101 Nights of Great Sex (18 page)

Flaunt it.
Walk in front of your mirror: shoulders back, ass out, hips
working
it. The more confident you are, the sexier you seem.

Tonight, you sparkle. Use shimmering body lotion. And since Cuban women are conscious of their sex appeal 24/7, adorn your body with jewelry. Wear gold or silver hoop earrings. Slide on some tiny metal bangles–the ones that jingle when they fall together.

To set the mood, put on Cuban music and turn up the thermostat. This is a night in Havana, baby, and Havana is
muy caliente
. Mix a couple of
Cuba Libres
(That’s Rum & Coke!), have your guy sit in a chair, and start moving your hips to the beat. He doesn’t care if you’re dancing authentic Salsa Cubana or the Electric Slide; you’re shaking your assets for him, and that’s turning him on.

Tell him to undress while you watch, and then to lie on the bed. Strip slowly, taking off everything except for your jewelry. Crawl up his body toward his face, your nipples grazing his skin. Straddle his head and lower yourself to his mouth. Close enough so your lips touch, but not too close. “Kiss me here.” Keep your clitoris just in front of his tongue. “That’s it, that’s so good...” Focus on moving only your hips until he’s squirming beneath you.

Sweating yet? You
should
be. Your skin should be slick and dewy. Slide your body toward his
chile
. Stay there, rubbing your wetness into his shaft. Lean forward like a jockey and slide onto him. Hold very still and tense your vaginal muscles around his penis ten times slowly, then ten times quickly. Watch his look of surprise when you do—he’s putty in your hands.

Sit up, move your hips in time with the music. Don’t worry about sliding up and down yet; the sensation of your tight wetness pulling him in all directions will amaze him. Raise your arms over your head as you ride him so the bracelets fall together and jingle.

Whatever you do, don’t let him finish. The role of
jinetera
is to keep the
bestia
under her control. When his body signals that he’s close, lift yourself off quickly and continue your dance on his tongue. From shaft to tongue, you control him with your hips and your PC muscles.

Remember, you’re in charge. Don’t stop teasing him until he’s shaking with the effort of holding back. Finally, tell him you want him to come. Keep your eyes locked on his and never let up your grip on his shaft.

He’ll wonder how sex so wild could leave him feeling so tame.

This is the end of this chapter.
Click here
to go back to the Table of Contents

I
LIKE TO THINK THAT WE CAN ALL LEARN A
little something from everyone. Porn stars, for instance. You know what makes some of them much more famous than others? It’s not beauty, or special skills, or freakish physical assets. Well, okay, for a couple of them, it is their freakish physical assets. But the popular ones, the women who actually have significant careers, all have this in common:

They look like they’re enjoying it.

I mean really, really enjoying it. And not in a fake actressy way. They look like they’re getting hot while doing the things that make men hot. Men love this! Some of them actually believe it. And all of them want to believe it. It’s a universal fantasy: I am so incredibly desirable that women get pleasure just by pleasuring me.

This week, you’re going to feed him that fantasy on a platter. Literally. You’re going to give him everything he loves, all his favorite indulgences at once, and he’s going to believe that nothing on earth could make you happier.

What’s his number one vice? Expensive brandy? Cold beer? Cuban Cigars? Something sweet? Bring him that and more on — you guessed it — a platter. Go all out by playing his favorite music and wearing his favorite outfit. Now kneel between his legs. Tell him to go right ahead — eat, drink, enjoy, have all he wants. And then start working that penis like you’ve never worked it before. Treat it like the porn stars do. And make him believe you’re feeling that growing orgasm as much as he is. Let him hear soft moans and heavy breathing. Every so often, look up at him with that half-dazed, my-god-this-feels-good expression, as if you were about to come yourself. Use every trick you know: scratch his sack, massage that sensitive spot behind his balls; slurp and nibble and take in as much as you can, for as long as you can. And remember, it’s supposed to be a double-his-pleasure kind of night, so make sure he really is partaking in his other pleasures while getting pleasured by you!

The e-mail you sent him a few days ago said he’d be “Top Dog” tonight, but this — well, this is top-of-the-world. It’s pure, hedonistic indulgence. It’s luxurious and unrestrained. It’s all the best things in life.

And it’s further proof that the very best thing in
his
life... is you.

This is the end of this chapter.
Click here
to go back to the Table of Contents

S
OME FOODS IGNITE SEXUAL DESIRE
, and wine never fails to set an amorous mood. But tonight what’s on the table will merely be the side dish. The main course is
you
.

