Carnal Isræl: Reading Sex in Talmudic Culture (29 page)

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Authors: Daniel Boyarin

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shepherd for his only ewe-lamb. The wife is the ewe, in the biblical parable, as well as in our parabolic life of Rabbi Akiva and Rachel.
There is another important biblical intertext here, the story of Jacob and his marriages. There also, the hero is a shepherd in love with his master's daughter. There also, the father opposes the match. There also, the shepherd works for two periods of a number of years to win her, and there also, the daughter is named Rachel. Moreover, that shepherd's name, Ya''qov, is an almost perfect anagram of our hero's name, spelt in Hebrew 'Aqyva. We have, accordingly, very strong support for the suggestion that the pattern of Rabbi Akiva's marriage and particularly the shepherd-ewe relationship is being encoded in this story as a marriage ideal for Jews.
I have gone on at some length to establish the cultural emotional background of the association of husband with shepherd and wife with ewe on which the talmudic story is built. As subservient as the ewe-wife is, she is not denigrated or despised in this encoding. Indeed, she is both loved and honored when she knows her place. The text recognizes her subjectivity; at least in theory she has the power to accept or reject the absence of her husband for study. She chooses, of course, to accept. Indeed, she is the original motivating force for him to go away to study Torah. This moment constitutes a crisis as well as a crux in the story.
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Up until then, Rachel is the agent of the narrative. It is she who "becomes engaged to Rabbi Akiva," she who marries him in the winter, not he who marries her. This is a reflection of the class-coding of the story; she as the patrician holds the upper hand. He is a poor shepherd, while she is the daughter of his master. However, at the moment that he reveals his potential as a Torah-scholar by drawing the proper moral of the incognito advent of Elijah, she exercises her agency for the last time by abdicating it. She sends him to study. From here on, the class code is superseded by the learning code, which is (almost ineluctably) a gender code. At this point he becomes, as it were, her pastor. It is self-understood and beyond question that what a Jewish wife desires is a husband learned in the Torah.
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The love of Rabbi Akiva for her is marked twice in the story, in very powerful ways, in the poignant wish of the poor shepherd to give his
33. Some critics have in fact suggested that two originally unconnected texts have been joined here. In good formalist tradition, I will argue that the story is a unity, and the gap in the sujet is homologous with a sharp transition in the fabula.
34. See also Fränkel (1981, 113) on this point.
 
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bride a very expensive gift and then in the dramatic statement to the students, that: "That which is mine and that which is yours is really hers!" It is this double effecton the one hand, encoding a self-abnegation on the part of women, but on the other hand rewarding that self-abnegation with great prestigethat enabled this story to have the normative effect that it had in Jewish culture. A formation that did not offer powerful social rewards to women for behaving in this way could not have been as successful in achieving the hegemony that this role model for women did achieve among Jews.
A coda, added in the version of the Rabbi Akiva story in Ketubbot, makes even more explicitly manifest the political function of those stories:
The daughter of Rabbi Akiva also behaved in this manner towards Ben-Azzai. And this fits the popular saying, "Ewe follows eweas the mother, so the daughter!"
This remark makes explicit for the first time the pun on the name of "Rachel" meaning "ewe." More to the point, however, is the ideological work that this little epilogue is performing. First of all, the story solves the problem of the recalcitrant Ben-Azzai, who refused to marry because his soul desired Torah, by domesticating him. Even he got married in the end and became a married monk. There really is no tension, the text implies, between marriage and lust for learning; all you need is the right kind of wife. The story encodes the extreme model of Rachel as an ideal for Jewish womanhood and not as an exception, and indeed the practice of husbands leaving their wives for very extended periods to study Torah was current in some communities (and a theme of literature) until the early twentieth century, since when it seems to have been abandoned.
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In any case, in certain circles of traditional Jews, the story of Rachel still remains a powerful ideological force, as witness the following recent statement by a prominent and popular Orthodox teacher: "Much of what happened to Rachel remains in obscurity, as she herself preferred. Her joy was in his triumph, which, in barely twenty years, exceeded all that she could ever have imagined" (Steinsaltz 1988, 165). The romance of Rabbi Akiva
35. Note that this notice of Rachel's daughter as the wife of Ben-Azzai contradicts the text cited above and other traditions that hold that Ben-Azzai remained unmarried; the discrepancy only emphasizes all the more the ideological function of the stories.
 
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