Toygasms! (10 page)

Dildos and cunnilingus. What a combo! Together with a dollop of water-based lube (flavored lube masks the purity of the girl juice), you’ll both be in seventh heaven.

Guys:
As your tongue begins to work its magic, begin teasing the insides of her thighs with the toy. Remember that anticipation is your most powerful seduction sauce. Now lube up the tip, and bring it to the vaginal opening. Don’t stop licking! Slowly penetrate, moving the toy deeper or until she tells you you’ve found the right spot. Some women like simply being filled up, others like gentle or vigorous thrusting. Remember, communication is the key, so ask! Now gyrate the dildo while you keep licking, you unbelievable sex god!

“Combo Plate”

Lying on your back with your lover beside you, have him reach over with the lubed dildo to rub your clitoris, vulva and vaginal opening. Then the thrusting begins. With his other arm supporting your neck, his hand can caress your breasts and gently pinch your nipples (if you like that.). Now he’s free to stretch upward to kiss your mouth, neck and delicately lick the edges or inside of your ear. The combination of the three point play is guaranteed to make you tingle!

“Squatter’s Rights”

On a clean, smooth, hard, horizontal surface—like bathroom tile—place a few plush towels under your knees, and stick a suction cup dildo to the floor. Using lots of lube, penetrate yourself, grinding up and down. From behind, encourage your lover to caress your
favorite erogenous zones—the back of your neck, behind your ears, breasts, nipples, clitoris—even fondle and gently pull your hair, or clutch your hips and help you with the pumping action. A vibrator is an excellent addition to this scenario. Your lover will love watching you.

“Worship Me”

With your lover kneeling before you, raise one leg up on a sturdy chair or coffee table. Have your lover penetrate you with a well-lubed toy, while using the other hand to stroke your clitoris. Thumb-stroking with gentle pressure is ideal, since his opposable thumb is at the perfect angle while offering longer manual endurance. Since his mouth should now be about breast-high, you’re in perfect position for delicious nipple sucking and breast kissing. As he varies the speed and pressure creatively, the worship will pay off.

Many women reach adulthood without ever discovering the orgasmic potential of the G-spot—yet it’s a highly erogenous area that can give you very special orgasms.

To locate your G-spot, insert a finger just inside your vaginal opening, hooking your fingertip slightly as if to make a “come here” gesture. Just past the edge of the pubic bone, feel for a small spongy area under the surface of the upper part of your vaginal wall.

If you don’t find it immediately—don’t worry—it’s there. You’ll probably have to try different types of stimulation to turn it on. In fact, many women who know where to find their G-spot still need the help of a toy or their partner to get maximum pleasure from it. So relax, take a deep breath, and start exploring.

Once you’ve located your G-spot, you’re in for a whole new type of orgasmic fun—and there are many special toys created especially for it, so you can unlock your G-spot orgasms in ways your fingers can hardly match.

“G-Wiz”

If your G-spot is your gee-spot—and you’re also an oral sex lover—ecstasy is about to rise to a whole new level. Obtain a curved glass dildo that’s got a glass ball at each end. After lubricating the toy with a water-based lube, grab a sturdy hold of one end, and penetrate yourself with the other till it is firmly nestled into your G-spot. Then delicately rotate the arched toy to the side, giving your lover just enough access to lick and lap your pleasure button—all while you’re still hitting the G-spot.

“Gia Pet”

If you’ve never experienced internal and external G-spot stimulation at the same time, get ready for a new orgasmic experience. Start with a firm, well-lubed G-spot dildo. As you both work it up inside you till it’s pleasurably in place against your G-spot, have your lover place his hand above your mons veneris and apply firm inward pressure toward your pubic bone. This will compress the area slightly, increase
pressure on your G-spot, and send you through the skylight (if you didn’t have a skylight before, you will now!). Continue on with creative exploration, such as clitoral massage and oral love.

V
ibrator: Any device or sex toy that has an electrical or mechanical movement designed to arouse or soothe. Vibrators come in a variety of shapes for topical use, or phallic-shaped for topical use and penetration.

Vibrators can open a whole new world of pleasure in your sex life. They’re perfect for delivering intense pleasure to the clitoris and vulva, with a level of stimulation and orgasm-inducing power unlike any other toy.

Vibrators come in a variety of designs, from body massagers to lifelike double-headed thangs to special gloves with vibrating fingertips. Available in two broad categories, plug-in electrical vibrators tend to be more powerful (and won’t lose juice at critical moments!), while battery-powered models are smaller, more portable, less expensive and even waterproof.