic stimulation: pressure.
If you’re ready to experience explosive G-spot orgasms, just stroke it firmly and directly with a finger, a G-spot sextoy, and of course, the head of a heat-seeking penis.
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Lift Her ‘G’ To Multiple ‘GEEEEEEs!’
No cold-starts allowed! First, turn her on with your most stimulating foreplay—and preferably a clitoral orgasm or two. Now she’ll be fully preheated, and her G-spot will be bigger and easier to find.
Touch your fingertip directly to her G-spot, and gently bend and unbend your knuckle as if to gesture “come here” (you are, actually!). Gradually increase the pressure of your touch. Try new rhythms. Stroke in small circles. Tap rapidly. Add in a second finger. You get the idea….
If your lover doesn’t seem to be feeling the excitement yet, try asking, “How does that feel?” and let her guide you. Once you find her desired pleasure style, you’ll feel her G-spot grow larger and firmer as her entire body responds with excitement.
For a delicious crescendo, double her pleasure by touching your finger, tongue or a vibrator to her clitoris for simultaneous stimulation that can set her off like a live volcano. (Most women need this double-touch to experience a G-spot orgasm.) After she climaxes in a heart-racing frenzy, everything will then feel overly sensitive to her, and she may need more time before starting up again. Just go softly and slowly.
Yet Another G-spot Magic Touch
Did you know you can stimulate her G-spot from outside her body, too? Here’s how: While your fingers are pleasuring her G-spot inside her vagina, place the fingers of your other hand on her lower abdomen. Now gently press all your fingertips together from both hands, and squeeze her G-spot in the middle. Whoa yeah!
Dr. Sadie Sez: Look For The Curved Excitement Tip.
Just like the fingers you curl upward to pleasure her G-spot (be sure to trim and file your nails), G-spot toys all come with a similarly curved tip to angle the pressure right where she loves it. Try a G-spot vibrator together with your oral love, and send her to orgasm nirvana.
The G-spot Position Decision
When your penis brings her to frenzied G-spot orgasms, she knows she’s with a first-class lover. Come claim your upgrade:
Visualize. Upon penetration, picture the location of her G-spot in your mind, then aim the head of your penis directly into it. Since it’s only 2-to-3 inches inside, you’ll also have to keep resisting the urge to go deep.
Lead. In most positions, you’re in control, so it’s up to you to create the angle, speed, pressure and depth that’ll set her off.
Ask. It’s okay to ask if you’ve found her spot with a simple, “How’s that?” You’ll also find out which stroking patterns and rhythms she likes. Then, once you’re spot-on, the two of you can gyrate in perfect synch.
Balance. For greater stability and control, grasp her hips or butt cheeks firmly. You’ll also give her greater leverage to grind back on you.
Thumbs Up. Once you’ve found her rhythm, gently press your thumb onto her sensitive anus. Even the slightest pressure along with G-spot stimulation will send her over the pleasure edge.
Dr. Sadie Sez: Knock, Knock… Banana Who?
Were you born with that rarest of gifts, the curved penis? Congratulations—you’re an instant winner (and so is your lover)! You can target her G-spot without trying, especially in Missionary. For a satisfied smile, just send in your natural banana. Orange you glad you did?
Double Down. Now skyrocket her arousal with some heavenly clitoral stimulation—and propel her into uncharted orgasmic orbits.
Cowgirls Only!
Come Meet Your G-spot
How sensational is G-spot pleasure, really? Can it truly be as orgasmically thrilling as many claim? Hop on and find out:
The sensation. At first, the “feel” of G-spot pressure may take some getting used to. When touched, you may sense a slight burning (but in a good way), a light tickle, discomfort, nothing at all, or, of course, pleasure.
The urge. It’s also normal to feel like you have to pee when pressure is applied to your G-spot (you are pressing on the urethra). Relax—you won’t pee—it’s a feeling that’ll turn to pure pleasure very soon. For greater comfort, empty your bladder beforehand.
The assist. When your lover finally finds your G-spot, you’ll know. So let him know! A simple, “Oh yeah, right there!” or “Back up, YESSSS!” oughta do it.
The retry. Discomfort? Pain? Then say so! Is he pushing too hard or at a wrong angle? Tell him to lighten up or vary his approach. Still uncomfortable? Have him withdraw and start over a few moments later—often that helps a lot.
The takeover. Is he not finding your groove? Then take control. Try Cowgirl, angling yourself for a G-spot jackpot. Or try Doggystyle, tilt and tuck your pelvis back into him till you find your perfect orgasmic fit.