Authors: Emily Nagoski
Frenulum,
23
Freud, Sigmund,
275
Garden metaphor,
333
on anatomy,
38
–39
on arousal nonconcordance,
220
–22
on body self-criticism,
166
on context,
83
,
94
,
323
on cultural context,
154
–55
on desire,
224
–25,
255
–57
on dual control model,
69
on
expecting, eagerness, and enjoying
systems,
90
–91
on love,
148
–49
on meta-emotions,
328
on trauma,
130
–31
Genderqueer sexual functioning,
8
Genital fold,
19
Genitals.
See also
Anatomy; individual organs
metaphorization of,
17
,
38
,
60
,
210
,
276
size of,
15
–16,
205
–6
Genital swelling,
19
Genital tubercle,
19
Germer, Christopher,
182
Glamour
(magazine),
161
Glans clitoris,
20
–21,
22
,
27
Glans penis,
19
,
21
,
22
Goals, changing,
324
–25
Goldstein, Andrew,
320
Goldstein, Irwin,
320
Good Enough Sex (GES) model,
365
n
9
Gottman, John,
75
,
80
,
134
,
142
,
201
,
239
–42,
283
,
310
–11,
320
Graham, Cynthia,
73
Gravity, emotional center of,
142
–43,
237
Grooming and self-care,
122
–23
Groundhog Day
(film),
233
–34
G-spot,
274
Haidt, Jonathan,
171
Haines, Staci,
128
Half the Sky
(Kristof and WuDunn),
232
Hallucinations
(Sacks),
295
Harlow, Harry,
134
–35
Healing
from body self-criticism,
166
choosing,
144
with nonjudging,
316
–17
Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma
(Haines),
127
–28
Health at Every Size (HAES),
168
,
169
Health at Every Size: The Surprising Truth about Your Weight
(Bacon),
169
Heart rate, raising,
246
Hedwig and the Angry Inch
(musical),
131
Heiman, Julia,
266
Henderson, Bobby,
211
Hess, Amanda,
206
–7
Hitchens, Christopher,
132
Hite Report, The,
158
,
362
n
12
Holstege, Gert,
282
Homologues,
21
,
23
,
26
,
28
,
30
,
35
,
274
,
275
,
277
defined,
20
intersex,
32
Hormones
desire and,
16
,
226
,
238
–39,
360
n
20
masculinizing,
18
“How Can I Keep from Singing?” (hymn),
292
How to Think More about Sex
(de Botton),
209
Hymen,
27
–29,
31
,
277
,
347
n
4
Ideal Marriage: Its Physiology and Technique
(van de Velde),
157
–58
Identity, connecting desire to,
248
–49,
250
–51
Iggy Pop study,
80
–81,
84
,
88
,
117
,
202
,
237
–38,
252
,
326
,
351
n
18
Imperforate hymens,
28
Implicit learning,
85
–86
Incentive motivation system,
230
–31,
232
Inner labia.
See
Labia minora
Insecure attachment style,
139
–41
Integration,
283
,
284
Intercourse, orgasm during.
See
Orgasm, through vaginal penetration
Intersex persons,
32
,
347
–48
n
7,
8
Isolation,
178
Jane Eyre
(Bronte),
134
Janssen, Erick,
4
,
48
Jobs, Steve,
238
Johnson, Sue,
135
,
137
,
142
,
319
Johnson, Virginia,
43
,
46
,
269
,
361
n
2
Journaling,
122
Kabat-Zinn, Jon,
130
Kahneman, Daniel,
48
Kaplan, Helen Singer,
45
–46,
230
Kegel muscle,
44
Kinsale, Laura,
136
Kinsey, Alfred,
361
n
2
Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction,
4
,
48
,
332
Kringelbach, Morten,
84
Kristof, Nicholas,
232
Kung Fu Panda
(film),
334
–35
Laan, Ellen,
194
Labia,
20
,
23
,
26
Labia majora (outer labia),
17
,
19
,
20
,
26
,
27
,
44
Labia minora (inner labia),
19
,
22
,
26
,
27
,
44
Laboratory studies,
43
–44
Lactation,
117
Laurie (composite),
7
,
149
,
283
,
299
arousal nonconcordance and,
215
–16
body self-criticism and,
153
–54
context and,
76
–77
cultural messages and,
186
desire and,
225
,
242
–43
dual control model and,
42
–43,
68
–69
meta-emotions and,
293
–94,
299
,
328
–30
pressure to have sex and,
36
–37,
272
–73