Make dinner reservations at your favorite dark, romantic restaurant. Put on that hot little thing you know drives him wild, whether it’s a garter belt with seamed stockings or a corset with a thong. Then top that off with a dress that won’t give away what lies beneath. For your final layer, don a long coat.

Take your man out for a dinnertime surprise. Eat well, give him flirtatious looks, rub his calves with your foot. Feed him little bites off your fork and exchange kisses across the table.

He’ll think that’s all pretty amazing, but wait until you get to the true chef’s special: You’re going to perform a tease-filled twist on every man’s fantasy: you’ll be practically naked in the restaurant, but he’ll be the only one who knows it.

At the end of the meal, excuse yourself to the restroom (take your coat). Inside the restroom, shed your dress and slip on the coat. When you come back to the table, hand him your dress, as nonchalantly as if you’re giving him a napkin. There may be a moment of confusion for him. But watch his face as the realization dawns on him that
you’re almost naked
, right there, in the middle of the restaurant, and you’ve done it all to stoke the fire of his dirty little mind.

As you slide back into your seat, tell him that you heard about a delectable dessert not listed on the menu. Let him know how hot you are, that you’re just dying to take off that suffocating coat, by sticking one leg out toward him as far as you dare, and running your foot up his leg. Tell him you want him to take you to the coatroom, the bathroom, or the parking lot (
anywhere!
) and help you out of your coat like a true gentleman. Flash him just a peek at what you’ve got (or haven’t got) on underneath.

You’ll never hear a faster “Check please!”

This is the end of this chapter.
Click here
to go back to the Table of Contents

T
HERE
’
S A MEMORABLE EPISODE OF
Sex And The City
where Charlotte—the prim and lady-like one—dressed up like a man for a professional photo shoot. An amazing and hilarious thing happened: she found herself getting turned on. In her male disguise, Charlotte discovered a side of herself she had never met. She was less shy and more assertive. Best of all, she started getting what she wanted in the bedroom. To the surprise of everyone, she lost the stick that was stuck in her bottom and started having fun.

Okay, you don’t have to go as far as Charlotte. But why not show your guy a rougher, more aggressive, more sexually charged, more
masculine
side of yourself? It will help to have a costume for your adventure, and there’s a perfect one in his closet. Put on one of his dress shirts. That’s a hot look. In my surveys, one of the top three turn-ons for men was seeing their women wearing their shirts. If they aren’t too big for you, put on a pair of his tighty-whitey underwear. Now use a little gel to slick your hair back into a more severe look. Use eyeliner to draw a subtle hint of sideburns on your face.

Call your man into the bedroom and start modeling your new
GQ
look. Tell him you love to wear his shirts, and you do it often when he’s not around because they remind you of him. In fact, they make you feel sexy. (And hearing that revelation will instantly make
him
feel sexy.)

Now step it up. Put on one of his neckties (a
grey tie
would be perfect). Make him show you how to knot it. Kiss him while he does it, and be as flirtatious as ever, but make sure he senses a definite change in your attitude. You’re bending genders here but let him know it’s all for fun. Start with something funny, like an impression of some guy you both know who’s a jerk. (Your boss, maybe?) Get your man laughing at the image of you acting like a big, silly man.

Do a little man-dance for him. Not so funny this time. Get serious. Let him see “the look” on your face—the look you usually see on
his
face when he really, really wants sex.

Push him down on the bed and climb on top of him. Kiss him hard. Pull down his zipper with one hand and grab his penis with the other. Don’t be gentle, or at least no gentler than men usually are. Tug him until he’s hard. One quick suck is all he gets right now—a promise of more to come. Now be demanding. Straddle his face, pull that white cotton underwear aside and press yourself up against his mouth. Don’t even ask. Just assume that he wants to taste you. Take for granted that he loves to lick you.

Here’s the surprising lesson: He
does
love being taken like this. In all the surveys I have done,
the sexually aggressive woman
is consistently the number one fantasy for men. So keep it up. Take what you want. Slip his shaft into your kitty and ride it your way, at your pace, with your pressure. Let him feel the ol’ wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am from a girl’s perspective.

It’s okay, really. There’s plenty of
wham-bam
to go around.

This is the end of this chapter.
Click here
to go back to the Table of Contents

I
LEARNED A PAINFUL LESSON SEVERAL YEARS AGO
.