Why Women Have Sex

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Authors: Cindy M. Meston,David M. Buss

 

 

 

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Why Women Have Sex

Why Women Have Sex

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Understanding Sexual Motivations—
from Adventure to Revenge

(and Everything in Between)

 

CINDY M. MESTON, PH.D.
AND
DAVID M. BUSS, PH.D.

 

 

 

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Meston, Cindy M.

Why women have sex : understanding sexual motivations—from adventure to revenge (and everything in between) / Cindy M. Meston and David M. Buss.

         p. cm.

ISBN-13: 978-0-8050-8834-2

  1. Women—Sexual behavior. 2. Women—Psychology. 3. Sex (Psychology) I. Buss, David M. II. Title.

HQ29.M472 2009

 

 

  306.7082—dc22

2009008389

 

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To all of the women in our study
who bravely shared
their sexual experiences with us

 

 
CONTENTS
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Introduction:
Inside the Sexual Mind

 

 

1.
   

What Turns Women On?
Scent, Body, Face, Voice, Movement, Personality, and—Yes—Humor

 

 

2.
   

The Pleasure of It
Sexual Gratification and Orgasm

 

 

3.
   

The Thing Called Love
An Emotional and Spiritual Connection

 

 

4.
   

The Thrill of Conquest
From Capturing a Mate to Poaching One

 

 

5.
   

Green-Eyed Desire
From Guarding a Mate to Trading Up

 

 

6.
   

A Sense of Duty
When Responsibility or Guilt Calls

 

 

7.
   

A Sense of Adventure
When Curiosity, Variety—and Mate Evaluation—Beckon

 

 

8.
   

Barter and Trade
The Value of Sex—Literally and Figuratively

 

 

9.
   

The Ego Boost
Body Image, Attention, Power, and Submission

 

 

10.
   

The Dark Side
Sexual Deception, Punishment, and Abuse

 

 

11.
   

Sexual Medicine
The Health Rewards of a Sex Life

 

 

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