Toygasms! (22 page)

Larger, weighted, and some say more pleasurable than Ben-Wa balls, you insert duotone balls into your vagina to create a great range of pleasure sensations as you move. They come in sets of two or four golfball-sized spheres that are attached by a strong nylon string for easy removal and tugging. The motion is created when a weighted ball bearing inside each one rolls around freely as you walk, creating a subtle, but delicious sensation. And with a vibrator on your clitoris, the balls will quiver rapidly—shooting you to the moon!

“Disco Duck”

Duotone balls can be inserted before a night out on the town—with no fear of them falling out. So now you can boogie down on the dance floor and nobody has to know how you enhance those foot moves—unless you want them to!

Today you can find all kinds of massage oils and lotions—from slippery and unscented to warm and tasty. And you can
even select your slippery potion for your desired motion: erotic massage, anal play, self-pleasure or erection-enhancers!

   
Massage oils and lotions.
Massage oils and lotions come in a variety of scents and flavors: rose, lavender, almond, peach, or unscented. They are either mineral oil-based (so they stay slick for a long time), or glycerin-based (often flavored, but they can get sticky). Some actually heat up when you blow on them, but friction from a good rubbing will warm up most oils. Massage oils are not intended as a sexual lubricant—they can break down the latex in condoms and toys. And lotions tend to have sugar, which can cause yeast infections. For the best overall massage and lube combo, try a flavored lubricant.

   
Flavored lubes.
Perfect for tasty oral sex, you’re sure to find a flavor you like: strawberry-kiwi, piña colada, watermelon chocolate and more. Some even have a cooling (mint) or warming (cinnamon) effect. As the name suggests, these lubes may taste good, but trace amounts of sugar can lead to yeast infections if introduced into the vagina.

   
Topical gels.
Feeling under-stimulated? Apply a topical gel to help increase the sensitivity of your clitoris, penis or
nipples. Some gels have a cooling menthol effect. Others have active ingredients that dilate the blood vessels close to the surface. Once you apply a topical gel, it’s absorbed into the skin and can be difficult to wash out. If this is your first time, start off with a small amount and see whether you like it.

   
Lickable liquids.
Hungry? Horny? Both? Try chocolate body paint, which melts at body temperature, or dash into the kitchen for some honey, syrup, molasses or whipped cream. Don’t forget the maraschino cherries! Lickables are best used in the tub, where cleanup is easier, and your satin sheets and pillow cases are spared!

For the most satisfying dinner parties you’ve ever had, break out a sexy board game or role-playing game and let the fun begin. Widely available on the web and at adult boutiques, these games are designed for the bedroom, bathtub and even group play. Or break out a deck of cards and revive the game of strip poker.

Sadie Sez:

Place a vibrating egg in your massage mitt and give a vibrant hand job!

For a tingly sensation that’ll get your juices flowing, try a waterproof jelly massage mitt. Just lube up the outside, insert your hand, and glide its small jelly nubs across your skin—or your lover’s body. Surprise your lover with the hand job of his life—he’d never have dreamt your soft jelly fingers could feel so good. Then use your other hand to caress his testicles, or play with his nipples. Now switch off between rubbing his treasure to grazing his nipples. Gaze into his eyes and enjoy him enjoying you! Later, take your waterproof mitt into the tub—or lay it on a stack of pillows and a towel for an exciting straddle ’n slide ride!

Tantalize the senses with a long, soft, airy peacock feather. Close your eyes and take turns with your lover, caressing each other’s tender bodies. Glide it all around, from behind the ear, all the way to your lover’s toes. Enjoy the sweet, ticklish, sensual feelings you can only get from feather stimulation.

Are you adventurous enough to try blindfolds, fur-lined wrist ties and ankle restraints? If you enjoy the interplay of power or submission, there are many toys for you and your lover—as long as you both have a deep level of trust, solid communication skills and a “safe signal” to stop or pause any activity.