Carnal Isræl: Reading Sex in Talmudic Culture (34 page)

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Authors: Daniel Boyarin

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The midrash goes on to explain the rest of the story. Miriam and Aaron's complaint had to do with the way that Moses was holding himself above themholier than thouin his celibate behavior:
And they said, "Did God speak only to Moses?":
Did He not speak with the Fathers, and they did not withdraw [from sex]?
Did
the Holiness
not speak also with us,
yet we did not withdraw?
To which comes God's reply to them:
If there will be for you a prophet:
Perhaps just as I speak with the prophets in dreams and visions, so I speak with Moses, therefore scripture tells us, "Not so is my servant Moses"except for the ministering angels. Rabbi Yose says, even than the ministering angels.
Mouth to mouth do I speak with him:
Mouth to mouth I told him to withdraw from his wife.
At first blush this midrash seems to be an approbation of the holiness of celibacy and even of celibate marriagea practice well known in certain early Christian circles (Brown 1988). After all, Moses is the highest model of what a human being can achieve in religious life. He chooses to be celibate at a certain point in his life and is very strongly approbated for this by God Himself. Seemingly, then, his celibacy would be an exemplum to the Rabbis themselvesand so, indeed, Finkelstein interprets it (1964, 80), as does David Biale (1989), arguing that the midrash is a support for the practice of extended marital separations.
In fact, I would claim, not only does this text not promote the ideal of celibacy or celibate marriage for the Rabbis, it constitutes a very strong polemic against such a practice or ideal. To see why, we shall need to read the text a little more closely. First, we must realize that the midrash is explicitly and formally
citing
the received tradition of Moses's celibacy. Note that it does not ask how
we
know that Moses had withdrawn from his wife after Sinai, only how Miriam came to know. The midrash thus conveys (and we know for a fact) that the motif of Moses's
mariage blanc
was current in earlier Jewish tradition. In Philo, for example, Moses is the very type of the highly regarded Therapeutae who renounce sex entirely (Fraade 1986, 264). My thesis is that the midrash cites this authoritative and widespread tradition here in order to counter it. By introducing this traditional theme precisely at this point in the midrashic text and not, for example, in the context of accounts of Moses's piety, the midrash has found a means of neutralizing and opposing the ideology of the tradition,
 
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without, however, denying its validity entirelysomething the Rabbis apparently could not have accomplished given its widespread authority.
God's condemnation of Miriam and Aaron is explicitly put into terms that emphasize the exceptional nature of the relationship between Moses and God. Miriam and Aaron seem to be proposing that since they have the same status as Moses, having also spoken with God, either they should also refrain from sex or he should not. God's rebuke to them consists of a very strong statement that Moses is specialindeed, unique. There will be other prophets, just like Miriam and Aaron, but to them God will speak in dreams and visions. They, accordingly, are not required to refrain from sexual intercourse. Even the Patriarchs, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, were not expected or allowed to be celibate. Only Moses, with whom God spoke "mouth to mouth"in itself, a highly erotic attributeonly he was required to withdraw from marital life. He is either only slightly below the angels or even more spiritual than they, and no other human being was ever like him. It would follow, of course, a fortiori, that mortals lesser than the Patriarchs, prophets, and Moses's siblings, whatever the degree of holiness to which they aspire, are not expected to be celibate. I read the midrashic text, then, as a form of opposition to the received tradition that Moses was a celibate husband. To neutralize the force of this authoritative motif, the midrash simultaneously cites it and contests it by marginalizing it as the practice expected of, and permitted to, only Moses in all of history. Thus the midrash manages both to remain faithful to a powerful received tradition and at the same time to counter it. When this point is combined with the vivid expression of empathy with the neglected wife of the "prophet" who opts for celibacy, we have a robust polemical statement against the sort of practice that the Babylonian Rabbis engaged in (or at any rate, say they engaged in) of leaving their wives for years on end without sexual companionship.
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Once more, comparing the Babylonian version of this tradition with the Palestinian text just read will reinforce this point. In the Babylonian Talmud, the story is cited thus:
Moses separated himself from his wife. What did he reason? He reasoned for himself by a syllogism (
Qal wehomer
). He said: If to Israel,
47. The dating of the midrash is contested. Paradoxically, I am among those who are inclined to regard it as earlier than the Babylonian Talmud, in which case it could hardly be a polemic against the practice that I am claiming was instituted by the
(footnote continued on the next page)
 
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