| · Offer to drive them to their various activities: therapy, music lessons, Alateen meeting. Some mundane parental activities are a golden opportunity to grow closer.
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Whether you are rich, poor, or just getting by, what kids need from a parent is a dependable, predictable, loving presence, and they need a regular schedule when they can count on seeing you. Write down a plan for the next few months of when you will be doing something fun together.
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If you don't feel much acceptance of your situation in your heart right now, know that if you will let yourself write out practical ideas for making the best of things as they are, you are creating the conditions of acceptance in your consciousness. You can also create acceptance by looking forward to the time when your children are beyond the current crisis. You will have a new, freer relationship with your children when they are adults. You will get through this phase of life.
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