Authors: Emily Nagoski
stress and,
137
–38
League of Their Own, A
(film),
196
Lesbian sex.
See
Merritt (composite)
Lie detector research,
206
Little monitor,
234
–38,
240
,
257
criterion velocity and (
see
Criterion velocity)
influencing,
236
–38,
320
–25
jobs of,
234
meta-emotions and,
297
,
298
–300,
308
,
320
–25
orgasm and,
281
,
285
–86,
289
Lloyd, Elisabeth,
276
–77,
278
Loneliness,
165
LoPiccolo, Joseph,
266
Love at Goon Park
(Blum),
135
Love/attachment,
6
,
94
,
112
,
113
,
131
–49
dark side of,
134
–36
eagerness
and,
86
,
132
,
133
,
135
,
137
managing,
141
–44
origin of,
131
–32
science of,
132
–34
stress and,
144
–49
styles of,
139
–41
as the water of life,
146
–49
Love/emotional bonding cues,
72
Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships
(Johnson),
142
,
319
Lubricants,
170
,
218
–20
Lubrication,
27
,
28
,
30
–32,
44
.
See also
Arousal nonconcordance
Maltz, Wendy,
128
Maps.
See
Sexual maps
Married Love
(Stopes),
160
Masters, William,
43
,
46
,
269
,
361
n
2
Masturbation,
15
,
174
–75,
274
,
362
–63
n
12
therapeutic,
339
–41
Mating in Captivity
(Perel),
240
,
241
McBride, Kimberly,
73
McCall, Katie,
72
–73
McCarthy, Barry,
365
n
9
Media literacy,
156
,
183
–84
Media Message,
156
,
158
,
184
,
206
,
304
,
306
content of,
160
–61
on orgasm,
288
sexual scripts and,
300
Medical Message,
156
,
158
,
184
,
206
content of,
160
on orgasm,
288
sexual scripts and,
300
Medieval anatomists,
16
–17,
205
Meditation,
122
,
285
–86,
313
Men
anatomy of,
17
,
18
–20,
19
,
21
,
22
arousal concordance in,
193
–94,
195
,
196
,
203
–5,
222
,
294
desire in,
225
dual control system of,
47
,
60
–61,
64
–66
orgasm in,
2
sexual comparison with women,
2
–3,
35
sexual entitlement in,
232
sexuality of as “default” standard,
203
,
206
,
229
,
244
,
275
,
276
,
297
,
308
Men’s Sexuality Lite (women’s sexuality as),
2
,
66
,
276
Menstrual cycle,
31
,
65
,
117
Merritt (composite),
7
,
149
,
299
arousal nonconcordance and,
201
–2
context and,
82
–83
cultural messages and,
172
–74
desire and,
225
,
250
–51
dual control model and,
63
–64
meta-emotions and,
323
–24
orgasm and,
265
–66,
291
–92
self-exploration by,
24
–25
sexual assault of,
147
–48
stress and,
111
–12
Mesolimbic system,
83
,
90
,
132
Meta-emotions,
293
–330
acceptance of status quo and,
326
–28
emotion coaching and,
310
–12
emotion dismissing and,
310
–12,
318
–20
the little monitor and,
297
,
298
–300,
308
,
320
–25
maps
vs.
terrain and,
297
,
300
–308
nonjudging and (
see
Nonjudging)
Metson, Cindy,
72
–73
Metz, Michael,
365
n
9
Microperforate hymens,
28
Milhausen, Robin,
73
,
155
Mindfulness,
268
,
313
self-compassion and,
178
stress relief and,
122
trauma relief and,
128
,
129
–31,
150
,
317
Mindful Way through Depression, The
(Williams et al.),
129
–30
Miscarriage,
117
Mitchell, John Cameron,
131
Monkeys, studies involving,
134
–35
Monogamy,
226
,
238
,
239
–42
Mons pubis,
29
“Monster mother” studies,
134
–35
Moral Foundations Theory,
171
Moral Message,
156
,
184
,
206
,
305
,
306
content of,
158
–59
on orgasm,
288
sexual scripts and,
300
Myotonia,
44
Nagoski, Amelia,
133
–34,
304
–6
Neff, Kristin,
178
New York Times,
194
,
296
Nipples,
20
,
28
,
31
,
44
,
277