A Thousand Sisters (36 page)

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Authors: Lisa Shannon

I choke back tears. I don't know what they're singing, but it reminds me of the only Swahili song I know, the one sung to me in endless repetitions at the meeting with the Panzi group and again on the peninsula, when Hortense leaned over to me and said, “Do you hear that? They are singing your name. The song goes:
Hey, Lisa, stay with us! You are a child of Congo now
.”
I put down the camera as my sisters grab me by both hands. They pull me into the celebration. With tears in the corners of my eyes, I dance with them. Women doubled over in pain just a few moments ago are now beaming. Each one embraces me, pressing her forehead to mine.
I whisper to one of them, “
Furaha
.”
She whispers back, “
Furaha sana
.”
Joy. So much joy.
EPILOGUE
BY THE END
of 2008, we still haven't raised a million dollars. But we have sponsored more than a thousand Congolese sisters. These women are collectively raising more than five thousand children.
And, little thanks to me:
Journalists flocked to Congo to document the unrest, giving the conflict unprecedented media coverage.
Lisa F. Jackson's film
The Greatest Silence
won the Special Jury Prize at the Sundance Film Festival. The film aired on HBO and was screened around the world.
Eve Ensler announced that the 2009 V-Day campaign will benefit women in Congo.
Celebrities like Ben Affleck, Ashley Judd, Mia Farrow, Emile Hirsch, and Robin Wright spoke out about or traveled to Congo.
Senator Barack Obama, an original sponsor of the 2006 Congo bill, was elected President of the United States.
Even Kelly shook the white-girl angst and started work on her own Congo initiative.
More than 1,700 people participated in Run for Congo Women.
I spent the year in a one-woman, full-time Write for Congo Women.
The United States Holocaust Memorial Museum hosted the first national grassroots conference for Congo.
The Enough Project launched the Raise Hope for Congo Campaign.
And that, my friends, is a movement.
MEMORIAL
YOU ARE MISSED
Claude
André's Three Classmates
Lucien
The Villager with Money
Nsemeru, “I Love You”
Ten Villagers Who Had No Salt
Mama Annie
The Lady on the Path
Mama Annie's Husband
The Man at the Bus Stop
The Kaniola Bride
Most of Furaha's Family
The Kaniola Groom
Maribola, beloved child of Fitina
The Kaniola Wedding Party
Makambe, beloved child of Fitina
The Beerseller Munisha
Liza, beloved child of Fitina
The Beerseller's Wife
Ruben, beloved child of Fitina
Alain, aspiring conservationist
Nape, beloved child of Fitina
The Six Park Guards
Five Unnamed Children of Fitina
The Pygmy Husband
Therese's Uncle
The Cowherd of Kaniola
Therese and Pascal's Eight Neighbors
The Pastor of Kaniola
“One of Us in the Canoe”
Shuza, “Answer”
The Man at the Front Gate
Venciana's Baby of One Day
Two Young Men on Lookout
The Thirteen-Year-Old Girl
Faida's Baby Grandchild
The Twins and Their Baby Sibling
Jannette's Husband
Three Children Who Ran Away
Sophia's Husband
Some Babies of Baraka
Wandolyn's Brother
Fifteen-Year-Old Grandson in Kaniola
Anna's Husband
Yvonne's Daughter, mother of five
Victorine's Husband
Yvonne's Infant Granddaughter
Sabina's Mother
Venciana's Grandfather
Sabina's Aunt
Venciana's Cousin, father of five
Kenisla's Husband
