Threesomes: For Couples Who Want to Know More (7 page)

An ordinary night out will turn into an extraordinary night of adventure and hot pursuits when you and your boyfriend go out looking for the hot lady who’s going to give you both a lot of pleasure. It’s all up to you and what you want because chances are your man will be happy with almost anyone you choose to be with.

Bars are more ideal than parties because of the anonymity factor. The two of you are going on a very sexy and private adventure, and no one you know needs to be privy to it.

Be deliciously reckless and spontaneous. As you and your man are at the bar—and remember, stay by the bar and not at a table; it’s difficult to be social when you’ve separated yourselves from the main flow of traffic—check out the scene and when you see a potential match, make the first contact yourself and initiate a conversation in the same way you would with a woman at the gym, clothing store, or at your office.

Smile at her, compliment her, and be very friendly—a bit friendlier than you would usually be; you want your would-be lover to know somewhat what’s on your mind from the get-go.

And have your boyfriend jump in and agree with what you’re saying: “Yes, that is a very sexy dress,” he could say. “We both love women in those wrap dresses; they’re so flattering to a curvy figure.”

Don’t suggest going to the stranger’s house. Lots of single women have roommates, although there are obviously many who don’t and would prefer to party in their own environment.

But if it’s you who is asking your woman out, so to speak, it’s better to play the host and invite her over to your place to continue the party. Suggest some wine, music, and getting cozier there. If you’ve planned this properly you’ll have all the proper tools at your homestead: condoms, lube, music that you like, your favorite beverages, and snacks.

Keep it on your terms by doing this in your own comfort zone. You’ve decided to throw a very special erotic party, it’s best to do it where you feel the most relaxed—your own home. Whisk your woman and boyfriend away in a cab and go for it.

Sure, it could be like in the movies, and the minute you get home you could all start mauling each other. Heck, it could even start in the cab, with your new friend sitting between you and you both starting in on her right away by kissing her neck on one side and fondling her legs on the other.

Sometimes pretense just seems pointless, so if you’re ready to roll, then by all means roll. But then again, life isn’t always like the movies, so you need to make your moves with a little more finesse.

Once you get back to your place, immediately make your pretty guest feel right at home and wanted. Be hospitable, offer her a drink, ask her what her favorite tunes are (you can have your man play DJ, it’s good to give him a job that keeps him occupied), dim the lights, and light candles, incense, the works. Create a very sexy environment for all three of you. The seduction you give to one person shouldn’t be any different than the seduction you set up for two.

Positioning is everything to get it started. Sit together, with your new friend in the middle. Or if you want to make sure you stay the star of this show, then you sit in the middle with your guy on one side and your girl on the other and work up to the two of them touching slowly and gradually. Sit close to her with your knees touching, make a toast to new friends and good times, and tell her you’re glad she came over and joined you. Tell her how you love her perfume and lean into her neck or even her cleavage to get a good smell. When you pick up your head you could go in for a kiss. Slowly, sweetly, and gently, treat this woman the way you would want to be treated. This is a new and exciting experience, so savor it all and take your time, there’s no rush.

After you’ve kissed her and she reciprocates, start enjoying her face and body. Stroke and play with her long hair while your boyfriend rubs her neck gently. Spoil her with nice, slow touches, tease her a little and make her involuntarily moan and mew with pleasure.

Put the palm of your hand against her breast and lightly make circles until you find her erect nipple. Ask her whether she likes it and whether you should continue. While her eyes are closed and her head is back, keep sexy eye contact with your boyfriend and let him know you’re liking this very much. Ask him if he’d like you to pull up her shirt and play with her breasts, then before he can answer—and he may hardly be able to say a word in sheer ecstasy—lean over and get started by answering the question yourself and start fondling her.

Keeping eye contact and whispering sexy things to your boyfriend and to your new friend again helps you keep control of the situation and lets everyone know that you are in charge.

