Carnal Isræl: Reading Sex in Talmudic Culture (30 page)

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Authors: Daniel Boyarin

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and Rachel is thus historical in precisely the sense that Eva Cantarella argues that the Homeric epics are historical:
For all the centuries of the so-called Hellenic Middle Ages, the
aidoi
and
rhapsodoi,
singing the deeds of their ancestors, fulfilled not only a recreational function but an important pedagogical one as well. They taught the Greeks what to feel and think, what they should be, and how they should behave. As men learned from the
epos
to adapt themselves to the model of the hero, so women listening to the poets learned what sort of behavior they should adopt and what they should avoid. It is in this sense that the
Iliad
and the
Odyssey
are considered historical documents.
(Cantarella 1987, 25)
Our romantic historical fiction is a historical document in precisely this sense. The romance of Rabbi Akiva and Rachel is foundational for the two-edged sword of European Jewish patriarchal culture, which often gave women much power and prestige in the "secular" realm while denying them participation in the religious sphere. My great-grandmother ran a large lumber business while her husband devoted himself to the study of Torah. Such is the cultural power that the figure of Rabbi Akiva commands.
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All was not smooth, however, in the innovation of the practice of the married monk. The Talmud itself shows us the cracks just under the surface of the utopian solution. The amount of conflict that the new social practice engendered is marked by the astonishing final story in the collection, which is truly one of the most appalling stories of a Rabbi's behavior in the Talmud. After reading it, we are not at all surprised at the cultural
36. He lived, at any rate, at home, but into the nineteenth century (!) many young husbands were sent to study away from their wives in perfect imitation of the story of Rabbi Akiva (Biale 1992). (I wonder to what extent the practice of a wife "putting a husband through graduate school," widely practiced as recently as my own formationand by usis a fossilized relic of this Jewish cultural practice. The contribution of Jewish culture, both positive and negative, to post-Reformation European marriage practice has not yet been investigated. Given the wide knowledge by Gentiles in the early modern period, such as Milton, of rabbinic literature, Ithink this issue is not trivial.)
Finkelstein (1964, 80) also sees that this story of Rabbi Akiva is crucial in establishing the practice of married students staying away from home for years on end, but he takes it to mean that Rabbi Akiva actually established the practice, while I, of course, see it as a later Babylonian story that enforces the practice instituted there. For another example of the power of stories about Rabbi Akiva in forming Jewish practice, see Boyarin 1989.
 
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energy that was required to institute such an extreme practice, nor at the necessity to utilize Rabbi Akiva for its production:
Rav Yosef the son of Rava was sent by his father to the House of Study to study with Rabbi Joseph. They set for him six years of study [i.e., he had been married and it was decided that he would be away from home for six years]. After three years, on the Eve of Yom Kippur, he said, "I will go and visit my wife." His father heard and went out to meet him with a weapon. He said to him, "You remembered your whore?"
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They fought, and neither of them got to eat the final meal before the fast.
This shocking tale, with near-unique violence of language and more than a hint of violent behavior between a father and a son, testifies eloquently to the extent of the conflict aroused by the Babylonian innovation associated with Rava's name in his own community of Babylonia. Representing the strife as between Rava and his own son makes that conflict vividly real.
Critique from Without: Palestinian Rejection
The two communities of the Rabbis, in Babylonia and Palestine, were by no means sealed off one from the other. Any cultural currents in one would have been felt as waves in the other. We have already seen that in the Palestinian Talmud no extreme marriage patterns such as that of the Babylonians are contemplated. There is, indeed, further evidence that the Babylonian ideal of rabbinic marriage was not even countenanced. Our Babylonian talmudic text contains three more narratives of rabbis who married and then left their wives for periods of twelve years or more, one of which occurs both in a Babylonian version and in a Palestinian version in Bereshit Rabba. This narrative offers an elegant testing ground for my hypothesis that the practice of marrying and leaving one's wife for extended periods was much more heavily stigmatized in Palestine than in Babylonia. To facilitate comparison, I will present the two stories side by side:
Palestinian Version
Babylonian Version
Hananiah the son of Hakinai and Rabbi Shimon the son of Yohai went to study Torah with Rabbi Akiva in Bnei Berak.
Rabbi Hananiah the son of Hakinai was going to the House of the Rabbi [the study-house] at the end of the wedding of Rabbi
37. A variant in the text reads, "You remembered your dove?" The difference in Hebrew is but one letter. Not surprisingly, the glossator could not stand to leave the text as it was.
 
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