Venciana's Other Cousin, father of seven
Christine's Two Girls
Rahema's Mother
Wandolyn's Little Girl
Marianna's Father
Suzanna's Father
Cecile's Husband
Suzanna's Younger Sister
Baraka's Sister's Husband
Suzanna's Aunt
Josephine's Five-Month-Old Baby Girl
Suzanna's Three Nieces
Nabito's Husband
A Baby of Two Months
Nabito's Brother
Walengamine's Son
Nabito's Nephew
Faila's Daughter
Nabito's Uncle
Zaina's Little Boy
Nabito's Neighbors
Mesha's Little Boy
The Couple Who Lived Next to Noella
Mesha's Little Girl
Noella's Other Neighbors
Asende's Three Boys
Hortense's Younger Sister
Asende's Little Girl
Hortense's Husband
Veronique's Little Boy
Alisa's Husband
Veronique's Three Little Girls
Alisa's Older Brother
Byamonea's Four Daughters
Lisa's Sister
Byamonea's Son
Lisa's Brother-in-Law
Maria's Two Sons
Esperance's Husband
Fatuma's Little Boy
Esperance's Firstborn Child
Mwashite's Little Girl
Mwashite's Little Boy
Jeannine's Little Girl
Tchala's Son
Josephine's Three Sons
Mawazo's Daughter
Annonciate's Three Little Boys
Mawazo's Son
Annonciate's Little Girl
Kiza's Three Little Boys
Nyota's Two Daughters
Anna's Two Sons
Nyota's Son
Elisa's Little Girl
Franciose's Girl Child
Elisa's Little Boy
Beatrice's Two Young Children
Josephine's Daughter
Antonia's Husband
Joyce's Daughter
Furaha's Husband
Joyce's Son
Appoline's Husband
Mariam's Two Daughters
Mapendo's Husband
Mwajuma's Daughter
Immacule's Little Girl
Mwajuma's Son
A Girl Child
Nyota's Little Boy
A Woman of Kaniola
Pauline's Two Little Girls
Some Children of Appoline
Rebecca Furaha's Little Girl
A Villager of Uvira
Esperance's Son
Mpondo M'Lusisi
Esperance's Daughter
Florida M'Murhebwa
Charlotte's Two Boys
M'Birego, wife of Christophe
Charlotte's Two Girls
Mr. Mutijima Mudekereza
Deodatte's Little Girl
M'Mastaki Mapendo,
Deodatte's Little Boy
citizen of Nalubuze
Benita's Daughter
Chance Chirhuza, citizen of Nalubuze
Theresia's Two Daughters
Anastasia's Son
Olivier Mandiko Muhusi, citizen of Nalubuze
Anastasia's Daughter
Esperance's Son
Espoir Chirungu, citizen of Nalubuze
Esperance's Daughter
Charlotte's Little Girl
M'Rugamba Chirungu, citizen of Nalubuze
Ernestine's Daughter
M'Saveri, citizen of Nalubuze
Jospeh Kirhero Ntabala, citizen of Nalubuze
Mukengere Chirungu,
citizen of Nalubuze
Nzungu Chigokere, citizen of Chihamba
Merci Muranga, citizen of Nalubuze
Bihama Kaborongo,
Mbiribindi Mudekereza, citizen of Chihamba
citizen of Nalubuze
Maria M'Kahumba,
Nine of Eric's Neighbors Citizens of the President's Village
citizen of Nalubuze
Ngomora Buhendwa,
Asende's 500 Neighbors in the Forest
citizen of Nalubuze
Olivier Bukengo Laurent,
702 Citizens of Makobola
citizen of Nalubuze
5.4 Million Unknown Children of Congo
Sylvie M'Chihebeyi, citizen of Nalubuze
Mapendo M'Gerenge, citizen of Nalubuze
KEY TERMS
Banyamulenge:
A Tutsi-Congolese ethnic group (not a militia).
CNDP:
National Congress for the Defense of People (in French,
Congrès National pour la Défense du Peuple
), a Tutsi-Congolese militia lead by General Laurent Nkunda.
FARDC:
The Armed Forces of the Democratic Republic of the Congo, or the Congolese Army (in French,
Forces Armées de la République Démocratique du Congo
).
FDD:
Forces for the Defense of Democracy (in French,
Forces pour la Défense de la Démocratie
), a Burundian militia.