Ask her whether you can get more comfortable and take off your shirt and guide her hand on your body. Ask her if she likes how you feel. Put your hand between her legs and say to your boyfriend, “Oh, she’s getting wet. Do you want to feel her wet little pussy, baby?”

Another way to get things started is to get up after a little chatting and invite her to dance with you. The music doesn’t have to be sentimental; a nice groove would do just fine. Put your arms around her waist and move with her, work up to closer contact, nuzzle her hair and her neck, tell her how smooth her skin is, how nicely her waist fits in your hands. Make her purr and she will become intoxicated with you and your actions. You’re doing this to experience the pleasure of being with a woman, so enjoy her feminine figure and softness.

Keep it going with the two of you alone for a bit, and, again, lean in for a soft kiss, not necessarily open-mouthed right away, but to feel the softness of her full lips. Rub your cheek gently across hers.

Your boyfriend will be watching very, very closely and getting highly aroused, so tease and tantalize him for awhile and let him enjoy the view. You have instructed him on manners and behavior before going ahead with this, so he knows not to just whip it out and stroke it like he’s home watching porn.

Give him a sweet, sweet torture—you’ll feel the power of your erotic behavior pulse through the room and give you a buzz like you’ve never known before. And then when you think the time’s right, signal him over her shoulder to get up and join the two of you while you’re nibbling her delicious neck.

He could be behind her, holding her hips and swaying with the two of you, or he could have his arms stretched out and hold you, pulling her nice and snug between the two of you so she can feel his erection. Get used to the rhythm of the three of you being one quivering, electrified being, and again take your time, go slow, and just sink into each other.

Reach over and stroke your boyfriend’s face and hair. Kiss your lady friend, dropping her head back into the crook of his neck and shoulders while he licks and nibbles her ear and neck. Place your hand on her breast while you stroke the other through your clothes. Whisper sexy things, ask her if she likes this, ask her if it feels good, and ask your boyfriend whether his hard cock feels nice against her beautiful round ass.

And then maybe it’s time to start slowly disrobing your girl. Put her hands on your body, on your breasts, inside your dress or top. Guide her hand to your erect nipple and see if she starts stroking you. Take her arms and have her reach around to your man and tell her to squeeze his ass. Be playful, be sensual.

If you don’t want her to kiss your man, that’s perfectly alright, but then you must pick up the slack and do the kissing yourself, which you’ll probably enjoy because you may never have kissed a girl before and you’ll be enjoying the feel of her tongue and mouth.

Tell her you love the way she kisses and encourage her to keep it going with you while your boyfriend continues to touch her, stroke her, and rub himself slowly against her. Then reach over and feel his hard cock, maybe change positions and put yourself in the middle and enjoy feeling their roaming hands and tongues all over you. Face your boyfriend and have your lady put her arms around you and have her kiss your neck and ears. Put her hands on your breasts while you make out with your boyfriend, then work her hands lower and lower as you do the same to your man.

Surely at this point, he’s so hard he’s ready to burst through his pants, so maybe you should ask him if the two of you can see his big hard cock. Release him from his clothing bondage and stroke him up and down, and let her see it, and ask her if she wants to touch him too. “He’s so hard and turned on by us, feel just how horny we make him.”

It’s your home, it’s your experience, so you don’t necessarily have to go the boring bedroom route, and you may want to keep your bed for just you and your man. You also may not want to initiate an uncomfortable sleepover. You want your guest to feel comfortable and relaxed, but maybe not that much. Since this is all fun and play, consider keeping it in the living room. Don’t break the mood or movement for a second. You could have some blankets and pillows handy to stretch out on your rug and or to spread on your couch.

So once clothing is being shed, keep taking the lead and playing sexy hostess. Put a glass of wine to her lips for a little revitalization and moisture and then go in for a deep, long kiss. Ease her clothes off, ask her to turn around, and you and your boyfriend can check out her body, play with her ass, and give it a half-hearted smack or two. Bring her back to the couch and have her sit back while you and your boyfriend suck on her nipples and take turns massaging her clit.