The Whole Lesbian Sex Book
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Authors: Felice Newman
Tags: #Health & Fitness, #Sexuality, #Reference, #Personal & Practical Guides, #Self-Help, #Sexual Instruction, #Social Science, #Lesbian Studies
Table of Contents
chapter two - Desire and Fantasy
What’s Your Fetish?
Run Wild
Make Your Dreams Come True
Nurture Your Libido
Sex + Intimacy
Fantasy
Lesbian Porn
Suggested Web Links
chapter three - Anatomy and Sexual Response
Anatomy
Sexual Response
Sexual Response over a Lifetime
Suggested Web Link
This Is Taking Too Long
If You Can’t Have an Orgasm
Does Viagra Work for Women?
How Do You Come?
Getting Her Off
Multiple Orgasms
Tantra and Extended Orgasms
Ejaculation
Suggested Web Links
chapter five - The Road to Heaven Leads to You
A Love/Hate Relationship
Take a Good Look
Appreciate Yourself
Take It In
Join the Crowd
Get Into Your Body
Somatic Healing
You Are What You Eat
Get a Pelvic Exam
Safer Sex, Please
Be Present
Life Changes
What Will Masturbation Do for You?
The Masturbation Workshop Adventure
Teach Yourself Some New Tricks
How-To’s of Masturbation
Solo Toys
Erotica and Fantasy
How-To’s of Orgasm
Masturbating with a Partner
Suggested Web Links
chapter seven - Communication and Finding Sex Partners
Geography, Not Destiny
Talk Talk Talk
Tongue-Tied?
Who Are You Looking For?
Making Your Move
“No, Thank You”
Personal Ads in Newspapers and Magazines
Sex on the Internet
Play Safe
Sex Parties
Sex Talk Guidelines
Where to Learn More
Suggested Web Links
chapter eight - Sex and Partnership
Erotic Intimacy
What Kind of Sex Life Do You Want, Anyway?
What Kind of Partnership Do You Want?
You Make It Happen
What’s Holding You Back?
Low Libido High Libido One Libido No Libido
What? No Sex?
Find Your Passion
Sexual Community
Keep It Happening
Suggested Web Link
Sensitivity
Teach Your Partner
How-To’s of Breast Play
Nipple Piercings
Toys for Breast Play
The Art of the Hand
Take a Tour
What If Your Hand Gets Tired?
Frottage
How-To’s of Clitoral Stimulation
Genital Piercings
Genital Shaving
How-To’s of Genital Shaving
Toys for Clitoral Play
Clitoral Play—Safely
Where to Learn More
Cunnilingus
Going Down on Your Girl
How-To’s of Cunnilingus
Analingus
How-To’s of Analingus
Positions for Oral Sex
What a Pain in the Neck!
(Detachable) Cocksucking
How to Suck (Detachable) Cock
Oral Sex—Safely
So What’s a Girl to Do?
Suggested Web Links
chapter twelve - Vaginal Penetration
Take a Tour
Finger-Fucking
Vaginal Fisting
Strap-On Dildos
How-To’s of Vaginal Penetration
Positions for Vaginal Penetration
Toys for Vaginal Play
Vaginal Penetration—Safely
Where to Learn More
Suggested Web Link
chapter thirteen - Anal Penetration
Take a Tour
Basic Preparations
Finger-Fucking
Anal Fisting
Strap-On Dildos
How-To’s of Anal Penetration
Toys for Anal Penetration
Anal Penetration—Safely
Where to Learn More
Suggested Web Links
chapter fourteen - Gender (Not Destiny)
What Is Gender?
Intersexuality
Transgender and Transsexual
Partners of Transgendered Women and Men
Sexual Orientation
Playing with the Boys
Butch/Femme
Suggested Web Links
chapter fifteen - Play Nice! (…or Else)
Ouch!!! (Yum…)
Negotiation
Creating the S/M Scene: Ritual and Theater
Pushing the Emotional Edges
Teach Yourself Some New Tricks
How Do You Know What You Want?
Toys for BDSM Play
That Sounds Dangerous!
BDSM Play—Safely
Where to Learn More
Suggested Web Links
chapter sixteen - Play Parties and Public Sex
Commercial Sex
Play Parties
How to Have Fun at a Sex Party
Where to Find Play Parties
Play Party Etiquette
How to Throw a Safer-Sex Party
Suggested Web Link
chapter seventeen - Sex Toys and Accoutrements
How to Choose Sex Toys
Got Your Lube?
Got Your Safer-Sex Supplies?
Does Latex Make You Itch?
How’s Your Budget?
How to Care for Your Toys
Suggested Web Links
chapter eighteen - Safer Sex and Gynecological Health
Talking to Your Doctor About Sex
Gynecological Care
STDs and Gynecological Concerns
What If Your Partner Won’t Use Barriers?
What If You Have an STD?
Suggested Web Links
chapter nineteen - Bibliography
Articles
Books
Magazines
DVDs and Videos
Bisexuality Resources
Butch/Femme Resources
Disability Resources
Health and Safer-Sex Resources
Online Resources
Play Parties and BDSM Organizations
Polyamory Resources
Retail and Mail Order
Sex Education Workshops, Classes, and Resources
Tantra and Bodywork
Transgender and Intersex Resources
Praise for
The Whole Lesbian Sex Book
“Newman’s sex guide for lesbians is superb. Why can’t more heterosexual sex manuals be this good?”
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Library Journal
“Intelligent, sexy, humorous and emotionally savvy. The lesbian sex information you’ve always wanted but could never find.”
—Staci Haines, author of
The Survivor’s Guide to Sex
“A classic.”
—Patrick Califia,
The Advocate
“The most complete, all-questions-answered, savvy guide to lesbian sex. Keep it next to the bed.”
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Good Vibrations
“Urban and diverse in topic, this new guide is a cool drink of water in a drought of good sex info for dykes. This book gives tips, toys and tidings you’ll wonder how you lived without.”
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Toys in Babeland
“The most awesome aspect of this instant sex guide classic is the inclusion of every possible woman in every possible situation. From the pierced blood-playing hard core dyke to the longtime monogamous lesbian lovers who want to bring hot sex back into their lives to the average fabulous American gal just looking for a few ideas to satisfy herself, Felice Newman speaks to us all. Getting off is good, and this book will help you get off better.”
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Bust
“Kinky people may consider themselves past needing sex manuals, but anyone involved in a sexual relationship with a woman, be they male or female, would be well advised to study this book carefully.”
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Skin Two
“Desire, fantasy, every twist and turn of the erotic imagination—it’s all here…”
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Planet Out
“Up-to-date, inclusive, and hot.”
The most thorough and up-to-date lesbian sex guide around. Don’t buy Newman’s book expecting a clone of the genteel
Joy of Lesbian Sex
. The author describes everything in delicious and explicit detail…”