IDP:
Internally Displaced Person. Someone who has been forced to leave his or her home. Similar to the term “refugee,” but IDPs have not crossed any international borders.
Interahamwe or FDLR:
Democratic Liberation Forces of Rwanda (in French,
Forces Démocratiques de Libération du Rwanda
). A Rwandan Hutu militia linked to the 1994 Rwandan Genocide. Also known as the Interahamwe, “those who kill together.”
Kabila, Joseph:
President of the Democratic Republic of the Congo since January 2001. Son of Laurent Kabila.
Kabila, Laurent:
President of the Democratic Republic of the Congo from 1997 until January 2001, when he was assassinated.
Kagame, Paul
: President of Rwanda since 2000.
LRA:
The Lord's Resistance Army. Ugandan rebel group based in far north-eastern Congo.
Mai Mai
: A Congolese militia, or “local defense force,” known for its members' use of traditional African medicine. Translates to “Water Water” in Swahili.
Mobutu Sese Seko:
Dictatorial president of Congo (then known as Zaire) from 1967 to 1997.
MONUC:
United Nations Organization Mission in the Democratic Republic of the Congo (in French,
Mission de l'Organisation des Nations Unies
). United Nations peacekeeping force in Congo.
NGO:
Nongovernmental Organization. Nonprofit organization that is not affiliated with any government or political party. Many advance humanitarian causes.
Nkunda, Laurent:
Tutsi Congolese general who was head of the CNDP until 2009, when he was captured and arrested by Rwandan troops.
Rasta:
A militia comprised of former Interahamwe and Congolese.
RCD:
Rally for Congolese Democracy. Rwanda-backed militia that sparked the 1998 “RCD War,” and later morphed into a political party.
UN:
United Nations
UNHCR:
United Nations High Commission on Refugees.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
HOW DO I BEGIN?
Thousands of people have been the lifeblood of this story. My deep appreciation goes out to everyone who has played a part, large or small. These acknowledgments just start to scratch the surface.
Very special thanks to my parents. To my mom, Ann Shannon, an unsung hero for women in the Congo. Run for Congo Women would not have happened without your undying support, unconditional love, dogged work, and lifelong lessons in compassion. And to my father, Stewart Shannon, who never failed to see the beauty underlying even the most terrifying places in the human spirit. Though you died before I could even pick Congo out on a map, you have nonetheless been my silent guide though all of it. What a rare treasure to have had a man of your depth and compassion as my father.
I extend my deep gratitude to Zainab Salbi for founding an organization with such heart and vision, for providing endless encouragement, for being my personal hero, and especially for being among the first in the world to serve Congolese women and to bring their stories to the world's attention. Deep gratitude also to Oprah Winfrey, Lisa Ling, and Liz Brody for telling the stories no one else would touch, and to Nancy Haught, Michelle Hamilton,
Jerome McDonnell, and Megan McMorris for their critically important early press coverage of Run for Congo Women.
Thank you to Alice Walker, for wise words at exactly the right moments, and to Lisa Jackson for being a mentor, a friend, and one of the first grassroots voices for Congo.
Thank you to every Run for Congo Women organizer past and present, including Geni Donnelly, Jen Parsons, Amy Hing, Gisela Ferrer, Monica Ianelli, Marya Garskof, Tracy Ronzio, Tracey Dennis, Lynda Hermsmeyer, Mary Jo Burkhart, Robin Potawsky, Ranny McKay, Stephanie Bond, Shannon Sansoterra, Susan and Laurie Rumker (I can't wait to see the woman you become!), Becca Loring, Jesse Cox, Kristine Lebow, Ariel Sherman-Cox, Francisca Thelin, Zan Tibbs, Christina Pagetti, Tonya Sargent, Sara Ryan, Holly Gerloff, Monica Hunsberger, Lynda Sacamano, Carrie Kehoe, Nita Evele, and Carrie Crawford. Thanks to Jerry and Kristianyi Jones and Emily Deschanel for their critical early and continued support.

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